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Goddess
June 25th, 2008, 08:57 AM
This guy and I been talking for about 2months now he wants us to move further and become a couple but im not ready for a Relationship i tell him this but he insist to always some how pursue the question in so many words. What do I do without hurting his feelings? its so easy when somebody else ask this question becuz u have no feelings for them actually put yourself in my situation.......
havma
June 25th, 2008, 09:15 AM
I have no feelings.
shananiganz
June 25th, 2008, 11:15 AM
So this explains ur other thread, i thought u were a feminist lol Nah but Real talk u aint ready for this and he aint got no right to be pushing this on ya, but u will always hurt him dats not controlled but its how much pain u can control, like if he asks ya again tell him "no, but its not a definite no but more of a not right now, no", this will leave the brotha hopeful but it shuld back him off if it dont screw him, find another guy to talk to..
INCREASE THE PEACE
Shananiganz
musiqsoul86
June 25th, 2008, 07:18 PM
So this explains ur other thread, i thought u were a feminist lol Nah but Real talk u aint ready for this and he aint got no right to be pushing this on ya, but u will always hurt him dats not controlled but its how much pain u can control, like if he asks ya again tell him "no, but its not a definite no but more of a not right now, no", this will leave the brotha hopeful but it shuld back him off if it dont screw him, find another guy to talk to..
INCREASE THE PEACE
Shananiganz
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jezzer75
June 26th, 2008, 12:15 PM
tell him about your ex
br52ze
June 26th, 2008, 03:49 PM
DAMN SOMETIMES U GOTTA BE ROUGH LIKE THIS
"DAMN I TOLD U IM NOT READY,,SHIT,,STOP DAT SHIT JUX BE PATIENT WITH ME PLEASE"
Bape_Soldier
June 26th, 2008, 04:38 PM
DAMN SOMETIMES U GOTTA BE ROUGH LIKE THIS
"DAMN I TOLD U IM NOT READY,,SHIT,,STOP DAT SHIT JUST BE PATIENT WITH ME PLEASE"
Say exactly that :goodpost:
lostangelz323
June 26th, 2008, 08:39 PM
you get what you give so if u beat around the bush with him its gonna come right back at ya so be str8 up with him as a matter of fact when you read this call his ass and be like, '' you are not the one for me cause i know i don't want to be the one for you''
LayBeezy
June 29th, 2008, 01:29 AM
yea if u been nice bout it n he aint acceptin ur choice then be mean bout it, that should get the point thru
jumpman2386
July 1st, 2008, 08:33 AM
yo only reason why u with him cause he pay for alot of yo shit so stop being a weak ass ho.
i already know u fuckin somebody eles thats broke.
devonwilliams_66
July 1st, 2008, 10:08 AM
yo only reason why u with him cause he pay for alot of yo shit so stop being a weak ass ho.
i already know u fuckin somebody eles thats broke.
Lol that's some funny shit!!!
TruLegend32
July 3rd, 2008, 11:51 PM
DAMN SOMETIMES U GOTTA BE ROUGH LIKE THIS
"DAMN I TOLD U IM NOT READY,,SHIT,,STOP DAT SHIT JUX BE PATIENT WITH ME PLEASE"
this might work pretty well since it seems like dis guy cant take the passive hint at wat da deal it...let da nigga kno dat u feel like he disrespectin u for continuing to put you in dat situation with those kinds of questions when he already knows how u feel about the situation....if u aint ready...u aint ready!!! if he loves u he should accept dat and be tryin to keep u happy
mwu13
July 6th, 2008, 01:19 AM
be honest and let him know how u feel
grandlarceny06
July 8th, 2008, 09:32 PM
just be real and tell him the truth and tell homeboy to back off, put the shit out there, trust me i had to learn the hard way sometimes hurts
TP2000
July 8th, 2008, 09:40 PM
I mean if you have some type of feelings for him, just say that. I.e. i am diggin you, but I am not there just yet and i can't really guarantee when I am going to be there, just slow down and be patient with me.....
datoriginalplayboy
July 8th, 2008, 11:00 PM
be honest, and communicate, but be understanding as well
U got zero swag
July 8th, 2008, 11:02 PM
This guy and I been talking for about 2months now he wants us to move further and become a couple but im not ready for a Relationship i tell him this but he insist to always some how pursue the question in so many words. What do I do without hurting his feelings? its so easy when somebody else ask this question becuz u have no feelings for them actually put yourself in my situation.......
u let him hit yet?
Trueno22
July 8th, 2008, 11:08 PM
just be like "listen niga you aint getting no pussy so just chill if you get it you get it if you don't oh well don't pull a macki on me now"
Jankey Goat Smuggler
July 12th, 2008, 10:33 PM
i've had a girl tell me that 2 months is too soon tho... i was ok wit it. Never dated her again tho... she seemed like a slow decision maker. hahahaha
damix33
July 12th, 2008, 10:36 PM
tell him no, better now then a year from now. the sooner u tell him the less it will hurt
Young_illz
July 12th, 2008, 10:53 PM
if he cant have the patience for you and ur feelings, u shouldn't be fuckin wit him anyway.
Cuz when u finally do hook up wit him, that shyt can carry over into other things in the relationship
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