Ever take someone back after they cheated on you?

[javi1989]

I gotta admit I'm guilty of that right now.

Ima start the story from the beginning.

Aight me and my chick for an extended period of time, couldnt see each other, and she the type that needs attention. So this nigga that she went to school was willing to do that and trick on her, and like Eve, she fell for it. So a couple months pass by, they not fucking yet, but they getting too close. She talking bout we just friends, but I told her she need to set that whole thing straight before something happen she talking bout ok and for the next few months, I realize I'm living in a web of lies.
But I don't say nothing cuz I realize she gon fuck up. I wanted to catch her ass red-handed. I fucked up though and started tricking on her, for what reason, I do not know.
So then around last month, she start acting real funny, but I wasn't gonna stress over a damn thing cuz I had school coming up and I was like, I'm not stressing myself out over a female.
Then one day I see her somewhere to give her something, and she's whipping this niggas car, talking about that's my cousin. I remember laughing because this girl thought i was some kind of jackass. She ain't know her friend and I talked about their whole thing, so I knew what car he was pushing and everything.
I got home and I thought I was gonna unleash the wrath of God, but I just told her we through.
Then later that night, my homeboy was like go over there and listen to her side of the story since you know the truth.
I went over there and told me the truth. I was impressed but I was still like naw fuck all this.
Then for the next few days we still texted and talked cuz I said if she ever needed someone to talk to I'll be there for her.
Well one thing led to another and we both realized what we wanted. I'm a firm believer in second chances, so I was like it's whatever, but this chick...
FUCKING ASKS ME IF SHE COULD FUCK WITH BOTH OF US
This nigga talking bout it's cool cuz it makes her happy, I said goddamn, niggas like this make the world fucked up.
I told my chick I ain't gon make you do shit, but if you ride with him, I'm finding another chick, plain and simple.
So she finally smartened up and let dude know his place and ever since then, we been cool.
But I can't lie her friends, her momma, and her momma's boyfriend did an excellent job talking me into trying it again.
All I know is from now on, Ima give her every reason in the world to do it again, just to see where she stand.

Please share your stories

[ImRichBitch]

how is she gonna ask if she can fuck with both of you.........you shoulda dropped her the SECOND she said that....

[javi1989]

how is she gonna ask if she can fuck with both of you.........you shoulda dropped her the SECOND she said that....

LMAO I SWEAR UP AND DOWN IT TOOK EVERY FIBER IN MY BODY FOR ME NOT TO SNUFF HER.
But I don't know, for some reason, and I ain't the only one who feel this way, I think like I was put in her life so she can smarten the fuck up. Cuz she really smart and she not a hoe or nothing like that, but she just gotta open her eyes and realize the real world. She 18, but she be acting like she 8 sometimes, and I think I'm here to show her shit ain't gonna be easy

[GorgeouS GalosheS]

hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm


it aint trickin if u got it


man just start looking for another girl and drop this one


its obvious things wont last

and with this in the back of your mind

your bound to break up.........like a pool table :smoking:

[manny710]

JUS KEEP IT SIMPLE....ONCE A CHEATER ALWAYS A CHEATER...DONT MATTER BOU ALL DA LOVE AND SHIT.....DATS A LOAD OF PORKIES :shifty:

IF U GOT CHEATED ON MOVE ON....NO MATTER HOW HARD IT IS

BUT DATS ME ANYWAY

[OrangeCounty714]

stop being a sucker for love... drop her!

"fool u once, shame on them; fool u twice, shame on you"

[javi1989]

yeah i feel yall on that drop her tip.
right now I'm doing everything in my power to make her feel like shit. I know shit ain't gonna last, so I might as well have fun with it

[a-bLock23]

stop being a sucker for love... drop her!

"fool u once, shame on them; fool u twice, shame on you"

co-sign on that on kid.

yeah man, don't make the same mistake as me.
don't be a sucka for love, especially in this position where you at.
what kind of girl asks if she can fuck both of ya'll.
drop her and move on kid, the best advice anyone can give ya.
keep ya head up.

