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Santos05
June 29th, 2007, 11:55 PM
So this girl and myself have been friends for about 8 month we use to talk cause she was friends with my ex-gf. But we weren't real close except to having a 3-some but, She ended up goin to the school i transfered into for my ex-gf so we started chatting and stuff just being cool. So around the time me and my ex-gf broke up we started talking, she was there for me and i was there for her since her and her bf has spilt. (he cheated she tried to make it work but she just couldn't) We spent hours just talking we talked about our problems ragged on our ex's and just talked music and fashion ( Both up on the latest. haha. more like me but i keep her informed on clothes and she keeps me up on shoes and older music)We chilled but i thought she was cute and stuff but it never went into anything deep so whatever we was just friends and stuff. I thought I liked her but I thought it was just from breaking up with my ex I reached for who ever was close so it didn’t work. She meet another guy but he treated her bad and went back with his ex-gf after leading her on. Our friendship is okay but we don’t really keep up like we use to
So its like March and i'm going out to Vegas to visit my friend for a week during spring break and my birthday. So my friend has work for a few days im out there and i get bored so before he gets home i start drink all the hard lq. She is online and i start talking to her telling her how she is so incredible pretty and she needs to find the right guy to treat her. We talk about our little things we miss from being a relationship (me i love when chicks play with my hair she loves kisses on the forehead and walks in the rain) I told her we need to go out on dates and she finds it so cute that im saying this so of course she says yes but while im doing this with her im doing the same thing with other girl will call "Jessica"
This is when i had to make a choice who i wanted to try to be with i didn't want to be in a relationship so i went with the girl Jessica, it really didn't last long we just didn't work (she found another guy who was more her type haha) So the school year is ending and I start talking to my friend again she is always acting wild but we start talking all about how we need to be paid attention to or else we get pissed easily . So, I tell her we should start hanging out and we talk about cuddling and stuff all the stuff people do in a relationship; I told her I missed going on dates she agreed with me so I told her we need to go out on dates. (Call me corny or what ever/ I’m a sensitive guy I like lil things ) so we do we go to the malls around me and stuff and we went to Providence, RI for a pair of exclusive shoxs I wanted. We decieded to walk around town and we did this for quite a while. I get back and I talk to a mutal friend and he tells me she is probably liking me if she goes to the mall with me and walks all day . I blow it off like its nothing cause I really didn’t think it like that I mean we were friend and stuff not like I held her hand or anything. So I start really talking to her now cause she lives with her aunt and she is always depressed I went to get her the other day and walked at night around Providence again with her this time it was a little different we talked more and just had a connection or something. I told her I would be nicer to her ( I joke around with her/ just my nature) she loves pickin on me now that I promised her I wouldn’t be mean. So last night I go to visit my brother and his girl friend and his kid we have a couple of beers and play Need for speed I told my friend I would get her from her aunts and bring her to where im from so I tell her I want some ice cream and we get one and go back to my place we watch some tv and I tell her lets go upstairs and watch a movie so I put my arm around her to see where itd get me she comes close and puts her hand on my chest and we hold hands and its just cuddling then I realize its pretty late so I ask her if she wants me to grab her stuff so she can get her shoes so I can drop her off she tells me she wants to stay over if I don’t mind. So I say no its okay so we just go back to watching movies then we fall asleep together. But im still kinda thrown off that she wanted to spend the night(she isn’t a slutty type of girl) I thought she just wanted to be friends so it threw me for a loop that she wanted to sleep in my bed and just lay around.
Am I reading this girl way wrong or is she wanting me for more than a just a friend now?(my friend said she wants a relationship)

{I don’t want to hurt her, she is great in everyone way and I know she has been hurt by some many bf’s but im moving to another school in boston at the end of the summer}

bx
June 29th, 2007, 11:59 PM
Idk yo ... haha story made me shed a tear man, U guys r ment for eachother fam .. haahah Na but on the real my nigga take it slow n DO YOU .. I know niggaz gonna be like yoo smash.. get that on SMASH .. If u aint tryna hurt her then do wut u Do yadigg my nigga.. keep itgully but keep it YOU fam .. signin off.. :smoking:

lil76
June 30th, 2007, 01:09 AM
damn. to tell you tha truth i didn't even bother readin... that shyt look long azz fuk... i'll read it l8r! :laugh:

JB9400
June 30th, 2007, 01:17 AM
damn. to tell you tha truth i didn't even bother readin... that shyt look long azz fuk... i'll read it l8r! :laugh:

lol same here bruh but yea ima read it tho in a minute. i gotta prepare to read that

JB9400
June 30th, 2007, 01:27 AM
but naw sound like she prollly feelin you so yea jus do what other bruh up theres said.. jus take it slow and do you. and since u bouta be movin i wouldnt wife her up if i was u

PLAYBOY™
June 30th, 2007, 01:28 AM
just so i understand...you had a threesome with this girl, but your not close

and after that, you became friends and you wanna know how you can be more than friends?

werent you more than friends to begin with, if you've already fucked her?

star_trak
June 30th, 2007, 01:35 AM
"But im still kinda thrown off that she wanted to spend the night(she isn’t a slutty type of girl)" lol.. you had a threesome with this grl, yet your surprised she'd stay the night?
i think your reading this grl way wrong

KarmelFlamez
June 30th, 2007, 01:35 AM
fuck...i wasnt gonna read this till i saw the second post and was like "this mite b worthwhile"

ill comment in a little bit tho after a start and finish

bx
June 30th, 2007, 01:49 AM
Yea wtf :smh: I didnt even realize that... a 3some my nigga? and u askin how to smash ?? WTff

islandboy636
June 30th, 2007, 01:52 AM
I agree with star trak... you had t 3some but shes not slutty then ur surprised she slept over that doesn't make sense. But if u really feelin her then do u.

JB9400
June 30th, 2007, 01:56 AM
lol.. dam i didnt even put all that together tho..

man that girl was prolly tryna fuck tho when she was sayin can she sleep over

bx
June 30th, 2007, 01:57 AM
yo I wanna smashh .. put me on nigga

Hustla 4 Life
June 30th, 2007, 07:25 AM
yo you already fucked now you wanna know how to beat again? once you fuck a girl, threesome or whatever you really can never be just friends without a long period of time away from eachother.

MeSsInA
June 30th, 2007, 09:23 AM
just so i understand...you had a threesome with this girl, but your not close

and after that, you became friends and you wanna know how you can be more than friends?

werent you more than friends to begin with, if you've already fucked her?

^^^^^^^^^^

Santos05
June 30th, 2007, 09:42 AM
it was tried, but i figured out it all set thanks haa

Holliwud
June 30th, 2007, 12:44 PM
Check me out if u tired of reading lol
http://realestniggas.com/board/showthread.php?p=12327968#post12327968

but yea homey, it sounds like u should be out in a little bit. so its up to u, on wat card u wanna play. if u don't wanna hurt her feelings, don't mess wit her since u bouncin, but if u don't care, smash and be gone with the wind. but since it seems like u care, take it easy, it'll b betta to go to school and den come back to her, den see where things go from thier

gangsta01
June 30th, 2007, 11:35 PM
damn dats long

bsivoljr
July 1st, 2007, 04:11 AM
STARTED OUT WITH A THREESOME!? I DOUBT THIS RELATIONSHIP WITH HAVE A HIGH SUCCESS RATE.

Santos05
July 2nd, 2007, 10:30 AM
Sorry, we didn't have a threesome i tried to edit the post but it wouldn't let me she was a girl that I really didn't know in High school and i tried to convience my ex to have a 3 some with her. Didn't work out