I need serious help

[..:PrOdiGy:..]

Another relationship problem here.I've been thinking about this alot over the past couple days and it's killin me.I can't pinpoint exactly what it is it's just I don't feel the same way I did a little earlier in my relationship.This all started with the Ex-Boyfriend thing,which i started a thread on awhile back( http://realestniggas.com/board/showthread.php?t=507365 ) and its just been these feelings ever since.....It's just like im feeling she doesn't want me as much anymore and I feel like im being dragged along or somethin,just like last Wendesday,we were talkin and we were gonna go to the movies on friday cuz i wouldnt be able to see her saturday.So then on thursday she tells me theres a basketball game on friday that she wants to go to(her schools) and she's been wantin to go to one but hasnt and she tells me shes going basically cancelling our date.Then after I argue with her for about 15 mins. for cancelling the date,she says she'll come home after church sunday then i can come over and chill so im like iight coo.Then this morning(sunday)I text her and ask her can I still see her today and shes like "idk",so im like wtf?Then I ask why and she says shes going shopping with friends which is an automatic piss off for me cuz 1.She cancelled our date again and 2.she doesnt even like shopping.Then she says some BS like "well i never said for sure that i was coming home after church",so im like yea whatever.Im tired of these feelings and even thought I don't want to end it,Im having strong thoughts about doing so.I feel like im not her #1 anymore and that im not as important,im too young to feel this way.I mean we both love each other and all,but shits just not tha same right now and I really need to come to a conclusion on things.I need all tha advice i can get so if you can help me out please

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sounds to me like she's playin' games, you might have to threaten to end that, see what her reaction is, make your decision from there

[PLAYBOY™]

na you shouldnt threaten to end it..you should just end it

it seems like shes playing you...now that doesnt necessarily mean shes cheating on you..but definitely some shady shit is goin on

shes triflin..thats not good

anytime a girl acts like that, drama is not too far behind

if it was me personally, i'd get out of that relationship

i think the thing people in relationships dont realize is that, theres always gonna be other people out there

why be in a shitty relationship when you can 1.) be in a better one or 2.) be single and carefree

they feel like if they leave their partner, theyre gonna be alone

they dont understand that theres over 6 billion people in this world...there WILL be others

[Jago11]

na you shouldnt threaten to end it..you should just end it

it seems like shes playing you...now that doesnt necessarily mean shes cheating on you..but definitely some shady shit is goin on

shes triflin..thats not good

anytime a girl acts like that, drama is not too far behind

if it was me personally, i'd get out of that relationship

i think the thing people in relationships dont realize is that, theres always gonna be other people out there

why be in a shitty relationship when you can 1.) be in a better one or 2.) be single and carefree

they feel like if they leave their partner, theyre gonna be alone

they dont understand that theres over 6 billion people in this world...there WILL be others


Co Signs because shis is acting really shitty and then when she askes why and starts crying say it is just best for you and then do not talk to her or anything because another flame will rekindle

[sneaksntits]

yup what ^said

[H6RR6RC6RE]

Y'all might love each other and all but it doesn't sound like she loves you to the same extent that you love her. If she did, priority would be you and not shopping or basketball games etc. I been through this shit before when I was growing up - don't waste your time and your goodness on her, you deserve someone who will give you their time. If you love someone, they come first. She ain't taking this shit seriously, find someone else who will. Good luck.