I need the realest niggas to give me the realest advice

[Thoroest]

I need the realest niggas to give me the realest advice

Confused as hell
Wuz up guys. I been talkin to this girl for like a year. We met sophmore year in college in houston. She's originally from georgia and I'm from dallas. Iwe use to be real cool friends but i never had feelings for her back then 3 years ago 2005. She left after 1 year and I stayed and am almost finished(senior year). We kept each others numbers for after she left. Fastforwad to 2007.I went to Mississippi on a business trip and some girl i fucked forwarded me a freaky message with some options. I forwarded that same message to the girl in georgia and a bunch of other females. I was suprised out of all the females who responded she sent me the freakiest one. I called her and she said that she always had feelings for me. I called and her and we get to talikng then it turned to 4 months strong we developed feelings for each other but i didnt want to ask her out. THEN SHE EVEN ASKED ME OUT (but I dont believe in long distance relationships). We had ups and downs but we stayed talking til 2008. Earlier at the beginning of the year we started having major problems and sometimes but I started not to care as much cuz i wuz fuckin other girls. but now she came beack to Houston at another school downtown.at first she had mixed feelings Now she just wants to be friends. She claimed that I'm not what she's looking for in a man, then she would excuses that its the little things that count(and I've heard this from other females) She said that all her feelings are dropped but theres certain questions she wont answer (do you see me out of your life? If anything is worth fighting for then why should I give it up?) She went from mixed feelings, I dont want to be in a relationship with any man and focus on school, to we both need to control our feelings, to I see you only as friend because I'm lacking stuff. She said she knows what she wants in a man but heres the thing. She isnt a saint or a virgin but she saving herself til marriage, she already dumped 4 guys over the sex rule. LOL NO MAN 21-30 YEARS OLD IS GONNA WAIT TIL MARRIAGE TO HAVE SEX (LETS BE REAL) I'm willing to wait because I feel that she could be the one.

oH ONE MORE thing I told my homeboys bout the situation, when she use to text me that she couldnt listen to her heart, she had to do whats best(feel like like shes confused and shes chasing a fairytale man) because missing out on a real man that will do anything for her.I NEVER CALL HER SHE CALLS ME( I PURPOSELY DO THAT)

THE ADVICE FROM MY HOME BOYS WAS TO KEEP FUCKING THESE FEMALES IN HOUSTON AND KEEP HER IN YOUR REARVIEW MIRROR, because the dude she go out wit gonna cheat regardless on her and she will be calling you (ts already happened in my previous relationship before this)

WHATS YALL OPINION AND NEED ALL THE ADVICE I aint trippin as long as you give your honest opinion

[NFZ]

my advice: use paragraphs

[DblockKidd]

y u make another thread wit da same shit

[ebhere]

Yall pay attention tothe stupidest shit - fuck a paragraph and give advice if you a real nigga!!!!

(and to everyone else on this site)
yall post replies on the most fucked up shit like the threads FUCK MY GRANDMA!! SHE WALKED IN ON ME!! or Itchy Flaky Balls or would you have sex with a girl on her period but yall cant give simple advice
STOP ONLY VIEWING AND POST SOMETHIN IF YOU A REAL NIGGA FEEL ME?

[TruLegend32]

Yall pay attention tothe stupidest shit - fuck a paragraph and give advice if you a real nigga!!!!

(and to everyone else on this site)
yall post replies on the most fucked up shit like the threads FUCK MY GRANDMA!! SHE WALKED IN ON ME!! or Itchy Flaky Balls or would you have sex with a girl on her period but yall cant give simple advice
STOP ONLY VIEWING AND POST SOMETHIN IF YOU A REAL NIGGA FEEL ME?

wtf??? shut the fuck up!!! where's your GROUNDBREAKING advice?

