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vrblexprssn
June 26th, 2007, 01:58 AM
Alright Heres the deal.....we've been on and off for about 3 yrs and we recently broke up afta a full yr of being together...we've been talking for the past couple of months but the reason we kept breaking up was bcuz she didnt have time for me cuz of school/cheerleading so i kept tellin her "when we gon chill" and she kept saying soon...that soon never came and yesterday i was on the phone with her and i str8 treated her ass..i told her i dont believe anything she says anymore, you being on bullshit and i believe you until i get unpatient again.....she told me that you dont take time to appreciate me...i told her why should i appreciate you when you dont got time 4 me, wat is there 2 appreciate? ...she said i needed to chill....but i told her dont hit me up unless you wanna chill and im done with your ass till then, this is the str8 up truth and im not taking anything back.

she was saying i love you and only time will tell...her mom is some strict shit but word up, i think i did the right thing by saying what was on my mind and not holding anything back...am i right for saying the things i said?? i think that shouldve been a wake up call for her ass that i aint playin wit her lil games anymore but i need yall opinions so help yall...be honest

RiKaNhEaT
June 26th, 2007, 02:01 AM
lol dam

vrblexprssn
June 26th, 2007, 02:05 AM
was i wrong? dat damn dont sound 2 good fam lol

NRxJose
June 26th, 2007, 02:09 AM
i say ur right cuz an intimate relationship is a particularly close interpersonal relationship it is a relationship in which the participants know or trust one another very well or are confidants of one another

vrblexprssn
June 26th, 2007, 02:14 AM
i say ur right cuz an intimate relationship is a particularly close interpersonal relationship it is a relationship in which the participants know or trust one another very well or are confidants of one another

good looks fam

star_trak
June 26th, 2007, 02:21 AM
i probably would of done the same, maybe a little less bold though.. if you never told her how you feel before and just got fed up and tripped out on her it ain't fair but if you've mentioned it before and she still not attempting to spend more time wit you, then you have more of a right to go off

vrblexprssn
June 26th, 2007, 02:25 AM
i probably would of done the same, maybe a little less bold though.. if you never told her how you feel before and just got fed up and tripped out on her it ain't fair but if you've mentioned it before and she still not attempting to spend more time wit you, then you have more of a right to go off

yea ive told her b4, this isnt the 1st time i told her but it got 2 me this time cuz its summer and i havent spent a day with her since late may.... thats y i was i str8 up honest with her and let everything out

star_trak
June 26th, 2007, 02:27 AM
yeah then your right IMO

Livingonaknifesedge
June 26th, 2007, 10:59 AM
took u 3 yrs to say this....dam lol..woulda done it sooner..
u did the right thing in my opinion

Bunk
June 26th, 2007, 12:17 PM
u did the right thing she need to know that u aint to be treated like a back seat nigga u did the RIGHT thing fam

DrHydro
June 26th, 2007, 01:01 PM
that's good stuff...u should feel appreciated in a relationship

JB9400
June 26th, 2007, 04:01 PM
yea u god bruh.. tell it how it is. fuck the bullshit

MostWanted
June 26th, 2007, 05:42 PM
Alright Heres the deal.....we've been on and off for about 3 yrs and we recently broke up afta a full yr of being together...we've been talking for the past couple of months but the reason we kept breaking up was bcuz she didnt have time for me cuz of school/cheerleading so i kept tellin her "when we gon chill" and she kept saying soon...that soon never came and yesterday i was on the phone with her and i str8 treated her ass..i told her i dont believe anything she says anymore, you being on bullshit and i believe you until i get unpatient again.....she told me that you dont take time to appreciate me...i told her why should i appreciate you when you dont got time 4 me, wat is there 2 appreciate? ...she said i needed to chill....but i told her dont hit me up unless you wanna chill and im done with your ass till then, this is the str8 up truth and im not taking anything back.

she was saying i love you and only time will tell...her mom is some strict shit but word up, i think i did the right thing by saying what was on my mind and not holding anything back...am i right for saying the things i said?? i think that shouldve been a wake up call for her ass that i aint playin wit her lil games anymore but i need yall opinions so help yall...be honest

It's a good thing you spoke your mind or she would have been on that B.S. the whole time. Like they say "a closed mouth don't get fed". If she really wanted to be with you she would make the time to. I'm kinda dealing with the same sitaution almost..From what I read from you it seems like she's just holding you back from finding someone who is really going to give you the time and love you need. I wouldn't have been so mean about it tho lol..But I guess it shows you mean business. Like she said "only time will tell" but don't cheat yourself outta findin someone who will appreciate YOU and not be like 99% of chicks that just want to recieve and aren't willing to give..

cp3boy
June 27th, 2007, 01:07 AM
If a girl did that to me, Id let her have it too. She wrong for not making time for ya

Cameosis
June 27th, 2007, 06:24 AM
life is short, you werent gonna marry her anyways. find some new pussy

ThAJuci3stB!tch
June 28th, 2007, 12:36 PM
I think its a good thing u said wat was on ur mind but...
Tha way u put it was real fucked up.
On the other hand u are kinda jus thinking about yourself because what if she really wants to spend time and it's killin her that she cant...like u said her mom is strict.
Spending time is important but after three years off and on u should really wonder how serious u wanna get wit her if u can spazz like that.
Just my oppinion

Holliwud
June 29th, 2007, 12:33 AM
u where right for being real
wrong for being rude
they say space makes the heart grows fonder, but sometimes too much space ain't good
break out, do wat u gotta do
if she wants u, she'll return

*FROSTY*
June 29th, 2007, 08:35 PM
Speak your mind!

eiderrty02
June 30th, 2007, 12:32 AM
life is short, you werent gonna marry her anyways. find some new pussy

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