View Full Version : DID I FUCK UP OR WHAT, TELL ME.
lpz213
March 24th, 2009, 09:00 PM
Today i was suppose to take my girlfriend to the library, and on the way there, we were talking about one of her friends liking this guy that has a girlfriend. My exact words were, "she needs to find a single guy instead of hitting on guys with girlfriends, she's good looking enough, she can find somebody" all of the sudden she gets mad and makes me take her home instead. was i wrong for saying that? I havent called her yet to talk about it, what do you guys think i should say to her?
*?????*
March 24th, 2009, 09:06 PM
lmao!
...i cant do nothing but laugh at that.... yeah u fucked up.
U just need to explain to her that u aint mean nothing by it.
Skinny Blanco
March 24th, 2009, 09:15 PM
u didnt do anyting wrong. ur girls insecure with herself and ur relationship if shes gonna trip off somethin like that.
lpz213
March 24th, 2009, 09:19 PM
i didnt mean anything by it, ive been with her for a while already, and wouldnt cheat on her at all, she's fucking hot, and shes good to me.
Dat Faily Fapper™
March 24th, 2009, 09:19 PM
u didnt do anyting wrong. ur girls insecure with herself and ur relationship if shes gonna trip off somethin like that.
agreed
ur girls wack.
just think if she would say somthin like that about a guy to u....would it upset u? it wouldnt me
dazackmasta
March 24th, 2009, 09:27 PM
Explain to her that it is not inhumane for a guy to find other women besides his girlfriend/wife attractive. After all, we do hear a lot of women out there talking about other guys that are attractive (ie: hear girls talkin bout someone like Beckham or brad pitt) even though they're datin someone.
Don't tell her she's insecure, because that will surely dig you a hole. Rather, tell her that while there are other attractive women out there that there's a reason you are dating her and not another.
DuttySouth2008
March 24th, 2009, 09:37 PM
yeh she need to let dat ride
Jaytat
March 24th, 2009, 10:13 PM
ya girl insecure man not a good look if u lookin for a long term relationship
d-gutta
March 24th, 2009, 10:17 PM
lmao make her call u lol
lavery
March 24th, 2009, 10:21 PM
Fuck no u aint do a damn thing wrong. Tell yo bitch that your in a relationship not blind. Of course your gonna see females besides her that you think look good and of course shes gonna see niggas besisdes you that she thinks look good, doesnt mean that theres more to it. Tell her she the sexiest female on this earth to u and shes all u want or need and wouldnt throw it away just for another female that looks good cause shes more then just good looks to you. ( U dont have to say it exactly like that andI no thats lame but it works). Then tell her to stop bein insecure of your relationship with her cause that shows she doesnt fully trust you and just to forget about it and keep it movin. BY ALL MEANS DONT APOLOGISE
hypebeast408
March 25th, 2009, 01:55 AM
lmao make her call u lol
haha co-sign
do that!
:rockstar:
HUMAN_X_IN_DA_FLESH
March 25th, 2009, 02:11 AM
cosign the people that say you aint do nothin wrong cause you didnt
lilkitten4u
March 25th, 2009, 04:01 AM
Yeah you didn't do anything wrong. She overreacted over nothing. I would wait and let her call you too.
WCG
March 25th, 2009, 04:18 AM
she'll come right round... when you go down... when you go down down...
lol but naw fa real though.. she'll come around and call ya..
dont talk to her.. shell call yeah if she has a brain...
BlackSpicnSpan
March 25th, 2009, 05:10 AM
lmao make her call u lol
word up yo ...
she over-reacted
she needs to chill with that jealousy shit ... :chill:
that shit is annoying
jnkrulesme
March 25th, 2009, 05:13 AM
......
WacArnolds
March 25th, 2009, 07:26 AM
co-sign what they said earlier. do NOT call this girl. let her beat herself up for a minute for acting crazy and she'll call you back. the last thing you want to do is give her the idea you'll respond to a temper tantrum b/c before long she'll be doing it just to be doing it. and when she does call back, don't act all hyper to be hearing from her.
GoodFeLLa07
March 25th, 2009, 01:57 PM
co-sign what they said earlier. do NOT call this girl. let her beat herself up for a minute for acting crazy and she'll call you back. the last thing you want to do is give her the idea you'll respond to a temper tantrum b/c before long she'll be doing it just to be doing it. and when she does call back, don't act all hyper to be hearing from her.
Listen to this guy.
JaeMonster
March 25th, 2009, 02:06 PM
u didn't do nething wrong. u shouldn't have taken her back home neither lol. if she didn't call me in a few days I would just call her and act like u didn't do nething wrong because u didn't. ask her if she needs to talk to U about something because u feel that there is something wrong w/ HER since she hadn't contacted u in a few days.
don't sweat it man, u didn't do nething wrong AT ALL
echo8o
March 25th, 2009, 02:34 PM
u didnt do anyting wrong. ur girls insecure with herself and ur relationship if shes gonna trip off somethin like that.