[~!YouNg!~!PyRO!~]

listen to ya homeboys. even though u like her n all that, keep fuckin wit the other females. she goin come back if its meant to be..... if a girl says she doesnt want a relationship then she prolly just doesnt want one with u. well.... just keep fuckin the other girls, she cant get mad cuase she said she doesnt want a relationship. dont feel guilty nigga just do u. dont get all worked up over a girl. bitches is like money they come n they go, some stay, but most of it goes

[ebhere]

wtf??? shut the fuck up!!! where's your GROUNDBREAKING advice?
(two weeks ago a bunch of people were responding to someone who was attracted to their sister) do you got some advice dog? cuz everyday i see other threads get a bunch of replies

[Thoroest]

young pyro i feell what you sayin, but we got in numerous arguments and i gave her every reason to leave when we were just talkn in different states. SHE CAME BACK REPEATEDLY BUT I FUCKED UP FOR THE LAST TIME WHEN I SENT HER A TEXT AGFTER AN ARGUMENT THAT SAID: You only know what I tell you and dont make me put your ass on front street

[niggawaiianmix]

Damn my nigga I'm going through something similar. If you feel she the one then just give her her space to let her find herself. She seems like right now she is confused and doesn't know what she wants. Show her you care about her and want to make it work tho, I know she be pissing you off with the arguements and shit but don't say shit you know you will regret later. All you can do is be real with her and show her your feelings for her and just wait for her to respond with how she feels. If she playing games or acting stupid just back off completely and that'll let her know you have other options too and if she really care for you then she'll start acting right.

[TweecyDaGreat]

Damn my nigga I'm going through something similar. If you feel she the one then just give her her space to let her find herself. She seems like right now she is confused and doesn't know what she wants. Show her you care about her and want to make it work tho, I know she be pissing you off with the arguements and shit but don't say shit you know you will regret later. All you can do is be real with her and show her your feelings for her and just wait for her to respond with how she feels. If she playing games or acting stupid just back off completely and that'll let her know you have other options too and if she really care for you then she'll start acting right.

Dude know what he talkin bout...take his advice i recommend that

[WCG]

Damn my nigga I'm going through something similar. If you feel she the one then just give her her space to let her find herself. She seems like right now she is confused and doesn't know what she wants. Show her you care about her and want to make it work tho, I know she be pissing you off with the arguements and shit but don't say shit you know you will regret later. All you can do is be real with her and show her your feelings for her and just wait for her to respond with how she feels. If she playing games or acting stupid just back off completely and that'll let her know you have other options too and if she really care for you then she'll start acting right.

Yup, take this dudes advice, just back off and do your own thang.... Let her know you might have someone else in your life, that will make her want you more because girls only want a guy all to themselves. Build competition in her.

And if she aint feelin you, then my bad dogg, just gotta do something else..

But try not to get into too much problems and issues with her man, you dont want her to be thinking of you and all she can remember is arguments.

[WCG]

Dont come at her like she the only one in the world, she might think your a creep. Girls are weird, they push away when you want them, and come back when you dont want them. Kinda like a cat and mouse. Maybe she wants a chase? GIVE HER THE CHASE.

[Cisco from D- D!]

What up man.. Say the worst you can do is keep pushing up on her. Tell her you agree about just being friends and keep doing you, maybe hint that you other females and she will come back to you. Some females are like dat the more you chase the more they pussh you away but once she sees that you are fine w/out and other broads are after you then she will come back. They're competative.

[Thoroest]

Update :I felt like I did keep pushing and soon as she came to Houston but now I aint even trippin, I still got strong feelings for her and just recently she invited me to church (dont know if thats a sign or not) but I'm gonna take yall advice. I just thot if I let her know I'm messing with other females she would have a reason to forget about me thats why I never mentioned that to her when she was in Georgia. If yall still viewing this thread share share share share them comments and advice DONT BE A HOE ASS NIGGA AND VIEW AND MOVE ON IF YALL CAN REPLY TO PERVERTED ASS STUFF LIKE THREADS (Ever ate ass?) THEN YOU CAN RESPOND HERE

[da1latin0arab]

ight yo, my advice : ask yo self this question, What do i want? when u answer that, look at her and see if she meets all that. if shes really what you want, then you'd do everything you can to try n make things work. even if dat means stop fuckin all them other houston girls (sure u aint got any STD's?? lol jk witcha) but anyways, ask her what she wants to do. where she sees herself in 5 years. what she sees in you. what can possibly make ur self better for her. do what everyone is advising then hit us back wit an update.

