View Full Version : i'm 17 this girl is 20, what do i do to get her?
Bongz123
May 6th, 2007, 04:58 PM
k now i'm 17 and this girl i'm talkin to is turnin 20 this year, it seems there's a bit of an age difference between the two of us but it doesn't really matter. Now the thing with me is when it comes to girls dat are older than me i seem to get intimidated and just fuck up. Now there's times when im talkin to this girl n i see that she feelin me a bit, but then on somedays she seems reluctant to respond to me, now i dunno if she just thinks of me a some little kid, or she just don't think of me in dat way at all. This is High School too so i dunno man. What should i do?
Thank's to anyone who helps me out
PLAYBOY™
May 6th, 2007, 05:05 PM
you have to show your mature for your age
if your not mature for your age, and your trying to front like you are..shes gonna find out sooner or later
you have to really be on the same page as her mentally in order to connect and in order for her to look past the age gap
dress older, act older, etc
the whole package
unless shes one of those sick, twisted ass teachers that fucks 12 year old, your not gonna go anywhere with her unless you man up
-dont sweat her
-try to seperate yourself from the typical dude your age
-once she gets it in her head that your mature, treat her like you would any other girl, just be smart about it
shes probably reluctant to respond because shes unsure if she should take a chance with you, knock those doubts out of her system asap
s64life
May 6th, 2007, 05:09 PM
man give her some hard cock fuck it, thats the best gift.
I did that for my girl!
Peckn4
May 6th, 2007, 05:18 PM
i was in kinda the same situation im 17 she is turnin 21 this year and i talked with her been to her house and all this stuff alot and nothin happened and now we just good friends about it all but also i worked with her so it was harder just talk to her about it find out the truth of what is goin on in her head bc thats what i did and i feel better about everything and dont sweat if the answer aint what you want there will be other girls guarantee
gangsta01
May 6th, 2007, 05:19 PM
oh shit man its gonna be hard
Nikki07
May 6th, 2007, 06:21 PM
I was in a similar situation a couple months ago, I'm 21 and he was 18. What you should do is continue being yourself, yeah y'all might be on different levels or whatever but it's obviously that she feels some way about you if she's spending time with you, and she might be reluctant in answering you because she's a little unsure about the situation. Just ask her where her head is at.
Bumpy Knucklez
May 6th, 2007, 07:12 PM
you can lie about your age and salary :)
cp3boy
May 7th, 2007, 07:45 PM
If she aint feeling you cause of your age, then thats the way it is. Dont lie to her cause your only gonna get yourself into a hole mane
K-TownBudz
May 7th, 2007, 09:43 PM
Yo man, either she's feelin ya or she's not, cp3boy's right when he said not to lie though.
I was in a similar situation recently. I started a new job, and one of the waitresses was diggin me. Turns out she's gonna be 21 in 3 months. I'm 18 btw. so ya... long story short, I acted like myself, fucked that bitch, then (get this... how stoked am I) she quits the next week. haha hookup no strings!
Just be urself... If she likes it ur in!
Skytso
May 7th, 2007, 10:05 PM
Heh, I'm kinda in the same situation right now, 'cept i'm 14, and She's 17, so :weed: right now, and figure it out later.
qwerter
May 7th, 2007, 10:19 PM
I am about to be 22 this year bro and I remember being 17 because it wasnt too long ago, but there is no big difference except your in high school and she is in college or working. I never really talked to females my age because they could never do nothing for me. Yet I was real mature for my age. Dont stress it big dog, dont think about her as being so much older or so further ahead of you because she really isnt if she is talking to a 17 year old. Dont take it personal because I aint knocking you at all maybe she just likes younger cats my girl will be 25 this year. Hope this helps.
Miami3o5
May 8th, 2007, 12:42 AM
I was in a similar situation a couple months ago, I'm 21 and he was 18. What you should do is continue being yourself, yeah y'all might be on different levels or whatever but it's obviously that she feels some way about you if she's spending time with you, and she might be reluctant in answering you because she's a little unsure about the situation. Just ask her where her head is at.
Just tell her the truth ask questions dont leave yourself wondering.If theres anything she wants to know let her know either its going to workout or its not. If you dont have a problem with it find out if she does.
Bling_gangsta076
May 8th, 2007, 03:04 PM
You start being more mature, BE mature, don't just ACT like it.
bigslim24
May 8th, 2007, 03:19 PM
Just lay back and feel her out homie. dont always think you have to be "pro-active" you can be "re-active" sometimes also. Just because you are the male doesnt mean you have to call all the shots. Let her determine where the convo goes or what its about. That way you can figure out where her head is at. When girls are older than you and they still mess with you its obvious its something in you that they like and they are willing to overlook the age difference to get at that one thing they like. Girls are also real moody and she might be trying to figure you out too. The thing you gotta avoid is over reacting homie. Just chill, continue talking to her as you have been. She will give you little subtle hints as to what she wants and needs. <---She hasnt even really figured it out yet if shes only 20.
GoLDFiiGGa
May 8th, 2007, 04:40 PM
man give her some hard cock fuck it, thats the best gift.
I did that for my girl!
lmfaooooo
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