advice needed...

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hes a brief.. me and my girl have been to gether lil over a year we met in o4 and things esclated from there from mutual friends to my first girl actually to be in love with.. but a lil before that i had been goin from girl to girl having fun goin to parties ( beginin of highschool ) hang with my buds but for the past year my life has turned around completely ive gained weight..dont hang out with too many of my friends.. dont go to parties and it seems to be because of her.. but she gets mad and jealous easyily and are fights are horrible

ive threated to break up numerous times but could never get the courage to keep it that way because of her constant im gonna change ill swear well its been a year and no changes and im fed up and threw i thought we were in love.. but this cant be love can it.. she swears she loves me and im breakin her heart .,. but i cant deal with this bs specially since i barely do anything except stay at her house and play damn video games or board games.. dont get me wrong she has her great moment wich is why i have stayed but lately ( 4-5 months ) its just gotten worse and worse.. and of course like all young couples... " oh yeah well get married" and shes holding that against me now sayin i led her to believe that was actually going to happe3n.. as of now our status is l;ike taking a break and i know what you all are thinkin.. ya break bull shit ...what should i do? give up ..? i feel im too young to be tied down now im only 17 and a junior in h.s ... help me out guys..

and plz no hatin or sayin dumb shit..

-thankz props for replys of course =]

[Skane87]

i kinda was in a similar situation.. and well we over now.. but we still kinda togetha. We still see each otha.. mess around and shit like that.. we love each otha to death.. but u kno wid school work and shit and friendz and.. we got lives too. Yeh u right u r too young to be tied down.. but u kno wat.. my ex broke up wid me in jan of 06.. (almost a yr :-\) and well in march or so.. she came runnin back.. cuz she saw how i treated her like no otha.. and she then figured out she really loved me. Wat im tryna say.. is take a lil break.. maybe a month. Keep in touch.. and if yall were meant to be.. u will. This month will give her time to change and shit like that. If yall call each otha alot.. start to limit that. Give both of yall some time to miss each otha. Live ur life.. hang out wid ur friendz more often.. but try and treat her good too. Make time fo urself tho.. start exercisin and stuff like that.. iight well dasz all ii got fo u righ now.. stay up

[Tchella]

*If you Love something let it go, and if its meant to be it will come back to u*

Its evident that you aren't "AS" happy as you were in the relationship and that you have problems with some of the things that she is doing. If you really want to be in the relationship and make it work then the "TWO" or you are gonna have to sit down together and make some compromises as to what the two of you want "Together". The "Expectations" that you have of her as a person and out of the relationship need to be outlined and Visa Versa

If you feel that neither one of you are able to meet halfway or, that you are looking at the relationship from 2 different prespectives,or what you what in the long run are different then, maybe you should just let it go and stop wasting each others time.

Life experience has taught me that When people say that are gonna do something, Like for example " Im gonna change....." they usually dont" It just a way of momentarily patch up a situation...But as soon as smoke clears they will go back to there old ways.......

If you truely love her and dont want to hurt her....If you dont want to be with her or your hearts not in it the way it was...Let her go.

Take it slow!!!!

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propped both

but like i said as i have time to tihink and calm down a lil bit.. i feel like im missing out on a lot.. and i feel this is the right move ... its gonna suck commin back to school cus 1st and 3rd periods i sit right nex to her

[REALTALK87]

mmm gotta think

let me get back

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kt hanks propped

[REALTALK87]

ok

there is nothing anywhere that says you have to lessen your personal happiness for anyone. Especially one that your not related to. But, there are always exceptions and everyones situation is different. The only thing that you can really know is if your unhappy and shes either unwilling to change or unable too, either way if she cared enough, or in other words loved you, shed find away to do so(change).

And at 17, marriage really honestly should be the furthest thing from your mind.. i mean your young, whole life ahead of you. Its ok to look forward to something as a possibility in the future, but not at 17.. seriously. You wouldnt even be able to serve champagne at your wedding reception.

Im all seriousness though, any choice that you go with. Make sure its based on the facts and not what you may be trying to project it to eventually be

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thhanks u i figured the whole marrage talk with throw u guys for a loop but we were talkin about ina our futture and maybe try going to the same college bla bla and i can see my self missin those college parties and stuff

[REALTALK87]

thhanks u i figured the whole marrage talk with throw u guys for a loop but we were talkin about ina our futture and maybe try going to the same college bla bla and i can see my self missin those college parties and stuff

Well if shes worth that sacrifice May keep you more focused and grounded Just be sure, cuz doubt can be the worst thing for you

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damn ur good^