Troubled marriage

[Limo2481]

I need some advice. My wife and I have problems. I never have been much of the romantic type of person. It has been getting to wife for some time now and she has told me. I still have not made any progress with the problem though. She is under the impression that it is because I do not love her as a normal person should love his wife, but it is not true. I need help to show my wife that I want her, besides saying it and touching.

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[Jeso]

buy her some romantic stuff

[dakingpin714]

surprise her with flowers or dinner. then give her a massage when u get back. girls need that stuff man. ill give my girl little kisses on the cheek and stuff. or i would come up behind her and just hug her really tight then give her a kiss. just dotn do anything that makes it seem liek it will lead to sex.

[txslab512]

send some flowers to her job... but dont call her wait till she call u, than take her out to dinner that night, then come home and BEAT IT UP!!!!

[kalibud]

txslab512 is rite homie get flowers take her out to eat and before u beat it do some foreplay kiss her body, let her kno how u feel about her ...try n make her want the dick than you beat it tell she feel it.....im being foreal

[qwerter]

surprise her with flowers or dinner. then give her a massage when u get back. girls need that stuff man. ill give my girl little kisses on the cheek and stuff. or i would come up behind her and just hug her really tight then give her a kiss. just dotn do anything that makes it seem liek it will lead to sex. Yeah I always do a lot of little things thats what makes them feel wanted and special. You do not have to buy her anything thats not really showing affection. Of course dinner flowers those types of things are good but it has to be something that she cherishes and will remember forever. Something out the ordinary something not common for you. That way she will be shocked and fall in love all over again.

[LRM]

Being "romantic" means different things. what women actually want is a man who displays the type of behavior that we know generates attraction: demonstrating value, social proof, leadership, independence, and keeping her guessing about your feelings by using push/pull and mixing fun neg-hits with the occasional unexpected compliments. keeping her guessing involves occasional acts that would become predictable if we did them too much or too soon. a small amount of traditional romance has its place in keeping her guessing.

Things you shoul do/consider:

-Bring her into your world just a little. It will make her feel less insecure about the distance (lack of intimacy/attention) which is now coming to the fore. I was flattered when a woman told me she's really wanted to see me at one of my gigs when I first performed. First public gig I get and she's invited. I find it really cool that she wants to see a part of my world. It made me feel she really wanted to be supportive which is cool.

-Treat her well. Don't kiss up to her, and don't be a pushover, but treat her well.

-Do something to show you put some thought into a date. open doors for her..u know the romantic type of stuff. The great women will appreciate that. I'm told they'll love beiing treated that way. Don't chew her food for her, and don't be obsessed about it, but often, it seems like the little things go over well. kiss her in the rain, take her ice skating, suprise her at work and take her for a walk through the park or a picnic, sing her a song. just build the relationship again and bring back that level of intimacy. remember its the thought that counts, not how much the bill is. go all out and romance the hell out of her for one night. b doing this you're taking away all her ammunition so that you can find out what is really going on a few days after- is she saying this simply because she is starved of attention or is she really considering leaving the relationship? Get her excited again and get her emotions buzzing.

-Try opening up a lil more disclosure to raise her interest level even if it is difficult to do at first. embrace her more, just pay attention to her. communicate a lil better about your problems.

The relationships worth saving and can be saved. its only natural that, as relationships progress, we start to take each other for granted. if you take some time to examine why she feeling this way, you may find out more about this cruz of a problem. does she have physical or emotional needs that you've been unable to meet? has she tried to discuss her feelings with you, but you failed to consider her feelings? it's one thing to have a long conversation about your troubled relationship, but if you're not ready to solve the problems, there's no hope of fixing what's wrong. if she says you didn't seem emotionally available, believe her. make a special effort to tune into her more from now on. if she says you simply weren't around enough to satisfy her needs, then designate one day a week as a "date night" and go out to dinner or stay in with a movie and some popcorn, just the two of you. if you truly respond to her complaints and requests, it's unlikely that she'll feel that the relationship is on the rocks.

its your call. if you want it you would fight to keep it. hope it all works out in the end.

[REALTALK87]

step up your poetry game

[Holliwud]

-surprise her with a *i love you* note when she comes in from work and place it on her pillow. talk about past times with her and how much u enjoyed those moments.

-a bubble bath afta work,*not with her* let her relax by herself, unless she insist u join. some lit candles dat she might like and some music so she could relax. wen she gets out, have dinner ready.

-*fallin roses* if u have a ceiling fan, by some rose pedals and put roses on top of dem. wait till she gets under dem and turn the fan on. dats a nice way to shower her with roses. she wouldn't even expect it. keep the fan at a moderate speed so they don't all fall at once.

-*off day*wen the both of ya'll have time at home. just tell her to relax and if she needs anything at all you'll get it. u don't have to do this all the time, just every once and a while. ur just doin it to show ur appreciation for her. get food, drinks, take the kids out if u have for the day just so she could relax and have time to herself. buy grocerys or wateva. just make sure she relaxes.


i could go on all day but yea. i mak it happen

[Rizzo-D-Don]

send her a picture of u sayin "Lets get to fukn"

[liqour-and-bud]

accuse her of cheating cuz she probably is.

[Holliwud]

accuse her of cheating cuz she probably is.

lmao.... but if all else fails... go wit this plan :)

[B1G_P1MP1N]

its all good doin the romantic shit that ur bein told 2 do but u gotta do it consistently or ur just longin a hopeless relationship out