[javi1989]

im probably gon drop her as a gf, but i still want her as a friend.
her mom and I had a very interesting convo yesterday on our way to church (this chick was not with us)
but from what I understood, she's about to go through the same mistakes I went through and... for some reason I can't quit on her. It ain't even about my feelings at this point. I just feel that God had us meet so we can help each other grow.
One thing I learned from this whole thing is how to rationalize every situation and forgive people.
And it made me a lot less of a quitter than I was before, even though I wouldn't quit on a lot.
I feel like I need to show her the ropes and make sure she doesn't fall into the same traps I fell in

[javi1989]

btw, props to everyone on this

[OrangeCounty714]

im probably gon drop her as a gf, but i still want her as a friend.
her mom and I had a very interesting convo yesterday on our way to church (this chick was not with us)
but from what I understood, she's about to go through the same mistakes I went through and... for some reason I can't quit on her. It ain't even about my feelings at this point. I just feel that God had us meet so we can help each other grow.
One thing I learned from this whole thing is how to rationalize every situation and forgive people.
And it made me a lot less of a quitter than I was before, even though I wouldn't quit on a lot.
I feel like I need to show her the ropes and make sure she doesn't fall into the same traps I fell in

some people gotta learn the hard way. karma is a bitch....

do you love her? the way i see it... it should be her that's makin' things up to you right now.. not the other way around. it seem like u the one acting like it was your fault or something. she should be the one saying that she don't wanna quit on you, and that God put you two together to help grow.... but if her heart aint all the way in it, then you needa get yourself out of it. keep in mind that she could have just did that cuz she wanted u to break it off with her first. play your cards right and be smart about it. whatever you decide to do thats up to you and no one can say anything about that. just don't let yourself get into that situation again.

[a-bLock23]

im probably gon drop her as a gf, but i still want her as a friend.
her mom and I had a very interesting convo yesterday on our way to church (this chick was not with us)
but from what I understood, she's about to go through the same mistakes I went through and... for some reason I can't quit on her. It ain't even about my feelings at this point. I just feel that God had us meet so we can help each other grow.
One thing I learned from this whole thing is how to rationalize every situation and forgive people.
And it made me a lot less of a quitter than I was before, even though I wouldn't quit on a lot.
I feel like I need to show her the ropes and make sure she doesn't fall into the same traps I fell in

yeah understood what you sayin'
do what you gotta do
but an ex is an ex for a reason
let her learn from her mistakes alone or else there never gonna learn and later on swoop down to save her if needed but not right now, not in the state ya'll are in.
your needs and feelings are important too.
these types of girls gotta learn the harder way since there takin that route.

[BlueVibes]

stop being a sucker for love... drop her!

"fool u once, shame on them; fool u twice, shame on you"

co-sign

[FAM__izSinceRe]

I wouldnt be able to do that.

[javi1989]

some people gotta learn the hard way. karma is a bitch....

do you love her? the way i see it... it should be her that's makin' things up to you right now.. not the other way around. it seem like u the one acting like it was your fault or something. she should be the one saying that she don't wanna quit on you, and that God put you two together to help grow.... but if her heart aint all the way in it, then you needa get yourself out of it. keep in mind that she could have just did that cuz she wanted u to break it off with her first. play your cards right and be smart about it. whatever you decide to do thats up to you and no one can say anything about that. just don't let yourself get into that situation again.


She been realize that... trust me, she's doing her part to make shit up to me. She know she fucked up and I know she wish she had a second chance.
And at the same time, I'm like the only person she listen to. If I stop fucking with her altoghter, whats gon happen to her

[javi1989]

yeah understood what you sayin'
do what you gotta do
but an ex is an ex for a reason
let her learn from her mistakes alone or else there never gonna learn and later on swoop down to save her if needed but not right now, not in the state ya'll are in.
your needs and feelings are important too.
these types of girls gotta learn the harder way since there takin that route.
1. you got a great point there.

2. My feelings been through so much before her, shit before I even got into girls like that, I can honestly say that not a lot can hurt me emotionally

[OrangeCounty714]

She been realize that... trust me, she's doing her part to make shit up to me. She know she fucked up and I know she wish she had a second chance.
And at the same time, I'm like the only person she listen to. If I stop fucking with her altoghter, whats gon happen to her


She didn't wish that when she was flossin' his ride. That's like a slap in your face mayn.... and as for the second part, u can care about what happens to her, but from a distance... is she suicidal or something?

[lavery]

Ima keep real with this one. Nigga you stupid, she aint care about you or your feelins when she started talkin to another dude and she aint care about your feelins when she had the nuts to ask if she could have both of yall. So save the i care about here stuff it makes you sound weak. If i was gonna keep a female around like that it would be strictly for pussy, her cookin me dinner and her buyin me stuff, for everything thing else such as gettin my feelins involved with some1 i would have another bitch on the side for that. Cause your gonna feel real stupid a month or two from now when you find out she still talkin to that dude (trust me she is) or she does the same shit to you with another dude. Just off the shit you said already lets me no shes a bird brain hoe who need too mature, so if you stay wit her then just stay with her to get stuff, and get a FEMALE not a birdbrain on the side who knows what they want and dont be bullshittin.

