I got a dilemma

[...:::Aries...:::]

Im attracted to black guys...really dark preferably but most of the time the ones in L.A the ones i run into are mostly let me hit it type of guys. Im really petite 5'0 tall and they usually want them really really thick girls to actually date...i get alot of attention from white guys becuase they like the fact that im mixed but im not really attracted to them.no racism intended but i stopped being attracted to white guys in like 8th grade.

Do you think its possible for me to become attracted to a white guy if I just give them a chance?

by the way im married to a black guy but i told him we should relax and take a break from eachother for a while...ha ha...only 20 and dont like being locked down.

[beautiful_dyme]

well....wow

honestly,it's not whether they're white or black,it'sif they will treat you right.
i get what you're saying; black guys want the thick type and if the get it it's only a "hit & run".try dating a white guy and be open about it.get to know him,etc.

[Jago11]

You need to stay faithful.

[..:PrOdiGy:..]

You need to stay faithful.

Agreed.I think if you're married you shouldn't be seeing other people,if you don't wanna be tied down at 20 then you shouldn't have gotten married in the first place.Just IMO

[PLAYBOY™]

yeah word, the people above me pretty much said it all

-not about color, its about who treats you the way you wanna be treated
-wtf @ being married and not wanting to be tied down

[...:::Aries...:::]

we've both agreed to relax on eachother for a while...being married at 20 was our choice but we've been married for 2 years now and its taking a toll...we still love eachother but I guess too many influences from our friends and me hangin out wit my cousins and sisters at clubs i want in on the fun...


I get what everyone is saying though

[the_poster_child]

GOTTA SPREAD REP

[beautiful_dyme]

lmao,at all the boys.i said wow frist at the married part.as a female,i'm telling you if you're man still faithful then you need to resist tempation from your family of women.is it the bedroom?or boredom?have u tried resources?

[Blunt_crazy_420]

lol ummm 1st post a pic cuz im close to compton

and iono maybe most likely its how they treat u not they skin color

[...:::Aries...:::]

lmao,at all the boys.i said wow frist at the married part.as a female,i'm telling you if you're man still faithful then you need to resist tempation from your family of women.is it the bedroom?or boredom?have u tried resources?

naw the bedroom is still the shit...he's the only person i've EVER had sex with and I think that may be the reason im desperatley wanting to try somethin else.He lays it down to my standards but since i have nothing to compare hime to how do i know if it really is the Great Sex I think it is

[JamrokzQueen]

u shouldnt be viewing other men untill ur relationship is deaded completely if yall taking a break then take a break that doesnt include tryna in new dick excuse the french lol not tryna sound harsh but if u wanna explore make sure dat nigga knows what u intend on doin i just dont understand dating while married ..but white black or w/e its all depending on dude and how his charactr is as a man. u just gotta do what u feel is right n remain honest with all parties involved

[REALTALK87]

come round here and everything will be fine:cool:

[Cameosis]

if you give anyone a chance you can fall for em.

[Cleofis336]

color shouldnt matter, but i understand, cause everyone has something that prefer...cause i know i've always wanted a beautiful mixed woman with colored eyes and a nice physique...

but what i dont understand...is trying to relax and date other people while you're married...:shock: if thats the case, just go ahead and file for divorce and both of you do you're own thing...

but if the both of you are really pursuing other dating interest and are finished with the marriage...dont force yourself to like a certain color person...because you cant sum up the color of a race, and say they all are the same...cause i sure know if all the steotypes of black men were true, i'd be screwed...

good luck :wave:

[emceepee]

A marriage is not something you take for granted. The words were 'for better and for worse'.

I know that you're both young and maybe you got married too early, but I do honestly believe that you and your husband should at least try to work on your marriage and not bother with going with another man.

I'm sorry to also say, but if you do go with another guy, your marriage is as good as over. If you don't want to be locked down with your husband, get a divorce.

One thing you've not mentioned here is the children. Just think of what kind of message this sends to them.

I hope aries that you have some deep thinking to do. Your actions could affect those around you for years to come.

[...:::Aries...:::]

alright i've figured HIM out (my husband) he isnt dating others, I asked him about it and he talkin bout he'll watch our sons while i go ahead and get this all out my system...he says he started having sex at a young age and he knows that sex is overrated and its really the feelings and the face that make sex great...he knows that I've been feelin a little pressured by my cousins, sisters and homegirls about me only havin experienced him and it worried him a little when we got married but he thought i was over it. So i have decided to end the "break" and just love my man....


thanks for all the advice though i'll be sure 2 prop evryone

[ThA PriNceSS]

yer 20 yrs old....married with 2 kids.
stay where yer at....close yer legs except to yer husband...hoe shit

[beautiful_dyme]

^that was completely unnesscary princess.she's a hoe why? because she was upfront and honest to her man about her urges and mixed feelings? one thing i dislike is when people assume when a woman falls in love she can't have any urges,feelings,etc for anyother man.hell,she got her senses back it's not like she's been with other men b4...

