anyone got good adviceee?

[chriskbz]

aiight so this is my situation

theres this girl we b friendsfor a while nd shit i see her heaps lately and its been like really close i.e we jst sit and talk for ages and walk around like we be goin out... there some sex in there as well bt i duno if i should ask her out or keep it at the friends with benifits lvl, cause shes been round a bit if u get me... so ye anyone gt any good advice or tips cause id like to make her mine but dun wanna ruin a good thing nah meaaaaaaan

props for good replies ~

[rgny]

man if you like her, go for it. the only thing that worries me is, like you said shes been around, will she be only with you? That's would be in the back of my mind all the time. If you can live with that idea in the back of your mind all the time (while she is with you) Then go for it. If not, You always got a Friend with Benefits

[Rizzo-D-Don]

man if you like her, go for it. the only thing that worries me is, like you said shes been around, will she be only with you? That's would be in the back of my mind all the time. If you can live with that idea in the back of your mind all the time (while she is with you) Then go for it. If not, You always got a Friend with Benefits

what he said

[Cleofis336]

well has she ever mentioned anything about the two of you starting a relationship? if she hasnt, there might be the chance that she has gotten comfortable on the level that you two have already established...the casual sex type of friends who enjoy each others company without the ties of a relationship...

its basically up to you...you want to pursue a relationship, and that might shock her, or catch her off guard, but then again she might welcome the idea...but then again you already said she's been around, so she might want to keep her freedom...

either you can go for it...or keep silence and indulge in what you two have already established.

[su19]

its a tough one. i would wait it out a lil more just to see how much closer yall get. relationships n shit take time you cant rush things. wen YOU feel the time is rite and u feelin dis chick den jus go for it son.

[Bling_gangsta076]

You have to chil with her for a while, but if you just "chill" for too long, she'l lose interest in and you'l end up in the friend zone

[flip07]

dont fuck things up,let things take their natural course...if yall banging and dealing with eachother then so be it,one day at a time till she brings it up

[gangsta01]

i say go for it man

[2fresh]

i mean the best relationships r the ones where u chill and are basically like best friends, so u shud go head and ask her out

[chriskbz]

propped everyone

so yer basically last night went over to hers was there till like 11 30 u kno wat went down but the thing about her being promiscuous is always in the back of my mind... nice replies ill see what happens tomorrow but ill probley go for it if i get rejected her loss

[CiNfUL]

ask her how she feels about u first..then if she wants more than a friendship or should i say friends wit benefits then go 4 it. it takes 2...

[ΛirForceÒne]

depends how long you've been friends for.If there's chemistry both ways...do the damn thing but make sure that you realise that once you cross the line it will be difficult to go back to friends afterwards if it dnt work out!!

[Kamy]

well if u already got some cuttin out of that go ahead and ask her

[jrob214]

play it cool, keep doing what u doin cause aint nothin wrong with having somebody u real cool with that u can kinda trust plus the fucking. every body needs 1 good down ass girl. if u do wanna take it to the next level check the bad thoughts at the door, cause if u walk in it with negative thoughts then it will show in your actions even if u dont know it. you say she been around maybe she allready content, some thimes then chicks got the right mind but made some dumb decisions in the past. all in all keep it goin then make a decision when your mind is totatly sound and made up.