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anas
December 2nd, 2007, 02:01 AM
So she's in one of my classes, I was attracted to her since the moment i saw her first week of classes but was shy to talk to her, she made it easy and talked to me since she noticed me lookin at her, we had a nice chat, saw her again a few weeks later in a lab, talked for an hour maybe, wonderful conversation, then i drove her home, and she said i should take her and her friends out some time, and i was like yeah sure, and she told me she'll call me sometime, she never called, and i felt like everything has changed, or maybe she just wanted to be friend from the beginning, but i kept thinking about the girl and decided to facebook message her and ask her out, she said ok she can go out sometime next week, i called her 'next week' she said she's busy, then she called me about a week later, we went out and had fun (she brought her friends with her), and then i decided not to call again cuz i felt kind of annoying to her and she just went out with me because she's the one who brought it up, havent heard anything from her after that for like 2 weeks, i called her after that, she didn't answer and didnt call back, and then two days after when i started giving up, she asked me on facebook if i wanted to go out, and of course i told her yeah, and never heard from her again, called again and she didn't call back, is this chick playing games or what. i'm confused, sometimes i think she just wants to be friends, or she's playing hard to get, or she doesnt like me, i'm confused, I have a feeling that she doesn't like me but i just cant forget about her (or dont want to forget maybe)

should i just forget about the whole thing or what?

REALTALK87
December 2nd, 2007, 02:08 AM
i jumped to the last sentence..

if u feel like she doesnt like you then move on

TruLegend32
December 2nd, 2007, 02:27 AM
sorry my nigga but it sounds like ol girl jes like u for a friend cuz and da only reason you hear from he is cuz she wanna kick it wit u when its convenient for HER. she jes tryin to have a good time my nigga and thats all she see u as, a nigga to kick it wit which is y she wanted to to kick it wit u AND her friends ya dig

dys·func·tion·al
December 2nd, 2007, 07:07 AM
i red the whole thing, and when i came up with is. find a new girl to talk to. She playin the fuck out you. Waiting weeks just for her response. then dont even go out on a date with her yet :smh:

anas
December 3rd, 2007, 12:26 AM
i'm goin fuckin crazy in love with her man i don't wanna give up just like that, or should i? i don't know what to do

Gfunk
December 3rd, 2007, 05:27 AM
Keep trying man if you love her that much. Just tell her to stop playing games and straight ask her out just her and not her friends. But if she keeps fooling you around choke the bitch

dubz07
December 3rd, 2007, 07:29 AM
yea ... let her go fam..one door closes n anotha opens...u feel me??? sound like she wana b friends.. specially bringin hers along wit... move on

SonOf2pac
December 3rd, 2007, 07:50 AM
whip that dick out and show her what a good time with you is really like... unless you got a tiny wang...

Bad_Breed
December 3rd, 2007, 11:46 AM
dnt waste your time waitin around for suttin dat probably aint gonna happen

Ballerpeps
December 3rd, 2007, 03:02 PM
she just playing hard to get and another thing she could be playing you ... call her up if she dont answer cool dont trip go out by yourself and just talk to females get some numbers or take one home with you dont stress over this one chick for real go out and find some more even though you want her you still got to play the game to for real dont wait on her let her wait on you when she call the next time and she wanna chill be like you about to go out with a friend who you been talking to lately ..... make up something if you have to but its alot better to have a friend to go out with .. and see whats her reaction if see care she gone start calling more and all that and you gone have her where you wanna . but dont stress over a piece of meat when you call have the whole pot

devonwilliams_66
December 3rd, 2007, 03:35 PM
word, don't stress this chick no matter how much you feeling her. just do you with other chicks and when she see you not stressing her no more she'll come around. and if she don't that just mean she ain't like you in the first place and she just wanted to use you

anas
December 3rd, 2007, 04:44 PM
props yall for helpin me out, i'm not stressin but i just can't forget about her, i'm thinkin maybe I'll just sit her down and talk to her and end up this bullshit, cuz i still remember that she showed some signs that she's attracted when i first met her, and when we were once talkin for the first time i was telling her i'm going out to have dinner and she asked who you're goin with like she wanted to know if it's a chick i'm goin out with....
so maybe i'll just talk to her face to face, and if she said she's interested, good, if she's not, what's the worst that could happen? at least I'll know for sure, or should i just chill out and try to forget about the whole thing?

☼ вăllεя ☼
December 3rd, 2007, 05:22 PM
i agree with the first reply...she jus using u to have fun whenever SHE wants...she obviously dun want no serious relationship nd if she did she wouldnt take like 5 weeks to JUST go ona date with ur friends...nd nigga if u say u love her alot...then ur gonna end up doion that...jus b lik fuck it nd thats that...she outta yo head...oh nd get sum otha chick while u at it .. it always helps...peace fam

Bi-Philly Chick
December 3rd, 2007, 06:44 PM
yea man, just keep it moving..Esp. if you in college its plenty other girls out there

datoriginalplayboy
December 4th, 2007, 12:33 PM
ur gettin played like a sapp.... find a new broad!!!!!!!!!!!!

0VER_iT
December 4th, 2007, 12:48 PM
DAyM HOMEBOi DONT TRiP, MAyBE SHE'S JUSS FLiRTy AND yOOH MiGHT THiNK SHE'S iNTO yOOH ER SOMETHANG BUT SHE;S JUSS BEiNG FRiENDLy,
HONESTLy SHE DONT SEEM TO LiKE yOOH THAT.
SHE PROLLy JUSS THiNKS yOU'RE KOO TO HANG OUT WiFF,
SO SHE JUSS LiKES BEiNG iN CHiLL MODE WiTH yOOH. . .
DONT TAKE ET TO THE HEART, SOMETyMES US GiRLS JUSS WANNAH A HOMEBOi RATHER THAN A BoI.,yA DiGG

& yOOH SAy THAT yOOH WANNAH SiT HER DOWN AND TAWK TO HER ABOUT ET, MUH ADViCE WOULD BE TO BECAREFUL CAUSE yOOH MiTE SCARE HER OFF,AND THEN SHE WONT WANNAH TAWK TO yOOH AT ALL.

R3AL TH|2_E4T
December 4th, 2007, 01:22 PM
move on dude, she seems to only wana hang out when shes bored.. AND WITH HER FRIENDS TOO??

anas
December 5th, 2007, 04:46 PM
talked to her yesterday face to face and told her, she said she's in a shock and don't know what to say, damn females can be strange sometimes..

Ballercb4
December 5th, 2007, 05:04 PM
This is what u doo...if u have a HOTTTTTTTT friend or pay a hoe...walk with this sexyy biatch in front of her...be into her,ignore the girl u like and she will get jealous and she will be all over u know next day...when women see a guy with a hot girl they think he is automatically hot and will run after u and plus women don't like competition they wanna claim a man for themselves if that doesn't work...arranged marriages are always a good option.

REALTALK87
December 5th, 2007, 05:29 PM
talked to her yesterday face to face and told her, she said she's in a shock and don't know what to say, damn females can be strange sometimes..yo b she dont like you