Anyone Else Overly Shy?

[VivaLaVida]

I'm sooooo fucking shy. The thing that is annoying about it though is that most girls regard me as being attractive. Like there are loads of girls that I know find me to be good looking but I still find myself not pursuing them :smh:. I know that this is really bad and a lot of my friends actually get annoyed with me because I can get girls so much easier than them but then I don't do anything about it.

Anyone else similar to me in this way? Or hopefully use to be like me and then broke out of it? I'm still in HS so I hope that as I get older I will break out of this.

:supersad:

[Krypton864]

fukk your your the bitch magnet on the team that the girls usually gravitate tward but you all awkward wit it so they think we all weird so then the rest of us have to step it up a lil but someo how you always manage to get some pussy lmao but yo the best way to get ova it is to put on some nikes and just do it dead ass built you confidence up a lil

[c-looos]

i use to be shy as shit 2 in high skoo......i still am but now if i see a girl i'll say small shit to her to try to get a conversation going. I hate being shy to but u'll get over it eventually my nig..

[Rizzo-D-Don]

man i still got this problem at times

I got no problem jus chattin to ugly chicks but when it comes down the pretty ones, i seem to lock up a bit u know

[Rique]

U just have to talk only way to get out of it. Get pussy and soon u won't care

[Dat Faily Fapper™]

bitches like the queiter type more than the 'loudest in the room' type anyway, they are more 'mysterious'

the loudest in the room, is always the weakest :sips:

so dont worry bout it

[LRM]

^true. i was like you a lot, probably a lot more so. people think its a sign of weakness but it has nothing to do with that.dont worry what people think of you, they always assume they know but they dont. just put your energy into something you're good at. its better to show flashes of brilliance and surprise them all later than try to dominate all conversations. hold back for another day or only when someone is genuinely interested in you.

[nutmeg]

Here is a challenge before you leave high school. Pursue one of these females, take to the next level or just go out with them for a while. Build your confidence and self-esteem gradually and you should be good. It'll be harder if your going into college after school. You'll start to meet or attract way more experience females out there who've gone through the throes of high school dating and are looking for a bit more mature partner.


Trust me, I have not dated in my entire life and I'm actually 20. :(

[J-Town815]

i'm shy..

[aaronpoweruser]

jus find a chick that flirt wit everyone and flirt wit her to build up it b easier cause u wont be serious
also try through im or txt that way u can think bout what u gone say and dont freeze up

[lyrikalassasin]

bitches like the queiter type more than the 'loudest in the room' type anyway, they are more 'mysterious'

the loudest in the room, is always the weakest :sips:

so dont worry bout it

the loudest is alwayz the weakest?? thats not true sorry

bacc 2 subject.....just make small chat and shit will start 2 get easier 4u

[GoLDFiiGGa]

post pics

[MurpheeboyZ]

man i still got this problem at times

I got no problem jus chattin to ugly chicks but when it comes down the pretty ones, i seem to lock up a bit u know

means your imtimidated by them.

[Gfunk]

Yeh im tha same. 17 and aint had a girlfriend yet cuz girls say i dont talk enough? I mean i dont blabber my mouth off but im not completely quiet either...

[bigslim24]

yep but i just make the shit work to my advantage...makes me seem mysterious to women and they like it...

[datoriginalplayboy]

i was similar to you in high school, but its not half as bad now that im in college, same thing will probably happen to you, college almost forces you open up and become more extroverted

[Orignal G_Unit]

Here is a challenge before you leave high school. Pursue one of these females, take to the next level or just go out with them for a while. Build your confidence and self-esteem gradually and you should be good. It'll be harder if your going into college after school. You'll start to meet or attract way more experience females out there who've gone through the throes of high school dating and are looking for a bit more mature partner.


Trust me, I have not dated in my entire life and I'm actually 20. :(

sme situation aswell fam, 20 its nt like i cnt buh dunno y

[Barrelz]

Yeahh i feel ya'll.... goin thru tha same stuff right now, in ma first year of college, it'll get better tho. its more self-esteem and confidence than anything, thats why i always go out looking ma freshest ya know? but lol, the more you put yourself in those situations, the easier it'll be to handle it, gotta step out ya comfort zone to get what ya want ya feel me.

[*GhostDog*]

my sczhizophrenia fucks up everything for me i have grandeur delusions and feel like everyone is beneath me bitches take it as me not givin a fuck about them and i cant hold a relationship

:no:

[BustYourGunz]

Yeh im tha same. 17 and aint had a girlfriend yet cuz girls say i dont talk enough? I mean i dont blabber my mouth off but im not completely quiet either...

i got the same problem homie...:supersad:

[aradmik]

Girls like to talk. All you gotta do is initiate the conversation. Then do your best to keep it going. But most the time, girls that are interested in you, would do all the talking for you. You just gotta listen and respond. Once you get that down, it's smooth sailing from there. Just make sure you flirt every now and then. It's not even that hard. Just tell them that they're cute and you wanna hang out.

