Bitter Black Women

[Cutthroat]

This is a spin-off of the thread dude made about black women being mad at us....
Real talk...Black women need to quit being so damn bitter especially when most of them bring the problems that they have on themselves. They complain about it being no good black men, but they only go after the worthless black men. They'll choose the drug dealer, the abuser, the cheater, etc. over the respectful, kind hearted, college brotha supporting himself with a regular job. Then u have the other kind of black woman who always has standards in a man that she can provide herself. She has about 5 kids, no job, no education, no car, live with her parents and so on...but if a man even wants to talk to her, he has to have a high paying job, a mansion, plenty of money, a fancy car, etc. I mean come on...thats crazy. Most black women's priorities are all fucked up. Then u have the overall materialistic black woman who cant accept a brotha who's just trying to get by. U cant just have your own place to stay, u gotta have a mansion. U cant just have a car to get u where u need to go, u gotta have a fancy car. U cant just have a regular watch that tells time, u gotta have a rolex. U cant just have decent clothes on ya back, u gotta have the most expensive name brands. To break it down to more simple terms, they let TV like the rap videos and shyt determine the standards they set for what they want in a man. A man gotta be living like the videos on BET to even get the time of day. Now its plenty of black women out there with their shyt together who I give major props to, but even a lot of them have their priorities fucked up as well. Most of them wont talk to a brotha if he has less than her. Even if he's trying to get his money up and making a serious effort, they still wont talk to him because he dont have it NOW. Those types of black women normally dont see the big picture, they look at a man for what he is now instead of what he could be in the future then they end up missing out on something that couldve been good. Its shyt like that. Im not saying that this is all black women, but its the majority.

[CARAM3L]

All I know is that I'm certainly not a bitter black woman. Sure I do have standards like every other woman in this world, but I'm certainly not bitter. If a guy does have his ish together then thats a huge PLUS in my book, because it shows that they are actually about something..Some girls don't wanna wait around for what a guy COULD be cause they could spend all this time with you, and you could end up no where..Knowing that a guy can support you and that you don't have to be the supporter all the time is a good feeling, knowing that yall got each other is something to take comfort in. I guess some women just don't want to take that CHANCEE..

As for me, a guy having a good head upon his shoulders that is actually about something is all it would take..plus some of the extra lil details..but it ain't much, BET do got some females minds all screwed up in the standards of a man...I agree, but it takes the smart ones to know that a REAL man just ain't about all that..

Eh, thats just me, but its whatever. :/

[emceepee]

This is a spin-off of the thread dude made about black women being mad at us....
Real talk...Black women need to quit being so damn bitter especially when most of them bring the problems that they have on themselves. They complain about it being no good black men, but they only go after the worthless black men. They'll choose the drug dealer, the abuser, the cheater, etc. over the respectful, kind hearted, college brotha supporting himself with a regular job. Then u have the other kind of black woman who always has standards in a man that she can provide herself. She has about 5 kids, no job, no education, no car, live with her parents and so on...but if a man even wants to talk to her, he has to have a high paying job, a mansion, plenty of money, a fancy car, etc. I mean come on...thats crazy. Most black women's priorities are all fucked up. Then u have the overall materialistic black woman who cant accept a brotha who's just trying to get by. U cant just have your own place to stay, u gotta have a mansion. U cant just have a car to get u where u need to go, u gotta have a fancy car. U cant just have a regular watch that tells time, u gotta have a rolex. U cant just have decent clothes on ya back, u gotta have the most expensive name brands. To break it down to more simple terms, they let TV like the rap videos and shyt determine the standards they set for what they want in a man. A man gotta be living like the videos on BET to even get the time of day. Now its plenty of black women out there with their shyt together who I give major props to, but even a lot of them have their priorities fucked up as well. Most of them wont talk to a brotha if he has less than her. Even if he's trying to get his money up and making a serious effort, they still wont talk to him because he dont have it NOW. Those types of black women normally dont see the big picture, they look at a man for what he is now instead of what he could be in the future then they end up missing out on something that couldve been good. Its shyt like that. Im not saying that this is all black women, but its the majority.

