Little or no control

[infamous995]

Any of you guys been in a long term relationship 2 yrs or more and notice how you have lesser and lesser control of the relationship.

its a real blower and a shame. like i only have sex when my shawty wanna do it... i only get head when she wanna do it. like we prob have sex like 1-2 times a week. it used to be 6-10 times a week.

why is it so hard for me to say "i can really use some head right now" and actually fuckin get it. I know she is taker, but there is some point when u should fuckin give.

im tired of this bitch keep sayin im tired. sex is very important to me and loving her is maybe keepin me from going else where, but she is slippin real hard right now.

shawties give me some incite too

[TP2000]

well dude. In a relationship there is a give and take. some women appreciate their position of being able to dictate how the relationship goes and some where along the way you were a lil to compromising and she took it and ran with it. She doesn't seems like she is sensitive to you in the relationship and that is an important thing. You might want to address her on the matter and keep it as a convo no yelling and express your concerns. While it is true females don;t want ot everyday and in a relationship it slows down some there are some woman who will at least give ya head to keep ya happy. It is apart of the give & take and if she a true taker she has to understand for a man to willingly give you anything to take you have to make him believe he is giving it willingly.

[West Coast_Finest]

relationships that work are based on compromising

[REALTALK87]

communicate yourself

[infamous995]

i understand compromising, but like the first guy said I think she ran with it. Another thing i dont like is that she runs her mouth a lil too much for me. She likes to start arguments alot. Many times i wanna hit her lol, but i dont hit woman...that shit is just plain wrong.

[jj171]

On some real if she be telling you that she is tired when you want it .... do the same thing when she wants it. It's minute but its a step towards you getting your power back. Telling her and talking bout shit like that makes everything better. I'm lucky tho my girl is a giver but she loves receiving but i always tell her that is better to give than to receive lol

[damix33]

PUt your foot down. Don't ask her tell her like a man. an if that dont work tell her everything you just said on here. let her no ur pist about this shit

[BAMABUTCHA]

relationships that work are based on compromising

i disagree relationships work best when there is an understanding of "who the boss" is whether that be the male or the female
no doubt at times the roles will swap depending on the situation but the day to day overall alpha should know they are the alpha and the support should know it too
now the question u have to ask urself is "am i the alpha? or is she?" now if the answer is u then u need to tell her "hey how bout some head?" u know take the aggressive approach orthwise if shes the boss just take it n stfu it all work out for the better in any case

and furthermore im hi nevermind me

hope ive been some help.......................:weed: :weed: :weed:

[Artisticfied]

If that is the case, you are gonna have to find something to do more constructive like being gone a lot more away from her, to the point where "she misses you".

You have to just do something to keep you busy or something you like to do to keep your mind occupied when it comes to wanting it.

If she see's you being appreciated by others more, it'll turn in your favor but you gotta put it out of your mind and be more constructive.

[king1924]

honestly she does not want to be with you anymore. We a woman changes that dramatically she is not into you as much as she used to be. Back when you guys met it was new fresh and just full of life, now something has changed in yall relationship. Was it a trust thing? was you not satisfying her sexually?

pm me cuz i went to the same thing a few years ago, and I'll tell you my story

[mamres_vjosa@myway.com]

honestly she does not want to be with you anymore. We a woman changes that dramatically she is not into you as much as she used to be. Back when you guys met it was new fresh and just full of life, now something has changed in yall relationship. Was it a trust thing? was you not satisfying her sexually?

pm me cuz i went to the same thing a few years ago, and I'll tell you my story

EVERYONES SITUATION IS DIFFERENT AND YOU WENT THROUGH WHAT YOU WENT THROUGH AS A LESSON ON HOW NOT TO DEAL WIT UNSATISFIED BITCHES ....

YOU GOT TO KNOW THE DIFFERENCE BETWEEN SCANDLOUS HOES AND DOWN ASS BITCHES !!!!!

AND AS FOR THE TREAD MAKER ....

EVERY WOMEN TAKES OVER A RELATIONSHIP ..... IT ALL DEPENDS ON HOW MUCH POWER YOU ARE GIVING HER .... CUZ YOU CAN EASILY SAY BITCH PLEASE AND GO ABOUT YOUR BIZNESS BUT SINCE YOU LOVE HER THAT DEEPLY, YOU ALLOW HER TO HAVE HER WAY SO YOU CAN KEEP HER AROUND
.... FUCK WHAT YOU HEARED MY NIGGAS BUT A DOWN ASS BITCH IS HARD
TO COME BY AND YOU SEE THEM EVERYDAY BUT THEY COME WITH LUGGAGE
YA DIG .... IF YOU THINK HOMEGURL IS WORTH BEING CALLED WIFEY, THEN JUS DEAL WITH IT AND SOON (ONLY IF SHE IS YOUR WIFEY) WILL SHE COME AROUND .... IF SHE A REAL BITCH, THEN SIT DOWN AND TALK TO HER AND IF SHE COME OFF DISRESPECTFUL, MAKE HER DECIDE .... A DOWN ASS BITCH COOL IF YOUR TRYNA HAVE A RELATIONSHIP BUT IF SHE NOT UNDERSTANDING TO YOUR NEEDS AS WELL AS HERS, LEAVE HER .... :weed:

[DR4LIFE2888]

well dude. In a relationship there is a give and take. some women appreciate their position of being able to dictate how the relationship goes and some where along the way you were a lil to compromising and she took it and ran with it. She doesn't seems like she is sensitive to you in the relationship and that is an important thing. You might want to address her on the matter and keep it as a convo no yelling and express your concerns. While it is true females don;t want ot everyday and in a relationship it slows down some there are some woman who will at least give ya head to keep ya happy. It is apart of the give & take and if she a true taker she has to understand for a man to willingly give you anything to take you have to make him believe he is giving it willingly.

GREAT INFO TP2K,
i've gone thru this situation and
thats the best way 2 handle it.
you jus gotta take control one instance at a time
not all at once cuz she'll rebell
we have the same type of chick trust me i kno it sux
good luck

[MaMi_So_HoOd]

she's gettin comfortable and if ya'll used to have sex 6-10 times a week n now its maybe 1 or 2 times something is lacking. in the beginning the sex is new and thats what makes it great. over time tho it gets boring becuz its no spice. try doin sum real freaky shyt and keep it goin don't slip up n give her sum wack sex cuz then it'll go right bk to not havin sex. but a bytch loves it for a dude to take control n do sum freaky shyt. dont ask for head make her give u sum head. the best way to almost guarantee head everytime is have her sit on ya face while u givn her head and she will really have no choice but to do the same to u. u already kno how that 69 works. good luck to ya bruh!!

[The K-Zoo Kid]

raise the pimp hand and say
"GIVE ME THE MUTHA FUCKIN PUSSY. NOW BITCH!"