[ThA PriNceSS]

^that was completely unnesscary princess.she's a hoe why? because she was upfront and honest to her man about her urges and mixed feelings? one thing i dislike is when people assume when a woman falls in love she can't have any urges,feelings,etc for anyother man.hell,she got her senses back it's not like she's been with other men b4...


huh?
bla bla?

she wasnt...dont believe the hype..

[dnice1042]

I hate girls that only fucks wit black dudes....Fucks shit up for me!

[dnice1042]

Oh well, I still gets mine holla!

[...:::Aries...:::]

yea actually Princess why not just not post in my threads at all...

Most women that have married the men that took there virginity will probably wonder what its like to have sex with someone else...its always in the back of my mind no matter how good my man puts it down...
and the fact that I have 2 kids and im 20 has nothing to do with it, there both by the same man so why does that make me a hoe...

I had one right after highschool when i was 18 and the other while i was in college...i dont sleep around and never have...i was considered a prude or a tease to most guys growing up becuase i NEVER gave up anything no fingering no head nothin...so b4 you try and speak on me get to know the facts...


your the one on forums strip teasin for 13 year olds but im a hoe huh....stupid ass bitch

[dnice1042]

What?! Can I see?!!! Im 21 though, might be "too old"...HAHAHA!!!!

[...:::Aries...:::]

What?! Can I see?!!! Im 21 though, might be "too old"...HAHAHA!!!!

Trust me you dont want to see it...its disgusting...bitch is FAT her titties fall to the side almost under her armpits but sad thing is there not big just there fallin to the side...im about to :puke: writin a description

[dnice1042]

:smh: @ fat bitches

aiyo what u lookin like? posta pic...

[JookNyce]

Lil Mama, you said you and your husband have rectified things and that's cool but if the problem should ever resurface maybe you and him can try the swinger thing. I've never did it personally but shit, when I get married my wife has to be bi because I love to see to chicks go at it.

[JookNyce]

I hate girls that only fucks wit black dudes....Fucks shit up for me!

And this dude is a hatin ass, no pussy gettin lame

[...:::Aries...:::]

I dont know my husband aint as much of a freak as I am...I wouldnt try the swingers shit but I have thought about a threesome but much later on in life when the sex has fallen off track...but im a jealous person and i'd probably want to kill the bitch if she touched my man...wouldnt want another female fuckin my dude...If I EVER do a threesome the most she can do is suck dick and thats that

[dnice1042]

And this dude is a hatin ass, no pussy gettin lame

yea ok, I still gets mines...fuck what u think. u prolly pay for ya pussy

[mostincredible]

:needpics:

[...:::Aries...:::]

:needpics:

:laugh:

http://i158.photobucket.com/albums/t106/lilmamak86/kendrame.jpg

http://i158.photobucket.com/albums/t106/lilmamak86/kcoxpose.jpg


satisfied...not the best but hey i aint scared 2 post my pics, I will never see anyone on here in real life

[J-Town815]

give the white guys a try I guess

[J-Town815]

:laugh:

http://i158.photobucket.com/albums/t106/lilmamak86/kendrame.jpg

http://i158.photobucket.com/albums/t106/lilmamak86/kcoxpose.jpg


satisfied...not the best but hey i aint scared 2 post my pics, I will never see anyone on here in real life


^ u cute:cheer:

[Dagger191]

princess is a fuckin tramp lol

[BigRich650]

ur married and on rn lol theres something wrong there

http://i152.photobucket.com/albums/s187/BigRich650/yaboy.jpg

[...:::Aries...:::]

ur married and on rn lol theres something wrong there

http://i152.photobucket.com/albums/s187/BigRich650/yaboy.jpg

I started coming on here 4 d/l but it got interesting and when im bored i get on here....

but hey im 20(bout 2 be 21 april 7th....yeahhhhh) just bcuz im married doesnt mean that i cant do things that normal 20 year olds would do except fuck around and club ALOT

[Skane87]

wait u guys r officially married? or just like.. wifey and hubby?.. ccuz if yall married(officially) and want a break.. then jus get a divorce.. yall still need to have fun

[gangsta01]

it doesnt matter what they are as long as u love em

[gangsta01]

