Is it alright to be in a relationship knowing you arent the only one?

[Cameosis]

Alright lemme get some interesting conversation going. Here is a couple questions about not being exclusive with someone. No one really speaks about it, even tho less people are jumping into relationships right off the bat :

1. If you aint their one and only does that mean you getting played or less of a man/woman because of it?

2. Should you tell that person that you want to be their one and only or you dont want nothing to do with them?

3. Do the rules changes depending on what sex you are?

4. What if you are more than fuckbuddies but still not dating, does that change anything?

[AL€]

oooww,, i have de same problems, ma gurl just left me a week ago beacuse she claims im not the 1...i just took distance from her...@ least i too her virginty, and shes only 16, so i think she doesnt really know what she wants

[grandlarceny06]

brotha...if your doing SERIOUS dating meaning your looking for a wife....dont do it

[ScienSe]

Lol...man im kinda in the same situation.

Me and "my girl" just be chilling and fucking a lot but we not together though. We both seeing other people (although she dont want me seeing other people..im the same way) Itz kinda confusing so i just sit back and be patient fa real. She always talking about me being "the one" and how she wanna get serious but ion see it happening for some reason. She got to many distractions and i do to. She be like u need to let them hoes go and be with me and only me but i know she aint gon do the same.

She used to be like i wont the one for her etc etc. Sex is key though. Aint every nigga piping rite no homo dats why she always come back to me...**Shrugz** shit is kinda crazy though man.

[REALTALK87]

no go..

[Cameosis]

bump.

[dys·func·tion·al]

if you in a relation with someone and that person has someone on the side.. You ARE DUM!!! Unless it a 3 sum

[ArabicKingKong]

Alright lemme get some interesting conversation going. Here is a couple questions about not being exclusive with someone. No one really speaks about it, even tho less people are jumping into relationships right off the bat :

1. If you aint their one and only does that mean you getting played or less of a man/woman because of it?

2. Should you tell that person that you want to be their one and only or you dont want nothing to do with them?

3. Do the rules changes depending on what sex you are?

4. What if you are more than fuckbuddies but still not dating, does that change anything?

1. If you know ur not exclusive... then it shouldnt matter. You do ur thing, she does hers.
2. I know if me and a chick have been talkin(fucking) for a while and she aint talking to nobody anymore, shell try to have me to herself.. and that just fucks up the whole dynamic, makes u not wanna be with her anymore.
3. nope
4. nope... just dont lie

[andones]

1. If it aint ur Girl Fuck it...
2. I know if a bitch comes at me crazy after we been Fucking for a while.... I would ask her what more can we do dating that we aint alrdy doing... What?? U gonna give me Super head??? (A wise man once said...."Move a little slow getting at me treat the pussy like its worth something dont just go throwing it at....Cause at the same time im thinkin how many niggas hit u with that same line... or how many other niggas u ran game to how many niggas u fuckd or u gave brain to- Joe Buddens)
3. naw
4.Naw ur just fuckbuddies...

[Young_illz]

i would say... that shyt cant fly.

[atilladahun]

Alright lemme get some interesting conversation going. Here is a couple questions about not being exclusive with someone. No one really speaks about it, even tho less people are jumping into relationships right off the bat :

1. If you aint their one and only does that mean you getting played or less of a man/woman because of it?

2. Should you tell that person that you want to be their one and only or you dont want nothing to do with them?

3. Do the rules changes depending on what sex you are?

4. What if you are more than fuckbuddies but still not dating, does that change anything?


1.im in the ssame place and if u respect him or her enuff to give em ur all and u kno thier not then f*** emand it dont make u less it its wa u feel cant do shit but stay or move on
2. ye thats reasonable then u find out where u stand
3.nope
4.that make it even more cuz just bein a fuck buddy ur just a friend that fuck but if ya'll got that trust or w.e then thats even worse it they cant respect ur feelings and most fuck buddy relationships need alot more trust then u'd think.


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[mustyrabbit]

if yall are not exclusive, then she does her and you do u and no1 can get upset. if u wanna be exclusive, then tell her that, bn exclusive dont make yall boyfriend and girlfriend but its the first step... aint nuttin worse than another nigga playin in yo sandbox and you cant do shit about it. if u feelin her, then tell her u wanna be exclusive and see where it goes, any self respecting girl wont have a problem with that, if she says "no" then that means she plans on fucking you as well as other ppl, and u shouldnt want a chick like that anyway... there is a difference between gettin alot of sex and gettin alot of sex form dif ppl.

[GoodFeLLa07]

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