Why are people making such assumptions about black women here.
Are you saying that its only black women out there who are materialistic???

I can certainly show you some non black women who certainly are...

Do you personally know every black woman, somehow I doubt it so I'm not sure how you can say that its the majority of black women that do so. I think the point of your case is that some black women are bitter,.....not all.

Most of the black women that I know work damm hard to maintain their careers and the family at the same time. They are also very independent and really don't need no materialistic needs from any man. So for you to coming and saying that is totally unfair.

[CARAM3L]

Why are people making such assumptions about black women here.
Are you saying that its only black women out there who are materialistic???

I can certainly show you some non black women who certainly are...

Do you personally know every black woman, somehow I doubt it so I'm not sure how you can say that its the majority of black women that do so. I think the point of your case is that some black women are bitter,.....not all.

Most of the black women that I know work damm hard to maintain their careers and the family at the same time. They are also very independent and really don't need no materialistic needs from any man. So for you to coming and saying that is totally unfair.

amen.

[Da_Kid_G4T]

Lol GOd love readin these kinda things...

[RAY350]

if she mad at you then you did something to make her mad

[gslade1]

well what you've said could apply to women of all races and not exclusively to black women. i work in dc and i'll tell you that the white and asian women there are certainly just as materialistic and messed up as some of the black women you describe. they won't have anything to do with you if you don't have the right title and grade at your job. the big difference is this country will focus on the negative stuff about some black women but give other women a pass. and of course the negative always overshadows the positive. the good black women don't get stuff said about them because negative stuff is controversial and sparks heated debates like the one we're having. well enough of me.. i'll let other people take it from here..

[Cutthroat]

Yall some stupid mothafuckas. Quote me where I said its only black women who do this. If u cant do that, then dont even reply to this thread no more.

[emceepee]

Yall some stupid mothafuckas. Quote me where I said its only black women who do this. If u cant do that, then dont even reply to this thread no more.

Seems to me that you're only talking about Black women here. If you would have said about some women in general, I wouldn't have had a problem with your post.

But here you're specifically mentioning black women and no one else. Nothing on your original post mentioned anything about white, asian or latino women being materialistic as well.

[kayy0ungn]

This is a spin-off of the thread dude made about black women being mad at us....
Real talk...Black women need to quit being so damn bitter especially when most of them bring the problems that they have on themselves. They complain about it being no good black men, but they only go after the worthless black men. They'll choose the drug dealer, the abuser, the cheater, etc. over the respectful, kind hearted, college brotha supporting himself with a regular job. Then u have the other kind of black woman who always has standards in a man that she can provide herself. She has about 5 kids, no job, no education, no car, live with her parents and so on...but if a man even wants to talk to her, he has to have a high paying job, a mansion, plenty of money, a fancy car, etc. I mean come on...thats crazy. Most black women's priorities are all fucked up. Then u have the overall materialistic black woman who cant accept a brotha who's just trying to get by. U cant just have your own place to stay, u gotta have a mansion. U cant just have a car to get u where u need to go, u gotta have a fancy car. U cant just have a regular watch that tells time, u gotta have a rolex. U cant just have decent clothes on ya back, u gotta have the most expensive name brands. To break it down to more simple terms, they let TV like the rap videos and shyt determine the standards they set for what they want in a man. A man gotta be living like the videos on BET to even get the time of day. Now its plenty of black women out there with their shyt together who I give major props to, but even a lot of them have their priorities fucked up as well. Most of them wont talk to a brotha if he has less than her. Even if he's trying to get his money up and making a serious effort, they still wont talk to him because he dont have it NOW. Those types of black women normally dont see the big picture, they look at a man for what he is now instead of what he could be in the future then they end up missing out on something that couldve been good. Its shyt like that. Im not saying that this is all black women, but its the majority.


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[Cutthroat]

Seems to me that you're only talking about Black women here. If you would have said about some women in general, I wouldn't have had a problem with your post.

But here you're specifically mentioning black women and no one else. Nothing on your original post mentioned anything about white, asian or latino women being materialistic as well.

