I cheated.....and told her!!!

[carlosrey86]

Ok, I need help. Mainly from woman. I don't usually post on here, but I need help. I told my girl I had sex with another chick. It happened only once, and I told her right after. Now the catch is she wants to be with me, and I the same, but she doesn't trust me. It's a long story, but I need to win her back. I've brought 1,000,000 flowers and taken her to dinner, but I need to pull some shit outta my sleeves to win her back. PLS HELP!

[carlosrey86]

Now, let me explain.
Most guys would say never tell her, but I had too. Honesty is the best blah blah blah. Bottom line is we have had problems in the past with bitches(and I say bitches, because they're hoes). However this is the first time I've fucked a girl, so it's kinda more serious... I need tips and help to try and win her back. Ladies...if you have any advice or have been through this, now is the time to help. My dudes...if you have done the same and you still with the girl you cheated on, give me the ropes.

Thanks

[youngprod]

If she does end up wanting you back, its gonna be a tough rebuilding process.

Trust is something hard to gain by ppl, but SOOOOO easy to lose. It's a million times harder to gain back also.

Truthfully if I was a female in her shoes I wouldnt take u back and hopefully Karma catches up to you eventually.;)

But whatever you do to get her back, make sure its real and that you absolutely mean it. If she's a real woman, and I stress REAL, material things and fancy dinners won't help regain her trust back. Do something straight from the heart, don't just spew words and fake it.....

[Skane87]

wow.. ive stared @ this fo tha past 20 min. .and i unno wah to tell u.. jus give her time tho.. i kno her heart is broken.. and itz go take time to mend that wound.. be nice to her.. and try not to cheat on her again.. and money doesnt buy love.. if u keep buyin her shit.. she gon see that u tryna buy her back.. and that aint tha way. Let her heal by herself.. but be dere fo her.. give her alot of attention shit like that.. make her feel like she tha greatest girl in tha world.. treat her like if she has the Midas touch (where errythin turns into gold) .. das all i got fo u.. sorry if it aint much..

[Lyrical_Truth]

You need to get the realest and most passionate feelings you have for her and tell her in some way, because love and trust aren't bought by material things...

[BxSoLdiEr718]

happened to me....same shyt i told her.....i juss hadda give it time..and we still together til now ...2 yrs strong

[Porky]

it's over. she's gonna cheat on u now :smh:

[Da_Kid_G4T]

I've brought 1,000,000 flowers and taken her to dinner, but I need to pull some shit outta my sleeves to win her back. PLS HELP!

Ok, Money dont buy trust playa, remember that. Jus tshow her ur loyalty and in time u will get it back

[*FROSTY*]

Yeah, it's over.

[REALTALK87]

thats finished..

nice handy work :smh:

[SwEet - As -CaNdY]

Ok, I need help. Mainly from woman. I don't usually post on here, but I need help. I told my girl I had sex with another chick. It happened only once, and I told her right after. Now the catch is she wants to be with me, and I the same, but she doesn't trust me. It's a long story, but I need to win her back. I've brought 1,000,000 flowers and taken her to dinner, but I need to pull some shit outta my sleeves to win her back. PLS HELP!

wow my man just cheated onme a few weeks ago and shit but we were together for 5 years soo i have no trust from him neathier and trust is nothing u can do u have to earn that u can't try to buy her flowers and shit cause in the end she still is not goin to trust you just need to work at it pick up your phone when she call and wait cause it will come back...........

[Skane87]

nah mann.. keep ya head up.. it aint over till its ova iight? .. dont take no fo an answer.. if she does cheat on u.. then well u deserved it.. but.. look forward now..

[{$~ALL-3Y3Z-0n-ME~$}]

gl.....

[bsivoljr]

Hope she wants you back if you want her. But it doesn't seem like it cause you cheated on her. Make smarter decisions playa. Truth is if you run through a chick and you still want to be with ya girl. You betta take it to the grave. Better that way or else you end up with this. You feel better for being honest, but hurt worse because you probably wont get her back if she's half decent. Plus she's hurt now, and if you want her to stay then you care about her. So seeing her in pain hurts you. A big problem, better to just keep the pain to yourself, and keep her. Tell god not ya girlfriend. That way it'll be a sin, but you can keep her. Put it in the past, and do your best to prove you regret it, that your a good man, and that it wont happen again.(WHETHER IT DOES OR NOT)
Me myself Im faithful, because I choose to be.

[carlosrey86]

Hope she wants you back if you want her. But it doesn't seem like it cause you cheated on her. Make smarter decisions playa. Truth is if you run through a chick and you still want to be with ya girl. You betta take it to the grave. Better that way or else you end up with this. You feel better for being honest, but hurt worse because you probably wont get her back if she's half decent. Plus she's hurt now, and if you want her to stay then you care about her. So seeing her in pain hurts you. A big problem, better to just keep the pain to yourself, and keep her. Tell god not ya girlfriend. That way it'll be a sin, but you can keep her. Put it in the past, and do your best to prove you regret it, that your a good man, and that it wont happen again.(WHETHER IT DOES OR NOT)
Me myself Im faithful, because I choose to be.



The reason I told her, is because I couldn't stand to sit/stand there talk to her and have the fact that I did something like and she dosen't know eat away at me. Plus I felt that if I did that, I should face the music...no matter what happens :( . I mean, I owe her that much .

I know money doesn't buy trust, and I'm not trying to buy it back. I'm just lost, and really don't know what to do. I'm changing, but it's a slow process...I guess I just want to her back now.

[dys·func·tion·al]

stupied.......Stupied,,,,,,,,,STUPIED :smh:

[_-=SuIcIdAl=-_]

^^^^ smh sayin hes "stupied' its stupid

[©®@Kẩ√£[]_I ™]

mistake 1. tellin her right away :smh: shits foolish, if your gonna tell her at all make it in the distant future UNLESS she gonna find out anyway

mistake 2. buying shit doesnt buy trust it just wastes money TIME is what you need and if you really care that much just dont do it again and hope she can forgive you and trust you again

[Mz_Nextel]

SHE IS JUST STICKING AROUND
TO MAKE U FEEL LIKE A WINNER
BUT BELIEVE ME, SHE WILL CHEAT

I HOPE U BELIEVE IN KARMA

[Mz_Nextel]

^^^^ smh sayin hes "stupied' its stupid


:laugh:

i think he is saying it
in a spanish accent

[bsivoljr]

Well you gotta be a man and live with it, shake that shit off and move on. Quit actin confused you know what you did. Now face the consequences like a man, I mean you told on yourself dude. What do you expect. Should of just kept that shit concealed. Maybe you dont need to be with her if you cheated on her, did you ever think of that? Peace

[...:::Aries...:::]

sorry but you cant just pull something outta nowhere and expect her to trust you all in one night...that shits gonna take some time. Dont even look at another female tell ur homegurls 2 back off for a while bcuz trust she will think your fuckin wit every gurl u have contact with. So just chill on gurl freindships for a while and focus on your gurl. u buyin her shit wont really change the fact that she dont trust you.

[Bad_Breed]

it will never be the same again

[Shogun0125]

Takes time. My bro cheated on his girl and they took a while to get back. Seems like its back to "normal" with them but I'm sure she doesn't trust him like she did before.

[Rival_MC]

end it, its for the best

[natethejewpimp]

youll get over it

[ReaLST-AssYriaN]

that happened to me a month ago.. and i told her she was luzn it but now everythings ok i guess well i hope so coz i dont wanna lose her :smh: :crys: