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whiteMJ
April 27th, 2007, 03:33 PM
hey, for the past 2-3 weeks me and this one shorty at university been gettin closer and i know she's into me but...
i live in cairo, egypt + the girl is egyptian too, so it ain't hard for you to figure out people ain't as liberal down here as they are in europe or the US.
you gotta know the stuff you're not supposed to say, not to scare them off gettin them to think you just wanna get into their panties etc. gettin some is complex here, boiii... if you can hook up here, you get pussy anywhere in the world.
so back to the girl, she's mad fine, cool, and open-minded for an egyptian and we've been flirtin for a while now and i'd like to take it to the next level, but don't want to fuck it up... got my own plan but thought maybe you guys could hook me up wit some words of advice, what type of shit you'd do, say... whatever.
waitin for some replies.
thanx
gangsta01
April 27th, 2007, 08:37 PM
tell her u like her and that u wanna be in a relationship wit her
PLAYBOY™
April 27th, 2007, 08:38 PM
well first u have to explain to me what u can and cant say over there and then i'll think of a way for u to approach it
ur sayin there are boundaries u cant cross so i need to know what these bounds are before i can help
Kamy
April 27th, 2007, 09:29 PM
lol, cuz if u got a good thing then go for it.
.......just dont let her dad find out. something tells me hell cut off ur balls
Jowy
April 27th, 2007, 09:50 PM
lol, cuz if u got a good thing then go for it.
.......just dont let her dad find out. something tells me hell cut off ur balls
:shock: lmaooooo:cheer:
Kamy
April 27th, 2007, 10:16 PM
lol yeahhh
gangsta01
April 27th, 2007, 10:56 PM
lmaoooooooooo
LRM
April 28th, 2007, 12:13 AM
definitely the protocol and approach would be different there in the arab world but i dont think it would be totally out of line with anything that is already in the world. egyptian girls are know to be every hot and are very highly educated yet they can be materialistic (but which girl isnt) and are known to give you the cold shoulder so that can be hard to read- i mean any chick would be on the defensive if some guy was trying to apporach her in a wrong way. just be open minded and be genuinely interested in her culture and join groups and social activities that she does (within limits) to get a sense of what that culture is. and sure their culture doesnt have the casual dating thing downpact possibly because they are after a marriage with someone their family knows and not a one night stand. try to loosen her up, give her a good time, she wouldnt drink a lot but thats isnt a precursor for having a good time- the girl you got seems like shes down to earth but just be aware of what you wish for and dont expect too much too soon it can be frightening for her. i dont necessary think an ethnicity is a deterrent for why or why not you shouldnt be able to approach a girl. even if you remain friends thats quite good odds for meeting another one.
whiteMJ
April 28th, 2007, 07:58 AM
hey LRM, man are you like a sociologist or something? how do you know all that stuff about the way of life in egypt? :D
naw see the thing is, she has lived abroad and does like to have a good time, even drinks a little but when it comes down to going out, you wont see too many white guys with arab chicks, at least in egypt. might be because they feel intimidated, maybe not.
anyway, im just lookin for a slick way of asking the girl out :)
thanx for the input
whiteMJ
April 28th, 2007, 08:00 AM
oh another thing i forgot to add. seems like she's ready to get into it, but kind of wants to see how far i'll go to get her. maybe that might help you guys in helpin me out
peace
LRM
April 28th, 2007, 06:39 PM
ok let me tell you what youve got working for you...your different- your white, different accent, low on personality, itchin to get inside her pants- now thats something that will be a major drawcard for you in another country. she is- hot, rich and quiet- how do you deal with these temparaments? easy forget lines and what to say. create a vibe that is comfortable with her and let your personality shine. opposites atrract so make fun of her but lightly. if she is shy call her out on that say something like i know your shy and all but i find that really attractive and i feel comfortable being around you. sooner she will realise oh wow this dude understands me i can come out of my shell more. if she is holding back because she gets the impression that you are just in it for the sex then you need to demonstrate more personal affection i.e. weakness. finding that balance can be difficult when you're trying to game a girl. as i was saying just be patient hang in there the rewards will be worth it. you personality will win her through unless you mess shit up which i think could happen.
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