Need to speed things up wit dis chick. Dead Serious

[Jellee]

Arright I usually come here just for a good laugh but I need some help and I'm hopin someone can help me this all serious no bull crap made up just lookin for suggestions

I've been feelin dis chick for a few months now. She says I'm sweet all that girly talk and what not. Then i finally poped the question the other day I'm like how about me and you get together. Then she was all like "Oh your a great guy and I think you'd be a great person to date but i barely know you and can't make that decision on what I know, so let me get to know you better and then I'll think about it."

:supersad:

I was like i fuckin knew dat would happen and i rushed. But anyways i know she feelin me and i knew dis would happen cause her and her ex called it off but i need to get with her more.

We talk about 1-3 hours a day 5 days a week about randomness but I needa speed this up and get on her quick.

Any suggestions on how to speed it up

[manny710]

well shes feeling you, if she wants to get to know you den dat means she probz wants it to b strong n dat so dont rush her, jus do da linking up and talking den take it from der

or plan B... jus whip out your rod and see da reaction :laugh:

[W1ld Bill]

People, especially woman, want what they can't have.

The only way people take things for granted is when they realize they can't be lost.

Talk to her about other girls and subtly <---keyword, give the impression that you MAY be interested in them and that THEY ARE interested in you. Her reaction to you popping the question puts the ball in her court and now you're forced to wait and go at her pace. Thats never good so you have to show her that you don't need to wait around for her and that you have other options. Soon she'll start to think about what she's potentially missing.

The reason why i stress the subtly is because if its not subtle it'll look exactly like what it is which is what you don't want it to look like which is you trying to throw shit in her face.

its sad to say but i've learned the hard way that a good portion of a relationship, especially the beginning stages is all about mind fuckery. A lot of the time it doesn't pay to be 100% straight forward and vulnerable. So you have to do things that accentuate your worth and make her vie for your attention

For example If ya'll talk for over an hr shorten it to half an hour and initiate the end of all the conversations.

When she calls tell her your on the phone with another girl and that you'll call her back or (and this ties in with my previous tip) while on the phone with her tell her to hold on and come back and tell her that one of your homegirls is calling and your gonna take the call.

Shit like that

Its all mind fuckery dude. Sad but true

Also phone calls shouldn't be the primary source of communication. In fact, ideally, phone calls should mainly be used as a quick re-up as far as how each of you are and shit and as a way to make plans to meet up in person.

There's a "in person/over the phone" ratio to keep in mind. The more people talk over the phone the less their actually hanging out and vice versa and im sure no one needs to tell you that hanging out with her puts you on better ground then just talking to her over the phone

[Craven_MooreHead]

People, especially woman, want what they can't have.

The only way people take things for granted is when they realize they can't be lost.

Talk to her about other girls and subtly <---keyword, give the impression that you MAY be interested in them and that THEY ARE interested in you. Her reaction to you popping the question puts the ball in her court and now you're forced to wait and go at her pace. Thats never good so you have to show her that you don't need to wait around for her and that you have other options. Soon she'll start to think about what she's potentially missing.

The reason why i stress the subtly is because if its not subtle it'll look exactly like what it is which is what you don't want it to look like which is you trying to throw shit in her face.

its sad to say but i've learned the hard way that a good portion of a relationship, especially the beginning stages is all about mind fuckery. A lot of the time it doesn't pay to be 100% straight forward and vulnerable. So you have to do things that accentuate your worth and make her vie for your attention

For example If ya'll talk for over an hr shorten it to half an hour and initiate the end of all the conversations.

When she calls tell her your on the phone with another girl and that you'll call her back or (and this ties in with my previous tip) while on the phone with her tell her to hold on and come back and tell her that one of your homegirls is calling and your gonna take the call.

Shit like that

Its all mind fuckery dude. Sad but true

Also phone calls shouldn't be the primary source of communication. In fact, ideally, phone calls should mainly be used as a quick re-up as far as how each of you are and shit and as a way to make plans to meet up in person.

There's a "in person/over the phone" ratio to keep in mind. The more people talk over the phone the less their actually hanging out and vice versa and im sure no one needs to tell you that hanging out with her puts you on better ground then just talking to her over the phone
what he said....esp the mind fuckery part

girls can be seriously, seriously confusing unless you play the mind games with them

[Jellee]

People, especially woman, want what they can't have.

The only way people take things for granted is when they realize they can't be lost.

Talk to her about other girls and subtly <---keyword, give the impression that you MAY be interested in them and that THEY ARE interested in you. Her reaction to you popping the question puts the ball in her court and now you're forced to wait and go at her pace. Thats never good so you have to show her that you don't need to wait around for her and that you have other options. Soon she'll start to think about what she's potentially missing.

The reason why i stress the subtly is because if its not subtle it'll look exactly like what it is which is what you don't want it to look like which is you trying to throw shit in her face.

its sad to say but i've learned the hard way that a good portion of a relationship, especially the beginning stages is all about mind fuckery. A lot of the time it doesn't pay to be 100% straight forward and vulnerable. So you have to do things that accentuate your worth and make her vie for your attention

For example If ya'll talk for over an hr shorten it to half an hour and initiate the end of all the conversations.

When she calls tell her your on the phone with another girl and that you'll call her back or (and this ties in with my previous tip) while on the phone with her tell her to hold on and come back and tell her that one of your homegirls is calling and your gonna take the call.

Shit like that

Its all mind fuckery dude. Sad but true

Also phone calls shouldn't be the primary source of communication. In fact, ideally, phone calls should mainly be used as a quick re-up as far as how each of you are and shit and as a way to make plans to meet up in person.

There's a "in person/over the phone" ratio to keep in mind. The more people talk over the phone the less their actually hanging out and vice versa and im sure no one needs to tell you that hanging out with her puts you on better ground then just talking to her over the phone

You are a fucking genious my nigga gosh I'ma take in every single word you said god damn!

