Anyone with a GF with too many best friends?

[infamous995]

Yo my girlfriend has like 4 or 5 best friends from separate cliques. Each best friend, wants my shawty to chill with her throughout the week. It kills "our" time and its a real blower foreal.

Anybody got the same problem or no how to solve it?

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[Artisticfied]

My advice to you is to sit down with your girl for a little talk and see if she REALLY wants a relationship. The thought of her having all these friends is that 'barrier' that will never allow you two to have a relationship.

If she can't decide on a relationship and put friends as second then you are wasting time with someone who's pretty much NEVER gonna have time for you. A lot of times all these girlfriends 'problems' be the reason why you are judged by the deception of one man's wrongdoing.

To put it in a simple form, what ever their problems are normally ends up being taken out on you because of what they've 'heard' or 'saw' another man do to them in past relationships. Your trust from your girl is gonna have to be 'approved' by her friends and pretty much she is not gonna have the backbone to hold her own when it comes to decision making because they pull the strings that are gonna either allow your relationship (which is doubtful or DESTROY IT).

You don't wanna have to deal with her friends APPROVAL when it's supposed to be the two of you all.......if you are wanting a serious relationship and you aren't getting the feedback you are looking for or she isn't keeping her word when it comes to spending time and giving you YALL TIME, you have to be strong enough to let her be with her friends because you will be dealing with someone who can't make their own decisions.

Not to mention the aspect they might tell her to try to 'CHANGE' you to fit 'THEIR' likeness........you just gotta be man enough to understand she just might not be the one for you before you waste a whole lot of time investing in someone who isn't trying to be in a relationship.

[MeSsInA]

fuck best friends....i tell the bitch either ur gonna choose me or them

[REALTALK87]

tell her to cut back alittle, or ask

[RAY350]

tell her to cut back alittle, or ask



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[U got zero swag]

get your own best friends, to keep yourself occupied

[6262]

Fuck best friends , she wanna be with you she'll drop "Friends".
I just broke up with my girl because of the friends.
nigga i mean it FUCK HER IF SHE CARES MORE ABOUT HER FRIENDS THAN YOU.

[TP2000]

as someone said earlier you gonna have the to have the sit down and tell her how you feel neglected and that it isn't fair to have her friends taking all ya'll time. You don't want to sound like a whiner but you want to bring to her attention how you have done the same for her, in an effort to spend more time, and also how you seem to be spending less and less time together in the ace of all her friends and then time she is giving to them.

[damix33]

Make her want to hang out with you. Try being distant an hard to spend time with because your busy. Females love the chase and get bored real fast when your to available. Also if your not in love with her like that end it now cause she prolly won't change and things will just get worse.

[lavery]

Tell Yo girl fuck her friends and she chillin wit you instead that week. Then tell her if hangin wit her friends is more important to her and she rather hange wit them 24/7 then tell her the next time she leave u for them dont bother bringin her ass back to you, tell her go be a lesbian or some shit like that. Cosign wit what every1 been sayin though, if u wit a chick and she rather hang wit her girls all the time over you then thats not a good sign at all cause most girls that really like a dude tend to cling on too or wanna spend majority of there time with them instead of there friends.

[WestSiDeRiDa84]

YEEEEEEE

[PsykO]

tell her fuck her best friends cuz when they get a dude or get married they gonna hang out less with her n now she just fukin up yo relationship while a good relationship gonna last way longer than best friends... thats what i told my girl

[MurpheeboyZ]

if she doing that then i suggest you keep it moving. if a person doesnt have time for you then i think you shouldnt either. i think you might be too deeply in Love.Sprung. chicks dont dig it even if your in a relationship. have some alone time wid your self and keep yourself occupied but available time for her as well. if she sees you have nothing to do, no objective in life or passion for something, then she will little by little start doubting her status wid you. " a man can be happy with any woman as long as he does not love her" try thinkin that and being occupied. she will come running into your arms in no time.

[damix33]

if she doing that then i suggest you keep it moving. if a person doesnt have time for you then i think you shouldnt either. i think you might be too deeply in Love.Sprung. chicks dont dig it even if your in a relationship. have some alone time wid your self and keep yourself occupied but available time for her as well. if she sees you have nothing to do, no objective in life or passion for something, then she will little by little start doubting her status wid you. " a man can be happy with any woman as long as he does not love her" try thinkin that and being occupied. she will come running into your arms in no time.

pretty much what i was saying just better put

[westsidebloodgang]

im goin through this shit to my nig...i broke up wit my girl twice becuz of her friends and she keeps begging me to take her bac