LRM
May 1st, 2007, 05:10 AM
1) BY DEFAULT: have a default opener for every situation: after you master all apsects you won't need any lines/openers and you can say anything. Most of you aint there yet.......SO GET SOME CLEVER OPENERS.
2) ITS NOT ALWAYS WHAT YOU SAY: but how you say it. Most people think body language is how you stand........its entails your tone, the speed in which you converse, how you smile, your eyes, your body movements should be smooth. Saying hi and saying Whats up mean the same thing but are percieved differntly. Saying hello and well hello there.....again same thing but one means more confidence.
3) EXPECT SOME REJECTIONS: ya you heard me, those that have no fear are foolish. Especially when starting out, mistakes will happen, women will not find you funny, and yes you might get burned right there in front of everyone. The man that can get rejected and become immune to it and still pull a number or walk away feeling like it's her loss is the benchmark you should be striving for. I ain't talkin 'bout faking it fella's, you gotta actually live it. I cant tell you how many times a chic said no in an email, in a bar, or durring the day and then like 2 minutes later handing me her digits saying " I know I am going to regret this but here you go". Sometimes the token NO actually means.........not right now, but I might be persuaded.
4) USE IT OR LOSE IT: naturals are born with the gift, if you watch them they use every opportunity to enhance their craft. They are always hitting on chics. For those of us that are wannabe's- we have to adopt that training methodology. Practice does improve our skill set. Look you can read all the tips in the world but its nothing without imperical real live research. Go out and try this stuff out.......write down the results. If you don't start using this stuff in real life situations you will quickly lose that edge.....nuff said.
5) EVOLVE: ever what happens to Pick-up artists that get old....40's. They realise there is more to life than banging hot chics. If you improve your game and research this stuff you will come to the ultimate conclusion that the skills you learn will spill over into other aspects of your life. You might land that audition on American Idol, you might get a promotion at work, you might hook up with an incredible chic that you'll marry one day, you may like so many others instruct, write a book for others to benefit from. These skills are not just about getting laid.......but enhancing your life.
6) LIVE WITHIN YOUR MEANS: Media and marketing will have you chasing crap you don't need, but somehow seem to want. If you realize what matters and what doesn't, it will be easy for you to resist impulse buys and frivolous purchases. Ask yourself "do I need this?" Then compare the answer to the big three: food, water, shelter. Realize that you would survive with leather robe, in a cave, with a rabbit frying on a stick over a fire. Avoid debt and promote saving for the future/goals by simplifying your lifestyle to a minimum. Debt will destroy your life and lock you into a renter's prison. To help avoid negativity, avoid negative numbers. If you were truly a man you wouldn't care what others thought of you.
7) ASK MYSELF: If you were a girl, would you go out with yourself?
8) BE BOLD: If you want anything in life, you have to go after it
9) LAZINESS: There's no such thing as laziness, only goals that don't inspire
10) LIVE IN THE MOMENT
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2) ITS NOT ALWAYS WHAT YOU SAY: but how you say it. Most people think body language is how you stand........its entails your tone, the speed in which you converse, how you smile, your eyes, your body movements should be smooth. Saying hi and saying Whats up mean the same thing but are percieved differntly. Saying hello and well hello there.....again same thing but one means more confidence.
3) EXPECT SOME REJECTIONS: ya you heard me, those that have no fear are foolish. Especially when starting out, mistakes will happen, women will not find you funny, and yes you might get burned right there in front of everyone. The man that can get rejected and become immune to it and still pull a number or walk away feeling like it's her loss is the benchmark you should be striving for. I ain't talkin 'bout faking it fella's, you gotta actually live it. I cant tell you how many times a chic said no in an email, in a bar, or durring the day and then like 2 minutes later handing me her digits saying " I know I am going to regret this but here you go". Sometimes the token NO actually means.........not right now, but I might be persuaded.
4) USE IT OR LOSE IT: naturals are born with the gift, if you watch them they use every opportunity to enhance their craft. They are always hitting on chics. For those of us that are wannabe's- we have to adopt that training methodology. Practice does improve our skill set. Look you can read all the tips in the world but its nothing without imperical real live research. Go out and try this stuff out.......write down the results. If you don't start using this stuff in real life situations you will quickly lose that edge.....nuff said.
5) EVOLVE: ever what happens to Pick-up artists that get old....40's. They realise there is more to life than banging hot chics. If you improve your game and research this stuff you will come to the ultimate conclusion that the skills you learn will spill over into other aspects of your life. You might land that audition on American Idol, you might get a promotion at work, you might hook up with an incredible chic that you'll marry one day, you may like so many others instruct, write a book for others to benefit from. These skills are not just about getting laid.......but enhancing your life.
6) LIVE WITHIN YOUR MEANS: Media and marketing will have you chasing crap you don't need, but somehow seem to want. If you realize what matters and what doesn't, it will be easy for you to resist impulse buys and frivolous purchases. Ask yourself "do I need this?" Then compare the answer to the big three: food, water, shelter. Realize that you would survive with leather robe, in a cave, with a rabbit frying on a stick over a fire. Avoid debt and promote saving for the future/goals by simplifying your lifestyle to a minimum. Debt will destroy your life and lock you into a renter's prison. To help avoid negativity, avoid negative numbers. If you were truly a man you wouldn't care what others thought of you.
7) ASK MYSELF: If you were a girl, would you go out with yourself?
8) BE BOLD: If you want anything in life, you have to go after it
9) LAZINESS: There's no such thing as laziness, only goals that don't inspire
10) LIVE IN THE MOMENT
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