[datoriginalplayboy]

HELL NAAAHHHH

[c_wil]

Ima keep real with this one. Nigga you stupid, she aint care about you or your feelins when she started talkin to another dude and she aint care about your feelins when she had the nuts to ask if she could have both of yall. So save the i care about here stuff it makes you sound weak. If i was gonna keep a female around like that it would be strictly for pussy, her cookin me dinner and her buyin me stuff, for everything thing else such as gettin my feelins involved with some1 i would have another bitch on the side for that. Cause your gonna feel real stupid a month or two from now when you find out she still talkin to that dude (trust me she is) or she does the same shit to you with another dude. Just off the shit you said already lets me no shes a bird brain hoe who need too mature, so if you stay wit her then just stay with her to get stuff, and get a FEMALE not a birdbrain on the side who knows what they want and dont be bullshittin.

co signs


man i was in same situation, girl i wanted to get with had a dude...she just didnt know what she wanted. man let go of her..find some1 else, feel u on wanting to help her but how can you help some1 who doesnt want help or knows they need it..point being she lies, she tricks, let the chick cop u that new iphone, mgs4 and a 25 sack of green...oh yeah a box of pillos and tell the hoe scram

[BWheezybaby69]

Good look on this thread cuz, I'm in a similar situation. My girl cheated on me about 3 months ago, but we ain't together but we still talk from time 2 time. For you situation, all I can say cuz is its going 2 be hard a hell 2 be her friend and thats it! Trust me! I told myself I wasn't gon fuck with my ex no more we was just going 2 be friends and we done fucked plenty of times now. All I can tell you is be strong my dude, but you gotta remember that once a cheat always a cheat and thats real right there! The decision you make is goin 2 be crucial so just make sure you be careful!

[DuttySouth2008]

ight i gotz my gurl, we live bout 2300 miles away from each other and we rarely get to c each other. I'm a dude and i aint gon lie I'm a straight up playa and all honesty that aint the person i wonna be anymore. I done stepped out on my girl twice and she does know and both times she forgave me, the first time i just told her and the second time i didn't she found out on her own from da chicc i messin wit cuz i cut her off. I aint really wonna tell my chicc what i had did cuz i was ashamed of myself, i tried so hard to not cheat that i aint realize that i lowered myself into cheating with dis chicc. She knew that i had a girlfriend and i thought that er thang was coo but it still went down ya kno. Dis chicc was like crazi about me or sumthin cuz she wudnt leave me alone, she was always trien to make me break up wit my gurl to be wit her, on da real mane shawty wasn't good looken at all i was jus hitten cuz it was there, but i would neva leave my chicc for another woman on this earth period, yet i dont kno why i step out on her if i aint eva willing to leave her ya kno. Me and my chicc dont always see eye to eye but i love her and i know she love me, I'm trien to do right by her any advice?

[LayBeezy]

damn dude seriously u fucked up taking her back....she fuckin asked u if she could fuck with both of yall!! wake up man, that sounds like a hoe to me but if u wanna be wit her then good luck to u.

[LayBeezy]

ight i gotz my gurl, we live bout 2300 miles away from each other and we rarely get to c each other. I'm a dude and i aint gon lie I'm a straight up playa and all honesty that aint the person i wonna be anymore. I done stepped out on my girl twice and she does know and both times she forgave me, the first time i just told her and the second time i didn't she found out on her own from da chicc i messin wit cuz i cut her off. I aint really wonna tell my chicc what i had did cuz i was ashamed of myself, i tried so hard to not cheat that i aint realize that i lowered myself into cheating with dis chicc. She knew that i had a girlfriend and i thought that er thang was coo but it still went down ya kno. Dis chicc was like crazi about me or sumthin cuz she wudnt leave me alone, she was always trien to make me break up wit my gurl to be wit her, on da real mane shawty wasn't good looken at all i was jus hitten cuz it was there, but i would neva leave my chicc for another woman on this earth period, yet i dont kno why i step out on her if i aint eva willing to leave her ya kno. Me and my chicc dont always see eye to eye but i love her and i know she love me, I'm trien to do right by her any advice?

if u for real truly love ur girl then u gotta try harder to be faithful, that is if u value her cuz one day she might eventually find out n leave yo ass bro, get ur mind correct.