:laugh:

http://i158.photobucket.com/albums/t106/lilmamak86/kendrame.jpg

http://i158.photobucket.com/albums/t106/lilmamak86/kcoxpose.jpg


satisfied...not the best but hey i aint scared 2 post my pics, I will never see anyone on here in real life

u lookin good in the pics

[...:::Aries...:::]

wait u guys r officially married? or just like.. wifey and hubby?.. ccuz if yall married(officially) and want a break.. then jus get a divorce.. yall still need to have fun

We're officially MARRIED...2 kids and everythin got married when we were 18 but its all LOVE...we love eachother and we dont want to divorce...the problem is that I was a virgin when i got with him and he's the only person i've EVER been with...so i sometimes feel like how do i know this is the best orgasm that i can feel when i've never felt what another man feels like...i have nothing to compare him to.....


problem has been solved though bcuz i love him too much to go on a break bcuz it would be both ways..and i wouldnt want him with any other female

[{$~ALL-3Y3Z-0n-ME~$}]

thats fucked up
not faithful :smh:

[2paki]

:laugh:

http://i158.photobucket.com/albums/t106/lilmamak86/kendrame.jpg

http://i158.photobucket.com/albums/t106/lilmamak86/kcoxpose.jpg


satisfied...not the best but hey i aint scared 2 post my pics, I will never see anyone on here in real life

damn u look like jessica alba no joke

[darnbni99a]

wtffff

[lil76]

Agreed.I think if you're married you shouldn't be seeing other people,if you don't wanna be tied down at 20 then you shouldn't have gotten married in the first place.Just IMO

^ on point...

trust me, if you feeling like this then you don't need to be married at all right now... your going thru a process and seeing ur gurlz goin out and getting wit guys and gettin numbers and shit... you obviously want to be FREE to do whatever your tired of the handcuffs your young and you still got time to be FREE to do what eva... your a youngin boo...

[realsoulja45]

YEA STAY FAITHFUL,IT AINT RIGHT TO BE GOING AROUND LOOKIN FO A NEW MAN WHEN U ALREADY MARRIED.

[datoriginalplayboy]

damn melyssa ford lookin daamnn good in ya sig playa ^^^^

[TwoFace Project]

. . . well its ur opinion. .

[ThA PriNceSS]

props to the faithfull....fukka hoe

[ThA PriNceSS]

2pacisalive_VIP

she looks like Alba?
Get off the drugs dude.

[lil76]

^^propd yall

[bkballer]

i guess its true "once you go black, you dont come back" lmfaoo... but seriesouly if you want to c if u still like white guys just talk to them like normall and if something happens it'll happen.

[REALTALK87]

im here for the hoe shit :confused:

[Mobile Infantry]

you should...you aint got nothing to lose

[!TEmpEr-mEntAL!]

bring your fine ass to Riverhead, i'll take you <3

[Sikskillz84]

be yourself dont change! you know exactly what you want dont settle for anything else even though it might take time for you to find exactly what you want

[...:::Aries...:::]

seriously princess get off my tit...I aint been o n this site in like 2 weeks and the first thing i see is you callin me a hoe and hatin bcuz someone thinks i look like j.alba...dude can have his opinion w/out u hatin...get over yourself...i've fucked ONE guy in my WHOLE life...married him and have 2 kids by him...if I TALk about MAYBE lookin elsewhere how does that make me a HOE...dont u have a kid and u aint married and u "date" supposedly and dance 4 people on the internet...


go somewhere and die...you are truly a bad person real shit

[YoungHu$tler]

I think that's not a question if white or black, you should give white guys a chance and you will see they will threat you right..why shouldn't they?

[the_protege2]

If you dont like being locked down........ then why you married??????

[...:::Aries...:::]

I got married when I was 18...shit I was in Love, at that age thats what i wanted...i still love my dude but its like damn i aint never had sex with anyone else.

The reason I dont want a divorce is bcuz i have 2 kids with him, its not like we're unhappy or not in love im just trippin off never having sex with anyone else

[Br0ward^954^K0untie]

go somewhere and die...you are truly a bad person real shit

*falls off chair laughing*

[the_protege2]

I got married when I was 18...shit I was in Love, at that age thats what i wanted...i still love my dude but its like damn i aint never had sex with anyone else.

The reason I dont want a divorce is bcuz i have 2 kids with him, its not like we're unhappy or not in love im just trippin off never having sex with anyone else

Yo you married! you cant be thinkin bout bangin other niggas. Thats only gonna make you want to do something bout. ANd thats gonna cause lots of problems.

It aint worth it!