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Santos05
December 28th, 2006, 10:58 PM
Many of us face this dilemma on a day to day basis not only should we cheat on our partner; should we hook up with this person who has someone else. You will always get the people who say that they would never cheat on their partner. Those people are mostly full of shit and that is the reason they spew white stuff every night. Am not telling you right now its good to cheat, but you must face the fact that at the age "18-25" their will be a lot of cheating running ramped. To my point

I dated this one girl in high school till the beginning of this school year. We were in love or that is what I believed to be the case. I cheated on her at college and had no guilt about it till I saw her again and realized that she didn’t need this. I never told her that I did this I just never did it again. Though our relationship ended up breaking apart and I told her in disgust for her. I regret that way in my life.

Settling down with this girl wasn’t what I was looking for I was here to party hang out with the friend meet girls and just fuck, but I couldn’t I had a girl who I thought would be something. Really I was just forcing myself to fall in love with her. I wasn’t ready to give up partying that wasn’t me; not yet. Great girl if we meet later down the road maybe it would have been marriage talks.

But let me be clear about this too: DO NOT CHEAT. If you feel the need to cheat, get out of the relationship. It means you aren't ready (or it might mean you have deep-seated issues you need to work out). But seriously, cheating is awful and shitty. You are taking someone's trust and shitting on it, but do not lie to someone you claim to love. That is nothing short of vile.

Nothing is wrong with being single and enjoying fucking numerous women and just having fun. To force yourself in a relationship because you believe you could never do better than that person and you are under 35 you must be crazy cause there will be something out there for you.

Just talk about some shit you feel about cheating.

Chek
December 28th, 2006, 11:09 PM
paragraphs my dude, paragraphs

Dat Nucca kelz
December 28th, 2006, 11:12 PM
:zzz:

Santos05
December 28th, 2006, 11:27 PM
bump'

Cutthroat
December 29th, 2006, 08:37 AM
Just because your weak ass cheat on whoever youre with, that dont mean that everyone else does. Im so tired of fools always assuming that shyt. I can honestly say that I'll never cheat on my girl and mean it. Its all about your loyalties and u or any other cheater obviously dont have any.

Luda167
December 29th, 2006, 11:31 AM
:smh: its never okay to cheat.

main story is if you ever think you'll cheat
you shouldnt be in a relationship

and if you are in a relationship it simply states you obviously dont
love your girl as much as you say you do if ya eyes and mind are wondering
to that level.

be loyal shit it pays off in the end.

Santos05
December 29th, 2006, 11:37 AM
Let me restate what I Said "Do Not Cheat". I don't assume everyone cheats it is a fact a lot of people cheat. I admitted cheating was a weak thing to do. I just want people to post on how cheating affected them if they were cheated on or why the cheated on their partner.

We$ton
December 29th, 2006, 12:21 PM
no its not ok, unless you don't respect your woman

kaoss_11
December 29th, 2006, 01:43 PM
I think its okay to look but not touch. I feel its even ok to flirt from time to time. Everyone does it on some level one way or another. Especially women, they may do it to get a discount on some type of service or product etc. As long as you are loyal and come home to that person every night and not build relations your good.

Bling_gangsta076
December 30th, 2006, 07:52 AM
It's human nature, not okay though

Cro$$_Roads1999
December 30th, 2006, 08:44 AM
never cheated on ANY of my girls and would never cheat on the one im with now

babii_gurl404
December 30th, 2006, 11:17 AM
no its not okay

W1ld Bill
December 30th, 2006, 04:16 PM
fuck cheaters

youngprod
December 30th, 2006, 04:39 PM
fuck cheaters

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