Help Me Stop Thinkin About ""My Friend"".....

[stloutkast]

i got my homegurl i have known for 2 years and she'z mad cool...
we get along real good....talk about everything...etc....

now in those 2 years i have known her....
she tellz me she loves me and i love her back....
she calls me her "all around friend"...whateva that shit means....
we have got freaky but nothin real major....

we havent ever really got into a relationship...
but because she'z such a good friend
i'm cool with her not being my gurl...
not that i dont want her....
i just figure if it was meant to happen
it would have by now so i dont stress it

she tells me about niggas she be talking to
and i tell her about gurls i know....
she hates my baby mama but loves my daughter....

(they even got close to fighting but thats another story)

but when i think about niggas gettin with her and fuckin her

(let me also add.....she'z a BI-SEXUAL VIRGIN........weird right??)

it drives me crazy.....
because i dont want her callin me when some fake nigga
who just wanna fuck and leave breaks her heart

!!!!!!THE BOTTOM LINE IS THIS!!!!!!..READ THIS IF NOTHING ELSE PLZ

i catch myself stressing over her for no damn reason
stupid thingz like if she doesnt call me for a few days
and that shit has got to stop

i feel like the only way that can happen is
if i stop talking to her and i dont want that
cuz she is one of the realest gurls i have met

it aint da usual shit....
like your average person would say
da best way to get over someone is to find someone new

that doesnt work cuz she'z only my friend not my wifey....

HOW CAN I GET HER OUT MY MIND WITHOUT LOSING MY BEST FRIEND>???.....

sorry for such a long ass post.....props to anyone who can help.....

[datoriginalplayboy]

i been in a similar situation...

things happen for a reason..so i just took my time, i let her know how i felt, took her a while, but she came on, and now we goin together..

so i think u shud let her know how u feel, put it out in the open, and take it from there...depending on she responds

[stloutkast]

yea i see what you saying......

but it aint like i want her to be my gurl....
i aint too much focused on that....

i just wanna stop thinkin about her so damn much

[threats06]

Simple solution.

Holla at her. U already both of ur feet in da door.

[datoriginalplayboy]

yea i see what you saying......

but it aint like i want her to be my gurl....
i aint too much focused on that....

i just wanna stop thinkin about her so damn much

she might be on your mind so much because subconciously u do want to be with her or maybe its juss cuz shes a good friend idk
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[stloutkast]

yea both of yall right i guess......

i gotta figure something out just now sure how.....

propped both of yall.....

[LayBeezy]

damn...u posted this shit rite outta my mind except for i have a girl with a kid on the way, n shit i wish my friend WAS my girl.

[Chicago Bull]

Talk to her and let her know how you feel, sounds like you need some closure.

[stloutkast]

Talk to her and let her know how you feel, sounds like you need some closure.


how u think that>???.....can u explain a lil deeper...

[stloutkast]

propped yall also......

[Leroy_From_Yonder]

SOUNDS LIKE YOU FALLIN FOR THE BROAD...LET HER KNOW HOW YOU FEEL SHE MIGHT FEEL THE SAME WAY

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[GoodFeLLa07]

Don't stop talking to her. If anything, let her know how you feel. Why not give it a try with her, both of you seem to care a lot for each other and you have nothing to lose by talking to her about it.

[gordy0507]

some one has the case of the love bug heehee
jk
the reason you get like that cause your in a routine
you expect her to call you everyday and so or do stuff for you
i mean there is a limit in friendship
but if you really say that you close friends then you have the ability to talk to her and let her know how you feel if not
when you say i love you say it like i love you buddy
letting her know you are her buddy only
set some rules
i mean some friendships you can set some rules so you guys not to have problems
let her know that you dont like the guys she dates and if she plans to date one not to come running to you
friendship = communication

[stloutkast]

yall right i love her a lil bit more then a friend.....
but i'm happy just being her homeboy IF
i can quit stressin over her.....
cuz i hate that shit sumthing serious

it makes me feel like a stalker or sum dumb shit
when i'm thinkin about her.....
and she is most likely somewhere on a date

yall understand what i'm saying>???

i guess it'z weird cuz i neva had a friend like her.....
i was either fuckin a gurl and that was it
or me and the gurl was together.....

so for me to have a gurl where we do everything
but fuck and all that extra boyfriend/gurlfriend shit
it kinda crowds the borderz i'm used to dealing with....


propped everyone....thanks 4 the help.........

[Durt Dobba]

MAN YALL N LUV WIT EACH OTHER AND BOTH SCARED TO SHOW IT! REALLY HOMEBOY U GOT IT MADE BISEXUAL VIRGIN HUH? SOUNDS LIKE A WINNER TO ME AND SHE'LL SCRAP TOO! SHIIIIIIIIITTTTTT! (like them niggas on the wire would say)! HOLLA AT HER HOMIE AND YALL DO THE DAMN THANG!

[bballgmr]

yall right i love her a lil bit more then a friend.....
but i'm happy just being her homeboy IF
i can quit stressin over her.....
cuz i hate that shit sumthing serious

it makes me feel like a stalker or sum dumb shit
when i'm thinkin about her.....
and she is most likely somewhere on a date

yall understand what i'm saying>???

i guess it'z weird cuz i neva had a friend like her.....
i was either fuckin a gurl and that was it
or me and the gurl was together.....

so for me to have a gurl where we do everything
but fuck and all that extra boyfriend/gurlfriend shit
it kinda crowds the borderz i'm used to dealing with....


propped everyone....thanks 4 the help.........

man im in a similar situation and I dont know what to do either. When Im with my friend we act the exact same way. honestly I say just let it rock. Yall aint going nowhere and she wont stop talking to you over some dumb stuff so eventually if yall supposed to b together, you will be.

Yall know yall like each other; You might think that you are "stalking her" by thinking about her so much...but chances are shes thinking about u just as much. Hopefully yall act on yalls feelings soon

[manny710]

SOUNDS LIKE YOU FALLIN FOR THE BROAD...LET HER KNOW HOW YOU FEEL SHE MIGHT FEEL THE SAME WAY

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WORD DATS WHAT I DONE ONCE... AND YEPP IT WORKD

IF YOU GET ON DAT GOOD...DEN SOMETINGS WORKIN..SO WHATS DA HARM IN GOIN ABIT FURTHER

YA GET ME

[realezboi]

uALREADY KNO... LEAD WITH YOUR HEART MANG..GEAH