Looking for opinion on situation

[Builder]

Okay here is the situation, Me and my girl have been dating for 2 years now, I was 18 and she was 16 when we first met. She is now 18 and she wants to go out with her friends a bit more, experience clubbing/partying etc.... She has never been I am now 20 so before i met her i did experience all of that. So i know how it's like. And really don't see the point. She says she wont drink, wont dance with other guys and i trust her. But the whole reason she wants to go clubbing is cause of her friends. And with her friends at these clubs and parties anything goes cause they can pressure her to drink or dance with some guy. So what would you do in my situation?

[LRM]

You shouldnt deny her the experiences that you had. in saying that also, 2 years is a long time by any means considering both your age and your circumstances and the statistics of young couple staying loyal is not too bright. if both the relationship is healthy then you shouldn't be worrying. it's fine to keep tabs on her from time to time, but don't be one of those boyfriends who needs to know where his girl is all the time. just do your thing, keep loving your girl and be the best and supportive bf you can be, and if she's worth it she will remain faithful regardless of whether she is with you 24/7 or partying separately - i trying to think in her position righ here. however, if you start sweating the fact that she's doing this, she will sense it and she'll lose interest in you and move on definitely. don't be a sucker for jealously, trust me, it never works out because there will always be some dude or bunch of dudes trying to get with your girl

[Builder]

Thanks bro

[Inkredabal]

You shouldnt deny her the experiences that you had. in saying that also, 2 years is a long time by any means considering both your age and your circumstances and the statistics of young couple staying loyal is not too bright. if both the relationship is healthy then you shouldn't be worrying. it's fine to keep tabs on her from time to time, but don't be one of those boyfriends who needs to know where his girl is all the time. just do your thing, keep loving your girl and be the best and supportive bf you can be, and if she's worth it she will remain faithful regardless of whether she is with you 24/7 or partying separately - i trying to think in her position righ here. however, if you start sweating the fact that she's doing this, she will sense it and she'll lose interest in you and move on definitely. don't be a sucker for jealously, trust me, it never works out because there will always be some dude or bunch of dudes trying to get with your girl

co-signed 100%..

[soulja4brooklyn]

word to lrm as long as you don't sweat it and act like it doesnt bother you it will show that your confident and she'll want u more by this trust me

[gordy0507]

well gosh my parents dont let me club if i have a boyfriend
but if i do its his choice to take me
cause when a girl goes to a club with her friends she may dance with her friends but sometimes you want to dance with a guy in some cases
then temptation arises and her friends will cover it up if she does dance with one
why dont you ask her if you can join her to go clubbing if she denies she is up to something if shes sure then you know there is trust

[BMWE31850CSI]

this is some bitch shit :smh:

[mustyrabbit]

You shouldnt deny her the experiences that you had. in saying that also, 2 years is a long time by any means considering both your age and your circumstances and the statistics of young couple staying loyal is not too bright. if both the relationship is healthy then you shouldn't be worrying. it's fine to keep tabs on her from time to time, but don't be one of those boyfriends who needs to know where his girl is all the time. just do your thing, keep loving your girl and be the best and supportive bf you can be, and if she's worth it she will remain faithful regardless of whether she is with you 24/7 or partying separately - i trying to think in her position righ here. however, if you start sweating the fact that she's doing this, she will sense it and she'll lose interest in you and move on definitely. don't be a sucker for jealously, trust me, it never works out because there will always be some dude or bunch of dudes trying to get with your girl

he dropped gems on u here... but i say let her do it because u need to find out what time of person she is. if she cannot withstand peer pressure than she may not e the best candidate for gf... but let her do her thing and let her get tired of it... and if she dont get tired of it, and u dont want a party girl, well then u know what to do

[REALTALK87]

you going to lose touch with her if u deny her the experiences she desires

[manny710]

Relax, Let her have some freedom! If she is for real she wont cheat

but you never know

[Mr.Ahmed]

if u r goin let her go.. make sure its to a club wer YOUR boys hang out.. tell her its so they're for her if shit gets crazy... but make sure ur boys keep an eye on her.. dat way u'll noe for sure nutng will happen.. n make sure she understands she onli aloud to the clubs u specify..

[armantem86]

let her go out and have some fun. most girls wont hook up with a guy they meet at the club. they just want to dance.

[JookNyce]

Yo don't try to cuff her cuz if u do then she gonna buck.