what to do when a girl is upset (JUST FRIENDS)

[westcoastbadboy23]

aite i just got off the phone with this girl i'm really close with and what should i do when she is upset (JUST FRIENDS). she was kinda crying i can tell because her dad was trippin. so what should i do in future if she or any girl does that. what i did was just try to talk to her and make her feel better than i asked if she wants me to let her go. specifically i want to say something sweet to her or whatever. hit me up on some advice. LATE!

[PLAYBOY™]

aight well since shes a friend u can play the superman role and basically comfort her for however long u please cuz ur not gonna leave that friend stage

if this was with someone you were interested in dating what i would do is comfort her a little and then be like "baby you wanna come over and talk about it?" or "can i come over and talk you through this face to face?" cuz that phone shit is for girls and guy friends only...u gotta see her face to face on an intimate level so that u can comfort her but the physical aspect is still there...if u cant get there or she cant come to you than say..."well idk what to do girl, i have to be up early tomorrow so i cant talk to u too long...how about you call (name of one of her GIRL friends) shes close to you, she'll probly know what to do"

dont ever console a girl on the phone unless shes already your gf

shit like that puts u in that friendship stage with the quickness

and u cant escape that level if you was mario with the wing cap

[babii_gurl404]

just kinda tell her its okay
but dont get too deep into it
cuz you dont wanna lead her on

[sHo-Tee]

I don't know, I'd expect my dude friend to just sit on the phone and listen (kinda like a girlfriend) give advice and a lot of "it'll be okay" if you in front of her and start balling, just give her a hug, and let her talk it out. Sometimes we just want to know that someone else cares but you don't have to open your mouth to show it

[Dashottcalla]

jokes... make her laugh the pain away

[SKID17]

JUST BODY SLAM HER ASS...IT'LL GET HER MIND OFF OF WHATEVER SHE'S THINKING ABOUT

[J33BUS]

hahaha skid, man the fuck!?!?! im reading what everyone says and then i keep scrolling down i see the kramer)seinfeld picture and then i see BODY SLAM HER!!!! the fuck!!!! haahhahaha. man ur fukin ridiculous!


ok well as for the main part of this post... You gotta edit ur thread cuz ppl arent sure if u wanna b more than a friend or just comfort her as a friend.
I can tell you right now, im da "friend" guy. And my boo was my good friend before i started getting serious with her.

In your situation, and u wanna stay friends, she calls u, u start talking to her listen, u dont even need to talk....
But if you want her, then listen... Agh, i have nothing to tell you. I can tell you how I did it but thats a lil ruff... She had a lil car accident, her parents bitched at her, i called her at the worst moment, hearing her parents bitch at her etc... i went to pick her up, took her to get some coffee. we were sitting beside the window, and she was looking away (outside), and I took her hand and what I did basically is spitted out the truth. Candice, I want you, I liked you its been forever now, and i cant stop thinking about you, i dont wanna b ur friend anymore, i wanna be ur man, ur boo, your hubby, Ill take care, and treat you like you ever dreamed of.

Now.. the girl will b shocked and start bursting tears of joy (like my case), or she'll be like... sorry but im not interested blah blah blah and that it...

cuz i mean man, im sure u like her more than a friend its a fact that if a girl has a good friend he likes her...

anyways im off subject, dat about it