Long Distance Relationship

[chelseafcfan]

im in one right now. wat u think bout that?

[YoungProdigy]

I'm in one too, going on my second year of my girl being in college while I'm finishing up high school. Its real difficult but it can work. The number one thing yall need is trust. If both yall trust that you wont cheat and you care bout each other and keep in touch it can work out, just make sure u get in some visits!

[bsivoljr]

One of you will be fucking or have already fucked someone else, lol! jk

[chelseafcfan]

I'm in one too, going on my second year of my girl being in college while I'm finishing up high school. Its real difficult but it can work. The number one thing yall need is trust. If both yall trust that you wont cheat and you care bout each other and keep in touch it can work out, just make sure u get in some visits!

im in canada shes back in mah hometown lol but yeah u damn rite man

[Emerald]

eh long distance relationships dont usually work out unless u REALLY love and care for eachother. Otherwise yall might grow tired of not being able to see each other and just call it quits. Id say the best thing to do is 2 take some time apart and when yall can finally meet up see if things r still the same and get back 2gether

[Nemons3000]

yea they are kinda tough man, when i went off to college and my lady was in her senior year of high school it was rough, but we made it work we're married now :cheer:,but you gotta have that trust, and you really have to have a deep relationship, if you are not head over heels in love, then i wouldn't suggest keeping it going

[grandhustle101]

Mines didnt work.Cause she talking about that she wanted somebody to be there in person for her.But i wasn't there for her in person.She wanted somebody to hold her.Now she crying back now to me an the fuck up thing about it she was a virgin an she told me she wait for me to loose it but she lie.Now she crying her ass back but im not going to take her back.

[REALTALK87]

living a lie

depriving each other of a functional relationship

you need to get closer

[Craven_MooreHead]

one of the most difficult things to do

[Kadero...Bitch]

Im in 1 rite now...been 2gether a yr an 7 months....its hard as fuck cuz im in college so i cant just go home wen i want...but we made it work....dis past august b4 i left again i brought her a web cam so dat akes it a whole lot easier an u can do things u cant on da phone...LOL...so yea i think it can work u jus gotta have trust

[tokenxblackxguy]

im in one too. i were both juniors in college, im in virginia, and shes in washington (state, not dc) we went out for like 3 years in highschool and then just kept it going. the key is to talk and keep that communication there. if you lose that you will lose everything. so make sure you call her/ text her/ IM her er wateva, just make sure she hears from you. and then of course when you cango visit.

[Dollaz]

been in one 4 3 yrs.... not as bad as folks make it seem unless u like gotta have sex on a daily basis, but other than that just make sure u talk at least 4 or 5 times a week or shitz gonna go haywire

[liqour-and-bud]

only a damn fool would trust a bitch thats sitting on the couch right next to him let alone some bitch thats halfway across the country.

[niggawaiianmix]

I been in one for almost 2 years. We've known each other for 7 and were together for a few months before. It's been on and off. It's hard but if you really love each other and have respect for your partner then you can do it. My girl and I try but lately we been fallin a part because we just don't see eye to eye and have been arguing a lot. It's also harder to patch things up when you argue too because you can't just go by and see your partner so you hold on to things more.

[liqour-and-bud]

I been in one for almost 2 years. We've known each other for 7 and were together for a few months before. It's been on and off. It's hard but if you really love each other and have respect for your partner then you can do it. My girl and I try but lately we been fallin a part because we just don't see eye to eye and have been arguing a lot. It's also harder to patch things up when you argue too because you can't just go by and see your partner so you hold on to things more.

bitches get argumentative when they got other niggas on the side and feel they don't really need yo ass anymore.......trust that shit.

[niggawaiianmix]

bitches get argumentative when they got other niggas on the side and feel they don't really need yo ass anymore.......trust that shit.


yeah i guess. she aint got no otha nigga on the side, believe that shit. it's some otha shit we argue about. she not used to dealin wit someone like me and both of us are stubborn.

[ƤƹƶƳDŽ]

Spend as much time as you can: I.E: phone, net, use anything to keep connection until the time of really getting together.

The most stupidest thing you could do is feeling insecure.

If you really love this person and want to build something unique then theres no reason to feel insecure.

Just remember why you two are trying to relate.

And if the other person is insecure; try to make that person feel comfortable that things will work out. It's no mere different than an "average" relationship. persistency is the key of survival of any love relationship. You have to keep balance and master that balance in order to even feel well stabled with yourself and your mate.

Take it easy, observe and learn.

You learn actually more things from long distance relationships:


Your not only building emotionally if the feelings are real. But mentally you are aswell. strength of both.

That's a good look.

Most people that live together not in long distance relationships don't hardly know anything important mentally or emotionally in some cases about their companion and some will lose connection and the relationship falls out of place over negligence.


It's hard if you make it hard. But it can be easy if you just want it easy.

Same goes for the other person. That person will have to put in work aswell.

Comply. Cause it's always a two-way street.

But never over-do on reciprocation.

Sometimes just do things because that's what you feel.

Trust will be questioned once reciprocation becomes too habitual and it builds bordem. Just do things out of your heart sometimes that will make you feel good without any "payback". Then your partner can't really question your motive.


As far sex goes cause some people feel that's 100% important (I guess virgins do) but I digress; Sex and trust are not synonymous. Don't ever cook-up a thought of cheating or create fantasies of the other person cheating. Just enjoy what you have if its good. Never stress anything. Keep things moving forward. And if you have sexual feelings for the chick then just keep it real about what you want ... don't sugarcoat nothing ... it's not a movie ... just be true about it.


Good luck.

[rhetoric]

im in my 2nd year of one, im at uni why my girl is workin else where, sometimes hard but we have managed and still love her what more can u ask for :D

[tittyboi]

One of you will be fucking or have already fucked someone else, lol! jk

true..

[Game Tyme]

tried it, didnt work, but in my situation it was neva gonna work

[dakingpin714]

if u guys are really in love them it might work.

[bx]

Dont work....bitches will always trick

[lexamilian28]

well bitches will be bitches niggas will been niggas so it werks if u both want it to shyt gonna happen make up break up mad sad all the shyt if u want it its gonna werk been in one for 5yrs went thru all the bull shyt bac and forth cheated she cheated sum may say im dumb but fuck it i do my dirt she does hers hey we in love

[A.R. Writa]

If ya'll have true feelings 'bout each other then let it be.