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BWheezybaby69
June 24th, 2008, 06:14 PM
Whatsup yall, I looking for some advice from my niggas about this friendship bullshit that chicks wanna put you in. I ain't gon lie, I a nice guy and alot females always wanna be cool with me and shit, which I don't mind but the shit is starting 2 get on my nerves! Bein the friend ain't cool, its hard 2 smash when the chick always lookin at you like a friend. So, fellas if a chick has place you as a friend, what yall do 2 get out?

LRM
June 24th, 2008, 06:39 PM
easy. pursue other girls and stop hanging around her. she'll get the drift sooner or later. you need to mix up the time you spend with the girls and dont be afraid to say no. rule out hanging out with one girl one week and then the next drop by her doorstep the next just to keep the niceties and flirt with her. then the next day or week put it off. she'll get the hint so to speak. or if you want to blatantly get it on with a girl just "say hey this friendship is awakard for me...especially when i'm attracted to you." shit will do her head in. but this is not one guarantee of success.

jezzer75
June 25th, 2008, 06:28 AM
what dude said but you have to make her interested in you 1st or you'll just be in the friend zone if you go after other girls too...be interesting they will be interested

100mph
June 25th, 2008, 06:30 AM
make them bitches want you as more make them jelous

shananiganz
June 26th, 2008, 12:07 AM
The friend ship can also be like a trial period for the chick to see if the dude is a scumbag or something sometimes its best to wait it out get to really know her and get close, that way even if u dont get with her u still got a homegirl by ur side

babyshaq 341
June 26th, 2008, 12:17 AM
yea follow wat everyone else said but most of all u gotta stop bein nice cuz girls always put nice guys in the friends zone, so jus chill wit that nice guy shyt an ull be fine.

MixtapeSlugah
June 26th, 2008, 09:57 AM
i think you need to switch styles, when you need new woman, and they are fuck-worthy, make em know you are on the look out. i know shit worked for me...

TP2000
July 1st, 2008, 11:25 PM
Aights its funny but it is rare that you make it out of that box Unless one of two things occur. One she has been feeling you for the longest and was too nervous to admit and you find another chick and start spending that time with her. Second thing is if she not feeling you you gonna give her minimal time, chicks love time and time means something to them and if you giving them major time then why do they need to have a relationship with you they already getting the time. lastly what you don't want is her to feel comfortable changing in front of you cause that means she not even checking you as a hitable dude.

baseballer1313
July 2nd, 2008, 09:10 PM
:sips:

Bape_Soldier
July 2nd, 2008, 09:22 PM
easy. pursue other girls and stop hanging around her. she'll get the drift sooner or later. you need to mix up the time you spend with the girls and dont be afraid to say no. rule out hanging out with one girl one week and then the next drop by her doorstep the next just to keep the niceties and flirt with her. then the next day or week put it off. she'll get the hint so to speak. or if you want to blatantly get it on with a girl just "say hey this friendship is awakard for me...especially when i'm attracted to you." shit will do her head in. but this is not one guarantee of success.

co-sign...

LRM just gave you some boss ass advice... :goodpost:

Ballercb4
July 2nd, 2008, 09:32 PM
LOL mannnn just walk away from her when she starts talking about her problems...cuz that shit pisses me offf..."omg i hate her she think sheee sooo hot" STFU!!!!

honey20330
July 2nd, 2008, 09:42 PM
easy. pursue other girls and stop hanging around her. she'll get the drift sooner or later. you need to mix up the time you spend with the girls and dont be afraid to say no. rule out hanging out with one girl one week and then the next drop by her doorstep the next just to keep the niceties and flirt with her. then the next day or week put it off. she'll get the hint so to speak. or if you want to blatantly get it on with a girl just "say hey this friendship is awakard for me...especially when i'm attracted to you." shit will do her head in. but this is not one guarantee of success.

:goodpost:

WCG
July 3rd, 2008, 01:45 PM
Easy, pursue her friends, and that will build competition then eventually you get to choose which one you want

ddd_unit
July 3rd, 2008, 03:38 PM
dont make that friend your number 1 priority...
girls love attention...and when you don't give it to them anymore and they see you givin other girls attention, theyll pretty much want that attention back :o

just it play it cool and like WCG said... talk to her friends... she'll see how much fun you can have and it'll make her start thinkin or gettin jealous :p

Shadyy313
July 3rd, 2008, 04:22 PM
i just got into the same position. but the weird thing is that she had the biggest crush on me about a year and a half ago but we lost contact and we just started hanging out again but now i like her and i guess she doesn't like me like that anymore...

so you know what i'm doing?

1. i deleted that hoes number from my phone.
2. i'm really close with her best friend (lets call her beth.) like we text all day, like 300 texts.
3. being that i just stopped talking to her out of the middle of no where and i won't be able to cuz i don't have her number and that she is always with "beth" adventually she's gunna start thinking about why i don't talk to her anymore and it will adventually start eating at her and she'll crave for attention.
4. find a new girl.