Girlfriend Advice *Be serious please*

[yonksboy]

If any of yall have or ever had a gurl b4 do u think ya gurl should tell you wen she goin out ta chill witt some dude u dont know. I mean i know of the dude cuz my gurl mentioned him ta me and stuff buh i never even met or talked to him at all..i trust my gurl and all but i just dont feel comfortable not knowin tha dude ya know? And if i try to explain that ta her she thinks im jus blamin her for sum or i dont want her to chill witt anybody (which is not the case), she dont chill witt kno females, jus males most of tha time. can somebody please gimme sum advice as wat i shuld say ta her witout her thinkin im tryna trap her from everybody.

*Be serious*

[MeSsInA]

if i was u i would tell her she aint chillin with him, if she really loved u she would listen, if she was playin u she would be like no and then u just dead that shit right there cuz shes just a bitch....

[darnbni99a]

well 1st off check out this thread about male friends
http://realestniggas.com/board/showthread.php?t=586798

how long have yal been 2gether? and if u realy trust her..then u should be aigh. but that shit would make me uncomfortable too

but in my case my gal only has maybe a couple of male friends but she dont be hangin out wit them and shit. that is a BIG NO NO..imo...talk to yo gal about it and let her know u dont like that shit

[REALTALK87]

http://realestniggas.com/board/showpost.php?p=12933818&postcount=13

[bsivoljr]

That whole chillin wit dudes shit is fukn played, wtf she need to chill with other guys for when she has one? Must be young, you might have to let her run. Just beat it a couple more times and let it go. Thats just me though, I dont like my girl chillin with guys and shit

[devonwilliams_66]

i'm a keep it real, that shit would bother the shit outta me, and i've been with my girl for like 5 years. No ammount of trust can make you feel ok. but you might want to let it happen cause if she gonna cheat on you with dude, she gonna do it regardless. Maybe more if you look like a jealous nigga while he on the other side taking shine. IMO

[Jeremy2k316]

man bring it up too her ask her why she chillin with other dudes when she got you, man trust me on this, you may trust her but you cant trust the dudes shes chillin with and you know how niggas act around a female, 90% of the time something is gonna go down.