PDA

View Full Version : 2nd place?


BiggBawlzMcGee
November 25th, 2007, 02:17 PM
I like this girl, and I thought she liked me too, because of how clingy she was to me. But it turns out she's kind of boy crazy and is very flirty with other dudes.

One dude in particular she treats more like she treats me, maybe even better than me. They started off as friends, but recently he tried to make a move on her, but he came with some weak game that she really didn't like.

After that happen, she started telling me all the dumb stuff he does and says to her, in a "can you believe this nigga?" kind of way.

Nowadays, that's all she ever talks about to me. It's always about something he said or something he did, she always invites in him into our conversation saying stuff like "We want to talk to you about something" purposely bringing me into that shit to make it seem like I wanted to know too, but I really I don't give a fuck. I just wanted a stronger relationship with her, which this was kind of like, but I don't want it this way. I wanted her to tell me stuff like this because she liked me, not because she didn't like him.

I'm thinking about telling her exactly what I feel about this tonight so I can stop getting attached to her, whether she really likes me or not. Even though I would still date her, I can't help but feel like 2nd place to this dude because that's all she ever talks about to everybody.

grandlarceny06
November 25th, 2007, 07:12 PM
brotha the doors open...tel her what the deal is

REALTALK87
November 26th, 2007, 01:53 AM
i mean if u like her, do what u gotta do.. if shes worth it

{$~ALL-3Y3Z-0n-ME~$}
November 26th, 2007, 03:13 AM
i mean if u like her, do what u gotta do.. if shes worth it

yea if she is worth it
u say she flirts a lot and all so imagine u go out with her ,would u trust her? and dont have that jealousy in you?
but good luck

RowNeD
November 26th, 2007, 03:10 PM
be straight up with her and be like why you askin me these stupid questions about this joke b

GoodFeLLa07
November 29th, 2007, 05:35 AM
lol... damn you're stuck in the friend zone bud. Tell her off, tell her to stop treating you like one of her gf's... you've got nothin to lose

T®££§420
November 29th, 2007, 09:19 PM
you've should have asked her,whats the deal with that guy,then when she told you I'd think maybe you'd have an idea of what kind of chance you have with her.be up front,don't be scared.

dys·func·tion·al
December 2nd, 2007, 07:49 AM
I didnt read the whole thing because once i seen the word "Flirty" I know she aint a good girl.

Trust me ive had a "Flirty" type of girl and either your going to get fed up with her flirting with everyone or she going to flirt with some nigga with super game and take your girl

BiggBawlzMcGee
December 3rd, 2007, 04:40 AM
Props to everybody. I talked to her about it last night and it straightened everything out with her. Turns out I am in the friend zone, which is cool, because I already lost interest in dating her. But this was a good talk, because it cleared all the air, so now there's no mixed signals between us anymore. Still not sure about why she talks about dude so much though.

SonOf2pac
December 3rd, 2007, 07:49 AM
if you really like her the solution is simple... put some poison in that guy's food... watch him die and take your love back...