[Chicago Bull]

Move on, and find someone else. You speak about her as tho she was THE ONE, but when you really find THE ONE you shouldnt be having doubts like these. Keep it moving and in time youll look back and notice it was for the best,

[Thoroest]

I feel what you sayin, but I already did my evaluation and she meets 95% of everything I look for. I cant picture her out my life in 5 years even though I plan on moving to New York in a couple of years for school. Once again I made her feel this way after the fucked up things I said before she came here. Besides her I promised myself I wouldnty date til I was 25. We're both 21 and I'm a month older. But she did open my eyes to a lot of things in life believe it or not. I still aint trippin, we're both young we both talkin to people, we bith hitting clubs enjoying our time in houston, but at the end of the day I still wouldnt mind her being my girl. I really dont see the values that she has in other females. I aint nieve I'll give other girls a chance but the first thing on my mind is going to be pussy REAL TALK

IF Y'ALL STILL VIEWING THIS THREAD DROP SOME KNOWLEDGE, SHARE YOUR THOUGHTS, GIVE ME SOME EXPERIENCES (DONT SUPPORT THAT GAY ASS SHIT NIGGAS BE PUTTING ON LIKE -Ever ate ass out- or fucking a girl on her period) cuz ya replying to perveted ass people who are prolly attracted to their kinfolk !!!!

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[da1latin0arab]

damn, well then. theres not much u can do and not much i can say. what i would do ... since u think that she MIGHT be the one and that u said u werent gonna date till 25 and also that she dont plan on losin her V card till marriage... is to jus fool around wit other girls mean while. i kno it sounds bad n shit, but see what other girls can offer and try to compare it to what she could offer you. this pretty much means really findin out if shes that ONE. like trial-n-error shit. find out if she possesses that other 5% ur lookin for

as time goes by and since it should and could take a while, you should kno by den if shes that one for you

ya never kno till u try

maybe even by 25, ull be out of college n shit and already kno if shes that one for u. then yall can get together and get married then the next thing u kno ( and the first thing that u think about ) is that u ripped her v-card in half.

[Thoroest]

ok dat1latin0arab that was the plan from the get go and i'll be done with school netx may, could of been this fall but I played around in college too much but yeah you read my mind. THe only thing is, is that my plan is only up to God. I realize that unlike a lot of nieve niggas on this site.

ANYONE ELSE WANNA POST SOMETHING ON HEE POSITIVE OR B=NEGATIVE AS ITS RELATED TO THIS TOPIC

[da1latin0arab]

well damn. welllllllllllllll shit. i guess its jus w.e happens happens yo.

itz jus destiny.

[Holyblesser]

u said no man 21-30 yr old would w8 till marriage to have sex.........this man would

[Bape_Soldier]

:hmmm: Damn everybody gave excellent advice :ahhh: nothing I can say that no one else has...

>.<

[Thoroest]

Holyblesser i aint tripin if you would but i dont feel threatened by anyone

[Thoroest]

bape soldier go ahead and post somethin on how you feel bout this, your opinon may be similar to someone but not the exact same

[da1latin0arab]

yeah. jus post yo opinion.

props tho, thoroest. nice thread.

[Thoroest]

Update: I'm bout to go to school this morning and guess who texts me - o girl I been talking bout. She asked me would you leave to another state to pursue a career and I replied Hell yes. (most people who go to college dont end up going back to live in the same city or state they grew uo in). So she text me back that she would wanna live in New York the same place I'm going to go get my masters. This is a hell of a coincidence cuz most girls i know in the south dont like new yorlk as a place to live only to shop.



Need yall opinion am I getting ahead of myself or is this just a big ass coincidence

SHARE THEM OPINIONS AND COMMENTS IF YOU A REAL NIGGA AND I DEFINITELY NEED TO READ SOME FEMALE RESPONSES CUZ YALL'S MATTERS THE MOST