3yr relation "ship" is sinking

[Da Reverend]

so i been wit this chick for 3yrs plus and the relationship is gettin madd dry im not feelin it like that no more but i love her and dont wanna hurt her feelings but i want out.... And of course i just met this other chick who is possibly the coolest girl on the planet and me and her been kickin it for a month and so and she wants to get with me 2 :dead: what should i do about both situations ??

[cbacarl11]

I mean. If you aren't IN LOVE with her anymore, then break up. People can fall out of love. And if you really want out, then do what you think is best. Don't have your current girl hanging like that if you aren't doing anything. She's probably gonna end up hurt anyway, so just get it over with.

[Da Reverend]

props man i appriciate it

[word_smith]

3 yrs is a long time. If I were you, I would think this out clearly. If u leave ur current girl, there is a strong possibility that you two won't get back together. If ur willing to make the sacrifice, you should break up with ur girl immediately and don't prolong things. I would suggest you sit down with her and tell her everything.

[REALTALK87]

dont go breaking hearts

[Thee Lord]

i dont know the answer playa but i say get some goose and juice.... and drank on it

[crm0411]

yall need to get away, together, get you paper right, and the both of yall bounce

[Da Reverend]

props for the feedback

[headache101]

I've been with my current person five years this June, so I can understand about the time and feelings of wanting out. But, as other people have said, talk it out, voice your feelings. Other women will come and go, but if you got a good woman, REGARDLESS of her hangups, you should try and work it out. It's a recession out there, both economically and relationship-wise!

[Artisticfied]

Rev, just remember this and this only..... A QUALITY PERSON IS HARD TO FIND!!

It's easy to "give up" on a person you've been with because you like the "NEW" feeling of relationships. Eventually if long-term is a problem you might as well date because a relationship is only good as the EFFORT you and her put into it.

Just remember it better to have loved someone and they left, rather than leave and live with the regret.........think about it!!! Karma a is mean bitch!!

[butchjones]

all relationships go thru dry spells where u feel that u dont want 2 be with that person and sum1 new comes along and everything all fucked up. now u cant think str8 cause u're at odds with ur girl and this new girl is everything ur girl was!! trust me u'll be in the sam boat with the new girl in less time.

[BAMABUTCHA]

mayne reel talk relationships always reel good in the beginin then u both get comfortable wit each other and the comfort turns to just bein used to the other person but this is how u can tell if u really ready 2 let her go if u can honestly imigine the next nigga bangin her lights out and her lovin it and that thought not fuck wit u - then its time to move on otherwise hold on 2 wuts dear to u cuz new chix always seem worth it at first till u learn them and start seein all their faults

[dabwg]

mayne reel talk relationships always reel good in the beginin then u both get comfortable wit each other and the comfort turns to just bein used to the other person but this is how u can tell if u really ready 2 let her go if u can honestly imigine the next nigga bangin her lights out and her lovin it and that thought not fuck wit u - then its time to move on otherwise hold on 2 wuts dear to u cuz new chix always seem worth it at first till u learn them and start seein all their faults

real talk

[gordy0507]

your not really in love with her cause if you were then you wouldnt the other girl was the greatest so i recommend you to break up with the three year relationship before it gets more serious like wedding bells....and so go with the other

[*GhostDog*]

your not really in love with her cause if you were then you wouldnt the other girl was the greatest so i recommend you to break up with the three year relationship before it gets more serious like wedding bells....and so go with the other

sup with them titties?

:sips:

[MCSammiSam]

You should have thought about not hurting her feelings before hanging out with another chick.

good luck with that goal.

[Da Reverend]

props for the feedback

[Krafty]

ask her 2 marry u

[West Coast_Finest]

maybe your relationship seems to be getting dry because all the shit you are seeing in the new girl that you dont see in ur current one. i say weigh ur options and if ur not happy just end it cuz there is no point in dragging it on and making the both of you miserable

[damix33]

try a sample test of both. Dont call your girl for afew days and pretend your broken up. if you dont feel like u miss her dead it. Or just tr an picture her with another dude an if u get pist u prolly still have enough feelings to stay. or just cheat and beat, shit girls cheat more often then guys do nowadays so who cares

[NFZ]

What I suggest you do is try and do the things that you did @the beginning of the relationship that gave you guys that spark. Go back to learning things about each other and spending some quality time together.

[WestSiDeRiDa84]

GOOD SHIT BRUH BRUH!!!!!!:rockstar:

[jspkt2002]

break up wit her...u only live once

[dmac82]

i been with mine for 2 years and its dry but im trying to work it out. so if your not in love with her anymore dnt stress yourself and her just end it but make sure that its the best move. the grass always looks greener on the other side till you get over there and it turns out to be weeds lol....watch why did i get married the 80/20 rule lol good luck my dude

[lavery]

^^ Props to this dude. (to the guy that started this thread) I see that u said that the NEW chick is cool well a little advise is that ive met plenty of golddiggers, hoes, and lazy bitches that was cool and i got along with but they didnt have any girl/wifery material qualities. So sit down and think about everything your girl has done, qualities she has or things she does (not just physical looks) ,then think about every thing the new girl has that makes u like her and think is this somethin ur girl hasnt already done and is it really worth throwin 2yrs away for. Most long relatiosnships go dry beacause there around each other 24/7 and not givin each other time to appreciate the things yall do for each other/miss the other person, yall dont do the things yall use to do that made yall like each other in the first place, yall do the same routine everyday. Switch it up bro go do things yall aint done, hang out with each other less so yall have more to talk about when yall see each other, do the things that u did when u were tryna get her to be your girl and vice versa for her.

[NateSelvaggio]

i dont know the answer playa but i say get some goose and juice.... and drank on it

wow dude thats pretty insightful man