All that bullshit u just typed equals nothing. Unless u can quote me where I said its all black women that dont assume thats what I mean. I dont have to dance around what I mean, if I wanted to say it was only black bitches then I would say that. I know its bitches in other races who do this, but I chose to talk about black bitches who do it since theyre always the ones wondering why good black men dont fuck with them.

[Jeremy2k316]

if you ask me all women are materialistic

[Cutthroat]

if you ask me all women are materialistic
Yeah, but black bitches are the worse.

[DatNiCa]

Why are people making such assumptions about black women here.
Are you saying that its only black women out there who are materialistic???

I can certainly show you some non black women who certainly are...

Do you personally know every black woman, somehow I doubt it so I'm not sure how you can say that its the majority of black women that do so. I think the point of your case is that some black women are bitter,.....not all.

Most of the black women that I know work damm hard to maintain their careers and the family at the same time. They are also very independent and really don't need no materialistic needs from any man. So for you to coming and saying that is totally unfair.



yeah goood point

[emceepee]

All that bullshit u just typed equals nothing. Unless u can quote me where I said its all black women that dont assume thats what I mean. I dont have to dance around what I mean, if I wanted to say it was only black bitches then I would say that. I know its bitches in other races who do this, but I chose to talk about black bitches who do it since theyre always the ones wondering why good black men dont fuck with them.

You got any evidence to suggest that black women are wondering why the good black men don't want to be with them?? You seem to making points without no substance to your argument. Last time I looked, there seems to be plenty of happy black couples out there I see personally myself each day. So whats your argument on this about

I'm just gonna go through your original post and try to work out on what you meant here

Black women need to quit being so damn bitter especially when most of them bring the problems that they have on themselves. They complain about it being no good black men, but they only go after the worthless black men. They'll choose the drug dealer, the abuser, the cheater, etc. over the respectful, kind hearted, college brotha supporting himself with a regular job.

Please note here that you are saying 'black women', nothing here suggest 'some' or a 'majority' here. When 'worded' like this, it normally means that all black woman are such as you said.

Q. What problems have black women bought on themselves?

Have you ever had bad experiences with black women in the past? If so, as a black man myself I understand. But my question to you still is What makes you think that all black women only look for drug dealers, cheaters etc?

Do you have any evidence to support this claim?

Have you seen any black women who get up every day to go out and earn a day's wage just so to put food in their children's stomach? Those who work hard for themselves and take care of their families as well? I'm sure you have. This is where I disagree with your comments here.

Also to label black as only looking for material wealth is derogatory to say the least. But there are good black women out there. Keep looking out there and believe me, you will find your diamond out there.

Then u have the other kind of black woman who always has standards in a man that she can provide herself. She has about 5 kids, no job, no education, no car, live with her parents and so on...but if a man even wants to talk to her, he has to have a high paying job, a mansion, plenty of money, a fancy car, etc. I mean come on...thats crazy. Most black women's priorities are all fucked up.

What are these comments based on? Are these facts you could provide or is it just another one of your stereotypical view of black women that you have??

As I said before, yes you will have materialistic black women out there and yes you will have the hard working ones as well. Just remember if you date other women from other races, they're materialistic as well.

Most black women's priorities are all fucked up. Then u have the overall materialistic black woman who cant accept a brotha who's just trying to get by. U cant just have your own place to stay, u gotta have a mansion. U cant just have a car to get u where u need to go, u gotta have a fancy car. U cant just have a regular watch that tells time, u gotta have a rolex. U cant just have decent clothes on ya back, u gotta have the most expensive name brands.

Are these comments based on personal experience??? If so, please do explain.

[Cutthroat]

^^^ Stupid mothafucka, I shouldnt have to say "some" or "majority." Like I told your retarded ass earlier, if I wanted to say "all" then I would say ALL. Damn, thats yall sorry mothafuckas only excuse, "its some, not all." Get another excuse because that one is played out as fuck. I also like how u tried to pick apart my whole post as if nothing I said was true. Fool Im speakin from personal experience AND observation. Everything I typed is 100% true.

