I CANT STAY FAITHFUL

[TruLegend32]

i jes always seem to keep fuckin it up...im wit my baby mama and im tryin to make dis shit work but i keep slippin...i jes end up talkin to chicks and den it eventually turns into somethin...and before i kno it..im callin her my girl and shit and im creepin. :smh:

and im in dis situation where me and my baby mama live together and we share a car and shit so its kinda like we stuck wit each other cuz even when we go thru shit like when i get caught up and she want me gone...neither one of us can really jes pack up and go cuz we got so much invested into dis shit...but at da same time..i cant cut these side bitches off cuz sometimes they be da only thing keepin me sane when my baby mama be gettin on my nerves and shit....idk wat to fuckin do

[Artisticfied]

i jes always seem to keep fuckin it up...im wit my baby mama and im tryin to make dis shit work but i keep slippin...i jes end up talkin to chicks and den it eventually turns into somethin...and before i kno it..im callin her my girl and shit and im creepin. :smh:

and im in dis situation where me and my baby mama live together and we share a car and shit so its kinda like we stuck wit each other cuz even when we go thru shit like when i get caught up and she want me gone...neither one of us can really jes pack up and go cuz we got so much invested into dis shit...but at da same time..i cant cut these side bitches off cuz sometimes they be da only thing keepin me sane when my baby mama be gettin on my nerves and shit....idk wat to fuckin do

How you gone be living with someone then all of a sudden meet someone, then you callin her yo girl?

I got some advice for you and a lot of other dudes that can't seem to get the picture already in front of you AND THAT IS REALITY! No person you in a relationship isn't gonna be free of flaw. You just like the rest of these dudes gotta suck it up and understand that is part of GROWING in a relationship.

You can't just be living with someone, got a kid by them then all of a sudden delete them out of your life. When you got a child by someone they have to be your priority. I know dudes that run from their child but will get with another broad and help her take care of someone that doesn't even belong to them.

You must understand that when you do that kind of stuff, most women feed that into their children and use that as a weapon to keep your life a living hell for years to come. You have to understand you aren't the only one who's life has changed, the person that gave up the months to carry your child did the same thing and will be the sole one that has to be with that child while you go out and possibly repeat the same process until you finally put it together and realize talking problems out and getting understanding of one another is the only way to get the problems out the way so you two can get back to where you were when things were good.

I've never heard of a patient person, while their partner KNEW they were out with other people......so if the situation was the other way around how would you feel? Karma is real!

Once you have a child, you gotta grow up and understand anything NOT helping your household or is a benefit to your household IS BULLSHIT! You gotta man up if you wanna stay or be a runaway if you don't

At the same time you gotta realize the same bullshit you doing now, is the same reason why a lot of troubled people grew up in fatherless homes and are making the world the way it is now. Question is do you want your child to be part of that?

[TruLegend32]

How you gone be living with someone then all of a sudden A, then you callin her yo girl?

I got some advice for you and a lot of other dudes that can't seem to get the picture already in front of you AND THAT IS REALITY! No person you in a relationship isn't gonna be free of flaw. You just like the rest of these dudes gotta suck it up and understand that is part of GROWING in a relationship.

You can't just be living with someone, got a kid by them then all of a sudden delete them out of your life. When you got a child by someone they have to be your priority. I know dudes that run from their child but will get with another broad and help her take care of someone that doesn't even belong to them.

You must understand that when you do that kind of stuff, most women feed that into their children and use that as a weapon to keep your life a living hell for years to come. You have to understand you aren't the only one who's life has changed, the person that gave up the months to carry your child did the same thing and will be the sole one that has to be with that child while you go out and possibly repeat the same process until you finally put it together and realize talking problems out and getting understanding of one another is the only way to get the problems out the way so you two can get back to where you were when things were good.

I've never heard of a patient person, while their partner KNEW they were out with other people......so if the situation was the other way around how would you feel? Karma is real!

Once you have a child, you gotta grow up and understand anything NOT helping your A or is a benefit to your household IS BULLSHIT! You gotta man up if you wanna stay or be a runaway if you don't

At the same time you gotta realize the same bullshit you doing now, is the same reason why a lot of troubled people grew up in fatherless homes and are making the world the way it is now. Question is do you want your child to be part of that?

You are absolutely right and sometimes i think i just have a hard time dealing with the rough times that we go through. i know that you have to take the good with the bad but a lot of times when we be goin thru it i jes need a release and not to say that im sleeping around with these other girls or anything, its jes somethin about having the reassurance of having somethin on the side so that when shit gets outta control i can walk away and deal instead of goin off on her or some shit. i dont kno how to explain it, maybe i jes need to grow up and learn how to deal with shit, maybe i jus need to take a step back and figure out what is it that im looking for when i talk to other women when i know i have a wifey at home, idk.......

[second_gear]

it aint like u gone get detention or sum shit. :sips:

[Artisticfied]

You are absolutely right and sometimes i think i just have a hard time dealing with the rough times that we go through. i know that you have to take the good with the bad but a lot of times when we be goin thru it i jes need a release and not to say that im sleeping around with these other girls or anything, its jes somethin about having the reassurance of having somethin on the side so that when shit gets outta control i can walk away and deal instead of goin off on her or some shit. i dont kno how to explain it, maybe i jes need to grow up and learn how to deal with shit, maybe i jus need to take a step back and figure out what is it that im looking for when i talk to other women when i know i have a wifey at home, idk.......

I'll tell you another thing and maybe this will be a broader perspective:

Wouldn't you rather have someone that was "in love and loved you" rather than "being in love and loving someone" that didn't feel the same way about you?

She's probably just upset at the fact you aren't committing enough time with her now that yall have a child or live together, but you still have to be in their presence and let her know that. Get out the house, sit down to dinner, a walk in the park or somewhere to clear that up, fast. You guys have to become a team and the rest will fall in place if you are sharing the load.

[ffphatboy]

I'll tell you another thing and maybe this will be a broader perspective:

Wouldn't you rather have someone that was "in love and loved you" rather than "being in love and loving someone" that didn't feel the same way about you?

She's probably just upset at the fact you aren't committing enough time with her now that yall have a child or live together, but you still have to be in their presence and let her know that. Get out the house, sit down to dinner, a walk in the park or somewhere to clear that up, fast. You guys have to become a team and the rest will fall in place if you are sharing the load.


MUCH RESPECT. Great advice

[BlyackScorpio]

Artisticfied spittin knowledge :bow2:

Good wisdom

[TruLegend32]

Artisticfied spittin knowledge :bow2:

Good A

hell yea...gave a nigga a reality check 4real!!!

[Straight_Drop]

read yo User CP.

[Artisticfied]

Propped the thread

[PsykO]

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