[havma]

I was but I came to university.

[GorgeouS GalosheS]

I'm sooooo fucking shy. The thing that is annoying about it though is that most girls regard me as being attractive. Like there are loads of girls that I know find me to be good looking but I still find myself not pursuing them :smh:. I know that this is really bad and a lot of my friends actually get annoyed with me because I can get girls so much easier than them but then I don't do anything about it.

Anyone else similar to me in this way? Or hopefully use to be like me and then broke out of it? I'm still in HS so I hope that as I get older I will break out of this.

:supersad:

same here...

im fuckin hawt

:shifty:

[ticalli0nstallion]

look, the funniest thing about being that guy, you can say almost anything and

they'll laugh at your jokes/you'll land some pussy

cause most whatever you say won't matter, the hoes already wanna get down

tellin you tho, you gotta handle now homie, cause once you're outta that situation without any experience in the field, developing game gets that much harder, plus the hoes arient willing to fuck as easily either

[CashMoney52]

look, the funniest thing about being that guy, you can say almost anything and

they'll laugh at your jokes/you'll land some pussy

cause most whatever you say won't matter, the hoes already wanna get down

tellin you tho, you gotta handle now homie, cause once you're outta that situation without any experience in the field, developing game gets that much harder, plus the hoes arient willing to fuck as easily either

BEST QUOTE OF THE DAY LOL...ON SUM SERIOUS SHYT. BUT YEH I THINK ITS A LOT OF DUDES, INCLUDIN MYSELF, DAT GO THROUGH DIS..SO DONT FEEL BAD

[VivaLaVida]

post pics

of what? :confused:

[phillipkarp]

i find myself to be shy but i try to break out of it. :no:

[Chris_k.o.s.]

yeah man im a quiet person but coming to college makes it easier because its not as stressful being under the watchful eyes of your peers. No lie on the second day of class after sitting in the table with 3 girls in my composition class the one girl i was next to just slid me her number, she said it was for anytime i need something. Just become open towards them a little bit, im not gonna lie like im a Mack but its not as bad once you can find a way to use calm quiet and chill to your advantage :rockstar:

srry for the essay lol

[papoise]

I love this shit.

[BMWE31850CSI]

I'm sooooo fucking shy. The thing that is annoying about it though is that most girls regard me as being attractive. Like there are loads of girls that I know find me to be good looking but I still find myself not pursuing them :smh:. I know that this is really bad and a lot of my friends actually get annoyed with me because I can get girls so much easier than them but then I don't do anything about it.

Anyone else similar to me in this way? Or hopefully use to be like me and then broke out of it? I'm still in HS so I hope that as I get older I will break out of this.

:supersad:


you need to quit ackin like a lil bitch :smh:

did not read the rest of your post.

[BMWE31850CSI]

bitches like the queiter type more than the 'loudest in the room' type anyway, they are more 'mysterious'

the loudest in the room, is always the weakest :sips:

so dont worry bout it


lmfao you dont get out much do you...

that was a dumb fucking comment from a person that probably never leaves his room/computer...

[BMWE31850CSI]

same here...

im fuckin hawt

:shifty:

this white boy is all jokes

[GorgeouS GalosheS]

this white boy is all jokes

towel head is mad

:no:

[GoodFeLLa07]

You need to stop making excuses for yourself and stop acting like a lil bitch.

You say you're a good looking dude, so right away you have an advantage most dudes dont have.

You can get away with a lot of stupid shit and get extra 2nd chances. Take advantage of that.

Believe you're the man, and they'll know you're the man.

[BMWE31850CSI]

towel head is mad

:no:


:eats: no not really, i was just commenting at how you make humorous statements on the regular. hence, you are all jokes.

[ricolocc]

naaaaa

[VivaLaVida]

You need to stop making excuses for yourself and stop acting like a lil bitch.

You say you're a good looking dude, so right away you have an advantage most dudes dont have.

You can get away with a lot of stupid shit and get extra 2nd chances. Take advantage of that.

Believe you're the man, and they'll know you're the man.

seems to be about right..

harder said than done :(

[ah_Ra]

yeah i was maddd shy when i was 14 now i realize to myself stop being a pussy and talk

[DJ Squeeky]

im kina laidback myself not shy tho but u just gotta think fuck all them bitches and dont give a fuck what somebody is sayin and start doin ur thang

u got nothing to lose

[gordy0507]

Why are you shy though?

[manny710]

Bruv...u jus gotta talk...theres no 2 ways about it... wen u start doing that

u'll be giving the advice im giving u to someone else...like u neva had dat problem

[VivaLaVida]

Why are you shy though?

