PROBLEM: Jealousy Problem

[a-bLock23]

ay rn, what's good ?
so i need ya help on this one.
this ain't the first time it happened and about time for me to speak my mind.
so me and my gf are fighting right now cause i pulled dumb again for being jealous.
there was a bbq there and this guy went in here room to see the turtles she had but than i was drunk she said and i was pissed cause i was wondering who the fuck the was.
Then after he left, she sat beside me on the couch, not speaking a word, not answering anything. i told her some stuff but still no budging her. i don't know if i should worry or not but i am worried. don't wanna lose this girl cause i did so much to get her ( lovers since grade 5 and finally hooked up two months ago ). help a man ok rn ? appreciate it.

[dys·func·tion·al]

if u no she love you and no one else can get her... then let them other niggas talk to her and look at her cause when it all comes down to it.. she with you not them...

now if she leaves u for them then she wont ment for you..

[Jeremy2k316]

wtf checking out turtles in her room???? lmao... man you better check the situation out because I dont think dude is just checking out turtles

[a-bLock23]

yeah i hear ya dys·func·tion·al but since im "new" to this shit, im extra careful you know what im saying. i gave up blood, sweat and tears just to get her and scared to fuck up after how many years of tryin. plus who would check out turtles man, for real that's just dumb. but just had signs of life from her half an hour ago, she called me checkin' up on me while she was with her girls and boys on canada day watching the fireworks.

i appreciate the words, for real.

[sm00th]

checking out turtles? . . . man i gotta use that shit

[dmx782]

how old are u?

[PLAYBOY™]

well, usually, the jealous guys are the ones who get cheated on and/or dumped

however, there are girls who like to see their man get jealous because its an ego booster for them, it tells them that they are worth something, because their bf is being over protective etc etc

but too much jealousy is unattractive

especially in your situation

its not like she said im going to a party/club with a few friends of mine, we're doing a "girls night out" thing, and then she doesnt come home till 4 and you dont know who the fuck she was with or what she was doing

or if dudes you dont know call her cell or w/e

then jealousy is understandable

but your right there with her, you should have control over yourself and the situation at hand

your the one whose fucking her...you won...everybody else is null n void, a zero on the left...pay no mind to them

the more you pay attention to other dudes, the more your girl wonders "hmmm, my bf doesnt like this dude, maybe he has something my bf doesnt and my bf feels threatened...lemme check him out"

if your comfortable with yourself and you trust your girl, jealousy shouldnt play a role, unless like i said before, shes doing some borderline creep shit and you get the hunch that she may be cheating on you

[Holliwud]

damn playboy said it all but yea.

drinking would b the da death of ya, it causes some folks to act like assholes, if ur one of dem, i suggest u cut back on the drinking. otha den dat, play it cool

[a-bLock23]

Appreciate the words PLAYBOY™ and Holliwud.
Well we talk it over Monday morning and yeah she was asking me why you were jealous and mad at the fact that it was a party and me wanting alone time with her and not partying with others.
I told her that it was a dumb part on me cause I played the fool that night. I even got all gushy sayin' we all learn from mistakes and since it's a new relationship, we all new to this. Jealousy is natural, I know that all ya'll were jealous at one point in time and like you said PLAYBOY™, it can be an ego booster and keep a relationship alive.
But yeah, im realizing to keep it cool and just gotta be more trustworthy with my girl.

[gaffneyce]

seems like you've already recieved some good advice on your question. some more advice that may be useful and save u from getting heart broken is don't make her your world until you all are engaged/married. i know feelings are hard to control but you shouldn't feel one way about her more than she does about you. it should be an equal balance.

[a-bLock23]

seems like you've already recieved some good advice on your question. some more advice that may be useful and save u from getting heart broken is don't make her your world until you all are engaged/married. i know feelings are hard to control but you shouldn't feel one way about her more than she does about you. it should be an equal balance.

word, i get what you saying bro.
yeah like you said it's hard to control since we was childhood lovers and shit you know.
but yeah i'll keep you all up to date on this. once again, appreciate it.

[lil76]

what?! i dunno about anyone else, but to me this shit dont make since...
okay, i couldn't even figure out exactly why you were pissed off... :smh:

all u said is that the muhfukka went into her room to look @ some stupid turtles... whats the fucking problem? and try typing a little correctly...

you have some real bad issues if all he did was go into her room to look @ some turtles dude!

[eiderrty02]

Turtles...I wanna see 'em.

[bsivoljr]

Dont let no dude feel comfortable going in your chicks room. Fuck all that your jealous shit, I dont let mafukas in my territory.

[Ne$$]

wtf checking out turtles in her room???? lmao... man you better check the situation out because I dont think dude is just checking out turtles

^^^
lol

[GorgeouS GalosheS]

lol at turtles

[HoodDaCapo]

if u no she love you and no one else can get her... then let them other niggas talk to her and look at her cause when it all comes down to it.. she with you not them...

now if she leaves u for them then she wont ment for you.




TRUE TRUE .umm i used to have that problem but my girl got my name on her arm so now im straight

[ReaLST-AssYriaN]

wtf checking out turtles in her room???? lmao... man you better check the situation out because I dont think dude is just checking out turtles

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[gipanizer]

i agree with everything playboy said