Advice me

[Santos05]

So, i had this long term relationship i dated this chick for like 2 years broke up and whatever i am over it now but, when i was having hard time dealing with the break up there was this girl i use to hang out with and she use to be there for me and she is a cute girl and everything and last night me and her and like a few friends were up at the club drinking and getting a shit show on. I danced with a few chicks but then i mostly danced with that girl and stuff we were all over each other and i mean like i was pretty drunk and she was pretty drunk but, i didn't want to try to make a move cause we are close friends but now i am like i want to make a move on her and shit. So my question is it a good idea to try and make a move on a close friend like that and will it effect the friendship side of it. I mean cause i move away to another college in the fall and stuff so i don't want to damage our friendship and i don't want to date her. i just want sex and the hook up.

She usally only dates black guys only also. so i don't know

~plus she told me online one night she hadn't had sex in a while and she would have with me, so i didn't know if she was joking and stuff.~


HELP!

[PLAYBOY™]

depends on what's more important to you

a friendship or a quick nut

now I don't know what your standards are

but a girl that 1.) gets drunk, 2.) wants to sleep with me when I'm not even her bf, 3.) ''only dates black guys'' (or any specific race) is not really date material to me....

hell...she aint even fuck material

but its your decision...you just have to realize that if you get a quick nut off you lose the friendship

there's no nice way of trying to explain to her that you just want to fuck her but not date her

[Santos05]

there is nothing wrong with girls that get drunk or have sex with people who aren't there bf.

Just throwing this out there girls do the one night stand like guys i mean i don't want to find my wife at age 19 right now anyways so it's not like i care but i do care about her but i don't want a relationship and i know i wouldn't mind hookin up like every time but i don't want a anything more and id rather her be a great friend then a notch in the belt

[Santos05]

but i wish there was a way to do both.

[PLAYBOY™]

there is nothing wrong with girls that get drunk or have sex with people who aren't there bf.

thats where your wrong IMO..but like i said, we got diff standards

i dont even talk to girls who get drunk, thats not my thing but w/e thats a whole nother convo

Just throwing this out there girls do the one night stand like guys i mean i don't want to find my wife at age 19 right now anyways so it's not like i care but i do care about her but i don't want a relationship and i know i wouldn't mind hookin up like every time but i don't want a anything more and id rather her be a great friend then a notch in the belt

yeah guys do one night stands because girls allow it

obviously both parties need to do one night stands if a one night stand is going to happen

girls who do that are sluts though..thats what im tryna say

and im 19 as well, im not lookin for a wife either but shiiiit i aint lookin for no slut

but like i said...if your gonna go along with this and try to beat..just realize the friendship is going to get tainted

and you just said you'd rather her be a great friend than a notch in the belt so

[Santos05]

well anyone else want to give some advice. cause i mean she got me going crazy like i really want to try to have something with that girl but, i also want to have my first free summer in a while. And i am still leaving and she is a great girl i just really don't know

[Imperiumz]

hey. if you have feeligns for her. "do what you got to do". and that's whent you call. A friend with benefits....