Just the way I am.

It's not like a confidence thing, since the majority of girls I know are actually attracted to me.

Like, I just don't know what to say so I generally just don't say anything :(

[lilsneaky420]

Aye i thought i wuz da only nigga goin thru dat shit. I used to have my swagga on point last year but i lost dis fight last year and ever since den i aint been da same. i used to think i wuz hard n shit but when i lost that fight i lost my pride and now wheneva im around people i get hella shy n shit. My mack status went down too cuz i dont even like to talk on da phone at all. I hate sittin on da phone listenin to air n shit cuz most da time they b expectin me 2 come up wit it n I b high so my mind b blank 2. But shit it aint hard fo me at ALL 2 get sum pussy cuz ladies all my life told me i look good im mo dat pretty boi type of nigga so it easy as fuck fo me 2 get pussy but I jus needa get my swagga back cuz my game WACK AS FUCK now N I get shy at tha wrong timez.

[dmx782]

Just the way I am.

It's not like a confidence thing, since the majority of girls I know are actually attracted to me.

Like, I just don't know what to say so I generally just don't say anything :(

word...

[jman0989]

yeh im kinda the same way man.. like girls tell me im cute and shit alot but when they say it iono how to respond.. i jus like smile and like laugh a lil.. like i can talk to em if they talk to me but i suck at keepin eye contact.. thats to me my biggest flaw.. but once i talk to em that 1st time.. im not as shy

[dmx782]

bump cuz some bitch called me quiet last night

[messiah]

Yea im shy/quiet as well and I hate that shit. Im 21 and I live in a small town in kentucky that depresses me alot because of drama n other bs to the point where i prolly need a Girlfriend to make me feel better, but im just too damn quiet/shy to mingle around...

[dmx782]

i know even when i feel like im not being quiet and i think were having a good time trying to talk as much as i can, girls still tell me im quiet... which is like a punch in the face

[DeSuperStar]

yea u will grow outta it soon

[Nobody's Hero]

i know even when i feel like im not being quiet and i think were having a good time trying to talk as much as i can, girls still tell me im quiet... which is like a punch in the face

i get that shit too.. real frustrating

[grimey01]

word.

[messiah]

I mean im 5'9, bout 150 lbs, and im not the prettiest nigga in the world but I also aint the ugliest ya dig.

[CHIMAMA]

i got the same prob too and im 20
but im gettin better at losin my shyness
all i did was mess wit older girls and if i got rejected i would go back to messin wit girls my age cuz if u can talk to older girls than u should have no problem talkin wit girls ur age

[jman0989]

iono my friends tell me when i drink im completely different and im beginning to notice it to cuz usually im reserved and will only talk to girls if they talke to me 1st or somethin.. but when i drink i dont be giving a fuck ill talk to any girl and actually do a good job of it.. like i wish i was like that all the time..

[JaeMonster]

the girls might like u because of that.

[NigaPlz]

do what Katt William says and get in tune with your star player.....basically just what have to do and live care free, eventually you will get out of it, you probably not use to all the attention

[grimey01]

iono my friends tell me when i drink im completely different and im beginning to notice it to cuz usually im reserved and will only talk to girls if they talke to me 1st or somethin.. but when i drink i dont be giving a fuck ill talk to any girl and actually do a good job of it.. like i wish i was like that all the time..

walk around with a canteen filled with henny?

i might have to try it...haha liquor makes you more open..it builds confidnece..

Well it makes you not really give a fuck about anything so you do what you do..

[VivaLaVida]

iono my friends tell me when i drink im completely different and im beginning to notice it to cuz usually im reserved and will only talk to girls if they talke to me 1st or somethin.. but when i drink i dont be giving a fuck ill talk to any girl and actually do a good job of it.. like i wish i was like that all the time..

i'm the same exact way

typically i'm just real quite and don't initiate conversation with females but get some liquor in me and i start spitting game with success :laugh:

[jman0989]

i'm the same exact way

typically i'm just real quite and don't initiate conversation with females but get some liquor in me and i start spitting game with success :laugh:

ahhaha yeh jus this saturday i was drinkin and wut not talkin to allllllllllll the girls lol.. i ended up gettin like 2 girls numbers and gave one mines.. and all 3 be textin me :rockstar: i need to drink everytime im at a party wit sexy girls lol

[jman0989]

walk around with a canteen filled with henny?

i might have to try it...haha liquor makes you more open..it builds confidnece..

Well it makes you not really give a fuck about anything so you do what you do..

sounds like a good idea:hmmm:

[beatdown]

You are not alone. I am in my 30's and still haven't gotten over this. I had my share of women, but damn, I could have had way more. hotter ones. The thing about it is you just have to go for it, don't think, just do it. If there's one moment of hesitation it's over.