[emceepee]

^^^ Stupid mothafucka, I shouldnt have to say "some" or "majority." Like I told your retarded ass earlier, if I wanted to say "all" then I would say ALL. Damn, thats yall sorry mothafuckas only excuse, "its some, not all." Get another excuse because that one is played out as fuck. I also like how u tried to pick apart my whole post as if nothing I said was true. Fool Im speakin from personal experience AND observation. Everything I typed is 100% true.

^^^
For someone who has to use offensive language to get your message, I won't fall down to your level of thinking.

All I say to you as a black man with such low esteem of black women (One of which gave birth to you). I wish you all the best.

[Cameosis]

nigga u sound like a bitter black man

[Cutthroat]

Lol @ all these hurtin feelings in this thread. Thats how I know Im tellin the truth when mofuckas start cryin over my words.

[Renaissance]

Cutthroat u mad??? If you can't handle these "requirements," step your game up or go wit a white chick. I'll come back in this thread later on and voice my opinion.

[Nick_Fury]

only had 1 black girl so idk.... lol

[Cameosis]

sometimes women are bitter cuz every nigga in the neighborhood try and smash once she grow titties...from little dudes to grandpas

[Cutthroat]

only had 1 black girl so idk.... lol
Dont get another one bruh, Im tellin u this for ya own good.

[Guinness]

easy lol

[Guinness]

lol and niggas date wht chick becuz off easy pussy and least probssometimes women are bitter cuz every nigga in the neighborhood try and smash once she grow titties...from little dudes to grandpas

[The Wife]

How can you have soulja slim in your sig and he hated black men who date outside their race?Loser.

[G-Sword]

They complain about it being no good black men, but they only go after the worthless black men. They'll choose the drug dealer, the abuser, the cheater, etc. over the respectful, kind hearted, college brotha supporting himself with a regular job.

i agree wit you on this one and like u said at the end its not all black women. its more of the young black girls dating older guys.

[CHOPZ25]

This is a spin-off of the thread dude made about black women being mad at us....
Real talk...Black women need to quit being so damn bitter especially when most of them bring the problems that they have on themselves. They complain about it being no good black men, but they only go after the worthless black men. They'll choose the drug dealer, the abuser, the cheater, etc. over the respectful, kind hearted, college brotha supporting himself with a regular job. Then u have the other kind of black woman who always has standards in a man that she can provide herself. She has about 5 kids, no job, no education, no car, live with her parents and so on...but if a man even wants to talk to her, he has to have a high paying job, a mansion, plenty of money, a fancy car, etc. I mean come on...thats crazy. Most black women's priorities are all fucked up. Then u have the overall materialistic black woman who cant accept a brotha who's just trying to get by. U cant just have your own place to stay, u gotta have a mansion. U cant just have a car to get u where u need to go, u gotta have a fancy car. U cant just have a regular watch that tells time, u gotta have a rolex. U cant just have decent clothes on ya back, u gotta have the most expensive name brands. To break it down to more simple terms, they let TV like the rap videos and shyt determine the standards they set for what they want in a man. A man gotta be living like the videos on BET to even get the time of day. Now its plenty of black women out there with their shyt together who I give major props to, but even a lot of them have their priorities fucked up as well. Most of them wont talk to a brotha if he has less than her. Even if he's trying to get his money up and making a serious effort, they still wont talk to him because he dont have it NOW. Those types of black women normally dont see the big picture, they look at a man for what he is now instead of what he could be in the future then they end up missing out on something that couldve been good. Its shyt like that. Im not saying that this is all black women, but its the majority.

say my nigga this is what me my boyz be talkin bout everyday. It seems all woman want to run this world and they dont listen to nothing we tell them.

[balliiiiiiiiiiiiiiin]

propz niggas. most black wamon i know be like this. but i change they minds quick but if she set then i don't give a fuck, i skip em and go for the ones that don't do this bullshit.

and all the people screamin all girls do it. if we did nuumbers the black girls is whooole lot more.

[Cutthroat]

How can you have soulja slim in your sig and he hated black men who date outside their race?Loser.
So because Slim didnt like when black men dated outside of the race, that means I cant be a fan of his music? I got a cousin who knew Slim personally and my cousin fucked with white girls, but him and Slim was still cool as hell with each other. So this shyt youre typin is pointless.

[Big A aka Mr.85-NorthSyde]

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