Im in a situation with a girl.....(need some opinions)

[АИŦĦØИ¥]

aight ya ive never posted in here before but i need yas opinion

aight well ever since the semester started, my roomates girlfriend got a new roomate and shes from spain :dribble: anyways ive been feelin her ever since i first met her, well we cool and all we all go to the clubs n shit as a group. well last month her ex came into town and last time he dumped her because he said he found the girl of his dreams :smh: ao after all that happened they got back together (well shes turnin 19 in june so shes kind of still at that imature state) so just this week he dumped her again, so my roomate told me that he heard this conversation that his girlfriend had with the spain girl, so my roomates telling me everything they said, well the spain girl said that shes tired of guys being dicks (but look at the types of guys she dates, shes dates them white model type guys that act like like dicks because they know they can get another girl cause of their looks so they have nothing to worry about) any ways my roomates girl says well theres always ANTHONY (i guess cause im the nice type of guy) cause he big (meaning tall and built) and he'll protect you and shit, and the spain girl says he so big that he can protect all 4 of us, well supposedly she says a reason she might not get with me is because of the way i dress :smh: and im thinkin in my head WTF??? the way i dress is street comfortable clothes, i mean i wear collar shits and shit every now and then but not 24/7 like those preppy white guys and i think thats the way she wants me to dress, supposedly she thinks i dress GANGSTER :smh: so supposedly they might wanna take me shopping and shit, so the point of this thread is why the fuck should i have to change my image for a girl to get with me, if im the type of guy she wants to get with and one reason holding her back is because of the way i dress then thats some dumb shit, so whats yas take on this and do you think i should change the way i dress so i can get with the girl ive been feeling for a long time???? i mean i could with the girl ive been wanting for a while but at what cost, a imature girl who wants to turn me into somethin im not......

[Livingonaknifesedge]

Don't change who you are for a bitch.

[gordy0507]

well there is the modern way of thinking and old fashioned way
Old Fashioned: You can change the way you dress and all for her if you really really like her i mean really....and if you dont know how ask her to go shopping with you and see what she likes on a guy...the old fashioned thinking mostly means that the guy would change for the girl if they want to get with her
Modern: If she does not accept you for who you are then dont try at all...she has to see your personality wise or at least for who you are and your actions towards her...i mean everyone dresses away but when they start growing up you tend to change your style a bit
so with me i dont mind how they dress as long as they know when to dress descent and dont complain how i look

[csiegfried1]

all guys gotta change somewhat 2 get a chick..if dressin diff is the only thing 2 change, go after it

[W1ld Bill]

Hate to be blunt but fuck all that.

It seems like you don't even know the chick all that well as far as intimately

I can see if you were with the chick and changing ur style up a bit was a way to NOT LOSE her but it seems likes you're about to change up your still just to GET YOUR FOOT IN THE DOOR; just to get her to consider you b/f material.

What if you change your style just to get her to notice you and then come to find out she really don't care for your personality? Then you've over extended yourself for a chick that has nothing to lose.

I mean, im not against the idea of sacrifice and changing something about yourself to accommodate another however, make sure the other person is doing the same and/or atleast that they deserves it.

[bballgmr]

Unless you cant dress and you dont know it (j/p), you dont need to change the way you dress just to bag a girl.

[jezzer75]

unless you dress like really out there different don't bother changing...if you dressing like a rocker then i'd suggest you change lol limited target market etc...if you dress ok then just smarten up a lil make your shit fit your arms etc. when you go out turn it up a lil and look slick so she can see a difference in how you normally dress and how you dress when you out...if she still sayin the same shit then, fuck her

[youknowroe]

the way I see it is DO NOT change you image for a girl get a girl who wants to get with you for you forget about that girl you can still flirt with her but I think you don got your self in the just friends section

[We$ton]

All people have to change and adapt in different ways in relationships, but I've never heard of changing the way you dress for someone, fuck that, don't change the way you dress for no-one.

[armantem86]

All people have to change and adapt in different ways in relationships, but I've never heard of changing the way you dress for someone, fuck that, don't change the way you dress for no-one.

:goodpost:

[Slightly Jewish]

All people have to change and adapt in different ways in relationships, but I've never heard of changing the way you dress for someone, fuck that, don't change the way you dress for no-one.

:goodpost:

yea the way u dress is really different....it is a statement that u put on yourself when u make a first appearance on some1....and most of the time it describes some1

[mc iggy]

yeah if she really into u, she will look past da clothes

[mustyrabbit]

u shouldnt have to change for some1... like if she first met u and u where dressed "gangster" then she could shut u out cuz she has a pre-determined image of how u are, but after getting to know u it shouldnt matter.

on another note, i say rock a polo... its niggas who are 35 walkin around in iced out sponge bob shirts and tall tees. man fuck all that shit str8 up. anything a 14 white kid is screamin at his mom to buy him u shouldnt want. be u tho. baseball caps used to scare my chick. seemed like thug shit to her... so AT FIRST i wouldnt wear them, now it dont matter she know how i am... but change your style up, u might end up liking it, step out of your box.

[kountry_bo1]

Clothes dont make the man....Real Talk

[Leroy_From_Yonder]

DONT CHANGE JUS GOTTA SHOW HER THE CLOTHES DONT MAKE THE PERSON YA MEAN...IF ALL ELSE FAILS USE THE GUYS SHE DATES AS EXAMPLES...JUS BE LIKE I CAN DRESS PREPPY LIKE THEM AN TREAT YOU LIKE SHIT LIKE THEM OR I CAN BE "GANGSTER' AN YOU CAN BE MY GHETTO QUEEN LOL...CORNY BUT OH WELL

[BenGrymm]

Depends on how good the pussy is. If its that good make ya knees buckle ype pussy that smell like strawberry and opens like a blooming flower.....
well there is your answer.