View Full Version : i don't really kno wut ta do..
downazzchick
June 26th, 2008, 02:41 AM
ive been datin this guy fo a few weeks now but im not entirely over my ex..i went to his myspace together and his name changed ..and im no longer on his top friends..some other girls that he was into is and for some reason it hurts..my boyfriend iz amazing but for some reason my ex still finds wayz to hurt me without even doin so..it's like he is playin mind games and shit untill sumone betta comes..and he told em befo that he didnt want a relationship but then again i think hes lyin cuz it's like he wants one jus not wit me.soo i just need to know why he does this..what he may be thinking..why he can't get his mind right..and how to get over him so i can be 100 percent happy wit my man.
solo36
June 26th, 2008, 02:59 AM
First of all, try losing all contact with him. Second stop peaking at his myspace. Get rid of any items you have that may have memories of him attached. It already sounds like your new guy treats you better than your ex. If you were in a relationship with your ex for a long time it is going to take a long ass time to get over him. Take it slow and try to focus on how well your current relationship is going and don't worry about your ex. Lastly keep your head up. peace
downazzchick
June 26th, 2008, 03:07 AM
but it's so hard because i feel like hes tha only guy who i will ever feel that with..he iz the only guy that gives me those butterflies
but hes so damn confusing..and doesnt know what he wants in life and it just hurts..
but i will try ta do that..
thanks
MixtapeSlugah
June 26th, 2008, 09:46 AM
Damn, your really in a bad place right now.
When i broke up with my girl ( she wanted me back within a week lol )
I also check'd her myspace every now and then. I saw her talkin n shit to other people, when you really want her to talk to you. So i understand what you mean. But i don't really have any advice, since you are in a new relationship, and your happy with your current man. So... Maybe have a reallllllllllllll good conversation with him will clear the air...
jezzer75
June 26th, 2008, 12:10 PM
see its chicks like you that make me scared of cheating hoe's
Cisco from D- D!
June 26th, 2008, 01:58 PM
He keeps playing mind games cus he still wants to keep u around to get what he wants w/ out being attached. I just hope you aint doing ur current boi friend wrong. The best thing you can do is loose contact with him and keep ur current relationship moving... Cus just like u feel it's not fair the way he's doing you it's not fair for ur current man ether..
liveinthesky
June 26th, 2008, 03:29 PM
ive been datin this guy fo a few weeks now but im not entirely over my ex..i went to his myspace together and his name changed ..and im no longer on his top friends..some other girls that he was into is and for some reason it hurts..my boyfriend iz amazing but for some reason my ex still finds wayz to hurt me without even doin so..it's like he is playin mind games and shit untill sumone betta comes..and he told em befo that he didnt want a relationship but then again i think hes lyin cuz it's like he wants one jus not wit me.soo i just need to know why he does this..what he may be thinking..why he can't get his mind right..and how to get over him so i can be 100 percent happy wit my man.
let him go. seriously, why deprive another man who never did anything wrong to you from all your love? why let somebody who clearly doesnt love you have so much control over you?
br52ze
June 26th, 2008, 03:46 PM
FUCC DAT NIGGA BABYGIRL YO NAME IS DOWN AZZ CHICK...HIS LOST,,,LOSE ALL CONTACT WIT DAT NIGGA BLOCK HIS MYSPACE AND WORK WIT THE DUDE U GOT...BUT IF U NOT OVER YO EX YET DONT PUT YO NEW DUDE IN2 DAT MAMA..DATZ GONNA START PROBLEMS BETWEEN YALL TWO AND HE PROBLEY A BETTER MAN THEN YO EX WAS
BWheezybaby69
June 26th, 2008, 06:45 PM
I kinda know what you going through, when you feel like you got a connection with somebody and never seems you are going to get that feeling back. Me and my ex now broke up cuz she cheated on me and of course she wanted me back as soon as she figure how dumb it was, but my advice to you is concentrate on the new and forget the old. Now if you still got feeling for you ex and its so overpowering that you cant take it, then you need to tell you current dude you need space until you can get your mind right. Trust me you don't want a innocent person 2 get hurt because they showed up in your life at the wrong time. So either forget about you ex and everything about him, or get your mind right before you start a new relationship!
downazzchick
June 26th, 2008, 08:08 PM
see its chicks like you that make me scared of cheating hoe's
funny you say that cause i've never cheated on anyone. it's always the other way around.
lostangelz323
June 26th, 2008, 08:20 PM
you know what to do but your scared to do it, when you were born you didn't know that fucko so whats the problem? honestly were all better off alone but scared to do that, you gotta learn how to hold your own, be independent not dependent, do you don't let NOBODY else do you alright? now get your fucking head out of your ass and keep on pushin----->
p.s
no offense!
KoBBiE™
June 26th, 2008, 11:18 PM
time heals everything
LayBeezy
June 29th, 2008, 01:27 AM
hmm...i think u should leave ur bf, make up an excuse if u dont wanna tell em u still like ur ex cuz it aint fair to him that hes a "amazing" bf to u n he thinkin u really into him but in the back of ur mind u still thinkin bout the other dude so regardless if ur ex dont wanna be with u the rite thing is to leave ur current bf, it aint fair to him.
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