I already got half that shit done so far.

I end every single convo and as for the ratio of phone thing it's more like 80% of person in school 20% phone. You think i should keep it dat way?

But ima do dat hold up Im gonna go talk to my other girl and call you back ting.

Seeeeeeeeen

I'ma take in to consideration everything you said and I'm sure it'll work you nigga is a fuckin genious wordddddd

[REALTALK87]

if u really want something from a bitch

dont ask her

tell her

[REALTALK87]

or take it

[KoBBiE™]

just be laid bak n make her want u

dont be a stalker or some shit

DONT FEIN 4 THE PUSSY!!!!

[Holyblesser]

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[W1ld Bill]

I end every single convo and as for the ratio of phone thing it's more like 80% of person in school 20% phone. You think i should keep it dat way?

i would say thats cool as long as you're seeing her outside of class/school.

If not then definately step that up.

You gonna have a hard time having a chick open up to you the way you want in school/class.

Even if ya'll just go to mickey D's after school or something for an hour or 2 (which if ya'll really vibin it could easily turn into a long more) its still just you two and you have a much better chance as buildin that connection

[Jellee]

i would say thats cool as long as you're seeing her outside of class/school.

If not then definately step that up.

You gonna have a hard time having a chick open up to you the way you want in school/class.

Even if ya'll just go to mickey D's after school or something for an hour or 2 (which if ya'll really vibin it could easily turn into a long more) its still just you two and you have a much better chance as buildin that connection

arright bro I'ma definitly take in everything you said respect big time my man I'll just post once i cop dat pussy.

Been a while anyways

[mustyrabbit]

if u really want something from a bitch

dont ask her

tell her

or take it

hahaha nigga u ganna have niggas taken cookies from ladies lol shit is funny... foolish minds will take it wrong lol

but as for dude... there should always be a kiss before u try to ask some1 out... its just a sign that yall connect fully. its natureal progression. just chill wit her an more in person and be cool. dont devote it all to her now tho cuz women are just like men. they aint ganna buy the cow if they can get the milk for free.

[Artisticfied]

People, especially woman, want what they can't have.

The only way people take things for granted is when they realize they can't be lost.

Talk to her about other girls and subtly <---keyword, give the impression that you MAY be interested in them and that THEY ARE interested in you. Her reaction to you popping the question puts the ball in her court and now you're forced to wait and go at her pace. Thats never good so you have to show her that you don't need to wait around for her and that you have other options. Soon she'll start to think about what she's potentially missing.

The reason why i stress the subtly is because if its not subtle it'll look exactly like what it is which is what you don't want it to look like which is you trying to throw shit in her face.

its sad to say but i've learned the hard way that a good portion of a relationship, especially the beginning stages is all about mind fuckery. A lot of the time it doesn't pay to be 100% straight forward and vulnerable. So you have to do things that accentuate your worth and make her vie for your attention

For example If ya'll talk for over an hr shorten it to half an hour and initiate the end of all the conversations.

When she calls tell her your on the phone with another girl and that you'll call her back or (and this ties in with my previous tip) while on the phone with her tell her to hold on and come back and tell her that one of your homegirls is calling and your gonna take the call.

Shit like that

Its all mind fuckery dude. Sad but true

Also phone calls shouldn't be the primary source of communication. In fact, ideally, phone calls should mainly be used as a quick re-up as far as how each of you are and shit and as a way to make plans to meet up in person.

There's a "in person/over the phone" ratio to keep in mind. The more people talk over the phone the less their actually hanging out and vice versa and im sure no one needs to tell you that hanging out with her puts you on better ground then just talking to her over the phone

All of this what he said, plus you gotta get to the bottom of things and see if she still feelin' her ex, if so, then you got a lot of work to do and might as well look ahead for some back and forth stuff.....Like she goes back to him, he hurts her, then she's back to you for advice...

..basically using your as the security blanket to make him mad because she can say she wit you when in reality she using you to get back at him.

If she ain't feelin' her ex, you gotta a cheat sheet in front of you (her) that will tell you what he didn't do right and all you gotta do is do what he didn't do and now you got her, but DON'T RUSH IT, it sends red flags and in her mind jumping from one relationship to another that quick to a female puts in her mind that you could be the same as the ex.....you don't want to be prejudged before you're given a chance.

Just enjoy so fun time, like going out to a movie, a rose, something besides your word to let her know you for real and to get her ex out of her mind......it wouldn't hurt to ask her to dinner as a friend, or go out to eat, BUT YOU WANNA MAKE SURE SHE'S DONE WITH THE EX...

I can guarantee you if you meet with her in person, the convos will change, JUST MAKE SURE you get a face to face with her for atleast an hour, DON'T BE ABOUT SEX, talk to her look her in the eyes, compliment her, something like "I can't believe dude left someone like you" but you keep throwing that in every so often, BUT BE SINCERE....

Touch her face if she drops her head during eye contact, by lifting her chin up and making sure you are looking her in the eyes.....Whatever you do, don't make a move on her, you are just trying to put in her mind that you ain't like the last dude. Do stuff like glide your hands down her cheek and keep a straight face and you in there, THAT SHE CAN'T DENY......it gives her the impression you are for real. Lastly, when you get that urge, just say well it time for me to get back to the house got a long day tomorrow type stuff......Give her something to think about......Aight

[Jellee]

^^definitly my nigga I'ma take all dis into consideration

[Artisticfied]

What's the update so far?

[Jellee]

What's the update so far?

aint seen her in 2 days but called her on the phone nothing much :sips:

[Artisticfied]

aint seen her in 2 days but called her on the phone nothing much :sips:

just be patient

[Da Snowman 888]

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