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howdywhohowdyhey
December 31st, 2006, 11:10 AM
who doesn't talk about her feelings. how do i get her to share her feelings with me?

CARAM3L
December 31st, 2006, 12:20 PM
I guess she doesn't feel comfortable talking about her feelings right now. If she's feeling you and you know for sure then she'll open up eventually..but if shes not looking for a relationship she's prolly trying to avoid all that..

I'm not sure how to get her to open up.. I'm the type of girl who would tell you straight out how i feel, so i wouldn't exactly know. But good luck with that.

Luda167
December 31st, 2006, 03:56 PM
1st you gotta make her trust you

PLAYBOY™
December 31st, 2006, 03:57 PM
everyone opens up at their own pace

granted women are expected to open up ASAP, its not fair to think that way

im hispanic so im expected to speak spanish but i dont

everyone is different, everyone is going to do shit at their own pace

if ur asking how you can speed up that process...opening up to someone takes trust and familiarity

let her know that your genuinely interested in what she says/feels and you want her to express what shes feeling more often

Luda167
December 31st, 2006, 03:59 PM
word @ chronic

2paki
December 31st, 2006, 04:01 PM
u sing to her the g unit song- i wanna get to know u

djjayr
December 31st, 2006, 06:19 PM
You gota get her to open up to you first. To achieve that, you must take time and slowly develope your relationship deeper.

REALTALK87
December 31st, 2006, 06:35 PM
tell her if she doesnt give you something

your gonna walk

datoriginalplayboy
December 31st, 2006, 07:44 PM
ive been in this situation before....

its mainly about the status of the relationship with the girl : how comfortable you are with each other, trust, etc. etc.

and trust me dawg, even if she dont tell you, theres things that females do that you can tell they are feeling you without them actually expressing their feelings verbally.

IE. always agreeing to chill with you, never misses ur call, the way she looks at you..simple things


as for me, when i was in this situation, I poked questions at her to understand how she really felt...once i thought I knew she liked me, I went for it, and i was right...

and also a lot of times, if you tell her how u feel, it might make her comfortable enough to tell you how she feels...

sisko_79
December 31st, 2006, 08:12 PM
are u for reals?? Shi$% most guys are tired of chicks talking bout their feelings, shoot I'm trying to find one that could actually spend an afternoon without saying a word about her feelings lol...

!TEmpEr-mEntAL!
December 31st, 2006, 08:22 PM
Just be her friends and it'll all work out.