How to get this girl at work

[Holyblesser]

Ok theres this girl that works with me and I like her n shit ya dig. I can make her laugh and smile and we make plenty of eye contact and we communicate a lot ya know sometimes when i joke around she'll laugh and touch me or w/e. ill sometimes be blunt and tell her things that lets her know that i like her ...and she knows that i like her. but the thing is ..is that shes in a relationship with some1 and they're engaged but sometimes shell come to work sad n shit and unhappy or w/e talkin bout how fkd up her boyfriend is and how he dont listen to her when she tells him that she doesnt appreciate some of the things he does...
and u know i cheer her up and shes back smilin again i guess ya dig.
im w8in for the perfect time to pick her up ..i dont wanna get in the way and ruin there relationship or be a cheater i just wanna make her happy ya know. how would i go about going out with this girl.

[Kamy]

c u dont wanna stay round so long cuz then ur going to be like her older sister u now what i mean.
either u got to make a move and try and get her to lose the next man, but if she says no ur going to lose her

[gslade1]

tough situation.. you could be opening up a world of trouble.. thing is you got to get her in the right environment and the right setting.. it's tough man.. this doesn't help much so my bad.. lol

[KarmelFlamez]

the thing is ..is that shes in a relationship with some1 and they're engaged but sometimes shell come to work sad n shit and unhappy or w/e talkin bout how fkd up her boyfriend is and how he dont listen to her when she tells him that she doesnt appreciate some of the things he does...
and u know i cheer her up and shes back smilin again i guess ya dig.

hmm can anybody say FRIEND ZONE? LMAO this is a perfect example too

well i just broke up wit my girl last saturday but my homeboi is tryna holla at her friend n shyt...all hes doin is throwin hints CONSTANTLY....not in a wierd way but constantly whenever he has the chance to show her wats up...

i dunno if this helps but basically if at some point you know that she should know you like her stop bs'n and just str8 up tell her how u feel....works wonders when u repeat "i like you" in different ways at dfferent times...thats all theyll think about which is to give u a chance or not :D

its like the same way u holla at any other girl...after the hints, "i wanna get to know u's" n shyt u tell them u want a relationship....then based on what they u go from there...you got this:smoking:

[Holyblesser]

propped all yall..thx for the reps

i think i know what i gotta do now

[Holliwud]

play it cool, the best thing to do is talk down the boyfirend as much as u can, but don't over do it. tell her things like u deserve betta den dat. now dats wen u punch in like, i would neva treat my shorty like dat. talk bout how good u are but not to much, just enuff to make her see how nice u r. buy little stuff, so it seems like u pay attention to her. favorite soda, candy, a burger, wateva. like i figured since u like it i'll get u one. dat lets her know ur thinkin bout her and takes u a little pass the friend stage without bein so direct.


i live by the four F's,
*Friends Fuck Friends First*

-no kidden

~don't just cheer her up, keep her mad at him, and happy with u, dat make u look much betta den da otha guy~

*all i do is game bitches*

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[Rizzo-D-Don]

in the morning, take her round back n go for round 1

after lunch time, take her round back for round 2

after work, get her twisted on some bud n take her round back for the TKO



u got dis homes

[googz]

shit man it's pretty tricky but i mean if she digz u then u should come out straight n tell but find a nice place n quiet it helps sometimes.u know she digz u if she laughs at ur jokes and the touch thing she does so be very careful when u let out ur feelins

[lil76]

definately put it in her ear that you feelin her... and then let her make her decision as to whether she wants to see whatz up wit you and take a step further...

stay away from that dreaded 'friend zone'...
that'll fukk you up...

but personally, i don't holla @ chiks @ work like that... i flirt a little...
but nothing more than that... i got my wifey...

[eiderrty02]

propped all yall..thx for the reps

i think i know what i gotta do now

Gon do ya thang boi.

[MistaOuija]

not a wise move to date/fuck anyone you work with , only leads to bullshit

[Holyblesser]

definately put it in her ear that you feelin her... and then let her make her decision as to whether she wants to see whatz up wit you and take a step further...


done...now i needz a whip :)

[lil76]

done...now i needz a whip :)

u dont hav transportation? yeh, tht helps...

[Trupimp08]

definately put it in her ear that you feelin her... and then let her make her decision as to whether she wants to see whatz up wit you and take a step further...

stay away from that dreaded 'friend zone'...
that'll fukk you up...

but personally, i don't holla @ chiks @ work like that... i flirt a little...
but nothing more than that... i got my wifey...


yea wat he said u shouldn't be trying to mess with no chick at work cause if yall do date or watever and somethin go down and yall don't wanna speak... well u kno the rest

just like lil76 said..i cant mess with chicks at work either..i flirt occasionally and they flirt back it don't be nothin serious thoe.. its like 2 couples who work together at my job, who date which i don't see how they do it, but they do.. so after sayin that it can be managed but its very difficult

but my advice is to u is to be straight forward with her and tell her u feelin her because think about it if she willing to give u a chance and leave other dude its a win and if she be like no or whatever its a win because u didnt have her in the first place.. so to me its a win-win situation you won't lose her cause u never had her to begin withbecause u don't want to be in that friends zone cause thats what u are approaching.. and i suggest u DON'T buy her anything cause thats showing too much interest on your part.

m in it now and it sux went out my way got this chick a grad. gift (she was thankful and everything), knowing that she had a b/f and im not going go into wat happen long story

but good luck thoe

[J-Crew]

LMAO...Friend Zone don't ever work out, you gotta let her know you want more than a friendship, I truthfully don't fuck wit girls I work with for the reason I'm manager and Drama ain't good for business

[Holyblesser]

yea wat he said u shouldn't be trying to mess with no chick at work cause if yall do date or watever and somethin go down and yall don't wanna speak... well u kno the rest

just like lil76 said..i cant mess with chicks at work either..i flirt occasionally and they flirt back it don't be nothin serious thoe.. its like 2 couples who work together at my job, who date which i don't see how they do it, but they do.. so after sayin that it can be managed but its very difficult

but my advice is to u is to be straight forward with her and tell her u feelin her because think about it if she willing to give u a chance and leave other dude its a win and if she be like no or whatever its a win because u didnt have her in the first place.. so to me its a win-win situation you won't lose her cause u never had her to begin withbecause u don't want to be in that friends zone cause thats what u are approaching.. and i suggest u DON'T buy her anything cause thats showing too much interest on your part.

m in it now and it sux went out my way got this chick a grad. gift (she was thankful and everything), knowing that she had a b/f and im not going go into wat happen long story

but good luck thoe

aight yo i think ill be str8 up now and ask her if she feellin me like dat even tho she got her fiance or w/e.... but yo if i do that...wont there be some sort of tension between us at work after im str8 forward n stuff

btw propped every1 who repped

[Trupimp08]

aight yo i think ill be str8 up now and ask her if she feellin me like dat even tho she got her fiance or w/e.... but yo if i do that...wont there be some sort of tension between us at work after im str8 forward n stuff

btw propped every1 who repped

umm yea it could be tension between you 2 because she would kno u like her

but to think about it again u maybe should wait and see if she come back and tell you somethin else about him depending on how frequently she tells u about him and if she do just try to change the subject because my friend when a female starts coming to u about her man problems that means ure in that dreaded FRIEND ZONE when she considered u as one of her girls and comes to you for advice

but when she tells u just be like "u dont need to be with him then if he cant treat you right thats the way i see it". u kno u got to try to make him look bad but not too bad

and depending on what she says go from there if she agrees then i would tell her straight up watsup, and if she says somethin tryin to protect him, i would leave it alone, now if it was her b/f then it would be different but this is a far more difficult situation u are dealing with because this girl is about to get married. good luck but do what i said at least, she would kno how u feel but if it dont work out move on theirs more fish in the sea

[Holyblesser]

yeah nicca u right dawg...im in the dreaded friend zone...iz all good tho i told her how i felt n stuff.. she started talkin bout how her man wont listen to her and then she say she luv him n shit so....we are now friends ..
thx fo all da help tho

:D

[flip07]

yeah nicca u right dawg...im in the dreaded friend zone...iz all good tho i told her how i felt n stuff.. she started talkin bout how her man wont listen to her and then she say she luv him n shit so....we are now friends ..
thx fo all da help tho

:Dat least now u dun gotta worry bout this g,on to the next fish

[JaeMonster]

i wouldn't get involved, sounds like a lotta drama...PLUS...don't go out w/ NE girl that u work w/ lol no matter what that's BAD NEWS

[Holyblesser]

ahaha

[XX_red_spyda_XX]

MY NICCA JUST TELL HER WATSUP.....TELL HER IF SHES REALLY DAT SAD DAT SHE NEEDS TO GET OUTTA DAT SITUATION CUZ ITS JUST GONNA GET WORSE FOR HER WIT TIME....

[badboy]

get that bitch drunk after work and hit that shit.....fuck her fiance, his game is weak, sounds like he aint satisfyin her