Don't call her... She will call you when she realizes that she's wrong. these type of females like to play mind games, if you let her call the ball will be in your court.
manishp100
March 25th, 2009, 03:17 PM
you didnt fuk up.. it was your girl who fucked up
shes being immature and also abit insecure... if shes still ranting when you speak to her ask her.. what would you have wanted to call her mate.. an ugly slag?....
you politely said that she shouldnt be going after taken guys.. go after single ones.. shes godo looking enough to find someone... - flipside - she a hoe looking for a fuck with a taken man.. and she s so ugly that she can only have guys who arent single..
ask yoru girl what sounds better..
yoru right.. shes wrong.. dont let her think differently... make sure she know she overreacted and that you dont appreciate it!
lpz213
March 25th, 2009, 03:18 PM
I went to her house, and she said she overreacted and was sorry, i told her that it was the wrong thing to say to her. i know she is a jealous girl and i shouldnt of said that. she told me she felt bummed out because i didn't call her all day. thanks for all the advice guys, relationships are a bitch.
gangsta01
March 25th, 2009, 03:40 PM
shess trippin over dumb shit
Miami3o5
March 25th, 2009, 05:30 PM
she better be young acting like that. tell her you didnt mean anything by it and if she cant come around let her go to hell becuase when she tells the story to someone they going to tell her that she is a dumbass for getting like that
Young_illz
March 29th, 2009, 01:13 AM
naw.... u good. she's too insecure. Now if you said, oh yea, oh gurl is fine. I would guck her in a hertbeat, so I know someone else would too...
Then... thats a problem.
BMWE31850CSI
March 29th, 2009, 01:17 AM
lmao!
...i cant do nothing but laugh at that.... yeah u fucked up.
U just need to explain to her that u aint mean nothing by it.
you are fucking retarded to think this dude fucked up
BMWE31850CSI
March 29th, 2009, 01:21 AM
on some serious shit... u might have made her feel really bad about some shit she did..
not tryin to fill your head with doubt but i cant see why a girl would get all pissed about that unless you made her feel terrible about something she did
REALTALK87
March 29th, 2009, 01:40 AM
your girl overreacted
WCG
March 29th, 2009, 12:32 PM
LOL.... if you two dont solve the jealousy problem early on in your relationship.. i bet you guys wont last more than a year and a half...
ABChick01
March 29th, 2009, 01:26 PM
u didnt do anyting wrong. ur girls insecure with herself and ur relationship if shes gonna trip off somethin like that.
Agreed. I think that's completely insecure and unrealistic of her not to allow you to even critique a woman's appearance. There's always gonna be good looking girls...and expecting you to not notice is crazy.
And that goes both ways...I'm assuming you're a little more secure though.
MCSammiSam
April 3rd, 2009, 02:47 PM
It depends on how long you've been together and how well you know her "friend." ...either way
why risk it?
da1latin0arab
April 3rd, 2009, 06:02 PM
Today i was suppose to take my girlfriend to the library, and on the way there, we were talking about one of her friends liking this guy that has a girlfriend. My exact words were, "she needs to find a single guy instead of hitting on guys with girlfriends, she's good looking enough, she can find somebody" all of the sudden she gets mad and makes me take her home instead. was i wrong for saying that? I havent called her yet to talk about it, what do you guys think i should say to her?
thats the prob right there. she think u checkn out her friends ..
trust me, mah bitch always do that shit.
ticalli0nstallion
April 6th, 2009, 03:12 PM
you did nuthin
let her be pissed
if you can't talk about another hoe being pretty an ish then thats something you need to incorporate
BlueVibes
April 6th, 2009, 04:45 PM
na u didnt do anything wrong. just wait it out. do not call her. oh and wtf "the library?"
infamous995
April 12th, 2009, 12:13 AM
she is trippin man
NateSelvaggio
April 27th, 2009, 10:26 AM
dude yo bitch is jealous put her in her place talk to her nd let her kno wassup
Ballercb4
April 29th, 2009, 01:58 AM
why can girls call other girls hot and we can't????...why do we get in shit...why do we have to put the toilet seat down...and why doesn't chris brown follow these rules cause he beat his bitch...ur answer is? Beat her down when she acting a fool...lol but the most logical solution is to confront her insecurity and tell how beautiful she is...
PiercingPagoda
April 29th, 2009, 03:09 AM
You didnt do anything wrong, you have no need to explain yourself, in a way it's like she's testing you, do you give her any compliements or enough of em' she may be upset at the fact that you dont.
Either way if you try callin her back all quickly and shit then you my friend are whipped, for some advice to put some hair on your chest and to wear the pants in tha relationship, Read the quote in my sig. . . Simple enough. . .
lil76
May 1st, 2009, 09:23 AM
man you ain't do nothing but keep it real...
if you girlfriend get mad at your realness about that particular situation, then your girl might be suspect for even condoning what her friend is doing.
BUT, at the same time her friend may have not known about the dudes GF until later on... so, i can't call it... only you can...
we don't have enough info to give any legitimate opinions..
ken0568
May 1st, 2009, 07:33 PM
Yo girl is just insecure. Maybe she doesn't trust her friend and thinks her friend will try something with you. She will get over it.
da1nonly74
May 3rd, 2009, 01:57 PM
u need to tell her quit being so insecure bfo she get hattoned
chantel
May 3rd, 2009, 08:33 PM
Lmao.... first of all u was talkin bad about her friend then u said she look good.. Im a girl and I wouldn't get mad at that u better her let call u first kuz she stupid 4 geting mad
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