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PLAYBOY™
November 15th, 2006, 01:24 PM
ight...

now you always see all these threads and sites with self proclaimed know-it-alls about

"signs shes attracted to you"

"how to tell she likes you as more than just a friend"

"how to get a female's number in 3 minutes"

etc


the problem is...all these threads/books/sites/etc are made by GUYS

now...initially i didnt see it as a big deal..BUT...i thought

well wtf..who knows women better than....WOMEN?!

so i have some questions that i need answered from a woman's point of view

enough of those advice threads made by dudes, i want a primary resource not a secondhand generalization..so take the time out to answer these questions for me please,it will be greatly appreciated

-What are some signs you give to guys your interested in? (physical signs/body language)

-when you see a guy in public you think you may be interested in..would you rather walk up to him or he walk up to you..and be honest..do you give off any signs that tell him its ok for him to approach you or do you automatically think hes gonna do it?

-i heard that girls often make the guys their interested in jealous by talking to/about other guys and/or flirting with other guys..is that true? (it doesnt make much sense to me if it is!)

-if a girl makes eye contact with a dude when hes not too close to her...but doesnt make eye contact when their in close proximity..does that mean the girls shy?..and if so...does she still like dude?

-biting your lip/cheek or making different movements with your mouth means your uncomfortable (i do this when im around hot girls so i need gum to occupy my mouth while i talk to her or else i start doing weird shit with my mouth and i come off as anxious) but when a girl does this does it mean the girl is anxious cuz shes around someone shes interested in? or is she anxious because the guy is hideous and shes getting uncomfortable

-obviously eye contact is a big thing..but theres different emotions eye contact can give off...obviously you can tell the difference between someone giving u a dirty look or someone giving u a flirtatious look...but if ur looking at a dude in his eyes and ur neither giving him a dirty look nor giving him a flirtatious look..what does it mean?..

-are you aware of the signs you give off? (i.e.-they say things like,if a girl twirls her hair,or mimicks your actions,or if her feet are pointed to you,or if her palms are open and facing you,it means shes attracted to you) is that kinda shit even true?..and if so..are you concious of your actions when your doing these sort of things? or do you not even realize your doing those things

-do you girls try to give us a sign that you want to talk to us more?, example...sometimes girls come up to me and ask me regular questions like "where is room 303?" or "do you have the time?" etc....is that their way of trying to spark a convo or do they really need to know the room number,time,etc...or is it both?

-when you see a guy (anywhere,club,school,mall,etc) that your interested in...what do you do to let him know your interested?


answer please!!! ;)

viciuzurban
November 15th, 2006, 01:29 PM
u got too much time on your hands ::;:

PLAYBOY™
November 15th, 2006, 01:36 PM
u got too much time on your hands ::;:

well bein that you normally post 7-8 paragraphs per post in this section i'd say you and i got the same watch

kayy0ungn
November 15th, 2006, 01:42 PM
well bein that you normally post 7-8 paragraphs per post in this section i'd say you and i got the same watch


Damn he got you there

sHo-Tee
November 15th, 2006, 02:46 PM
I'm no expert, and I can't speak for every girl so I can only give my own personal opinion...

-What are some signs you give to guys your interested in? (physical signs/body language)

Body language a HUGE sign!

Speaking: If you're in public talking to a girl and she's looking at you while you're speaking, she's interesting in what you have to say, if she's looking at everything else, then you're not really holding her interest (unless something dramatic happens, like a car crash or a gun shoots off, where any human in that situation would turn around)

Leaning: Another big sign is when we are listening to you, are we leaning in? Or just sitting back against the chair. Leaning towards show interest. If your sitting on a couch next to her, and she crossing her legs, if she's interested, chances are she'll cross towards you, not away and turns towards you.

Personally, I touch dude a little, but I don't know if this is for all girls. No grabbing, that's slutty, but if you're standing in line for a movie, a little hip bump or even an elbow to elbow rub while you're watching the movie shows she likes touching you. Chances are she's not going to touch a dude she doesn't care for. Locking arms, tickling, getting in your "personal bubble" brushing "dirt" off your shoulder, any kind of volunteer touching is a sign.

Another thing I do, but this too is not true for all girls is what I call the 'motherly flirting"...If you were eating something and you have something in the corner of your mouth and she wipes it off, if when you tell you a story about how you got trashed last night, she tells you you shouldn't drink because it hurts your body or if you're sick and she calls you up to bring you cough medicine or soup, she shows she cares.

-when you see a guy in public you think you may be interested in..would you rather walk up to him or he walk up to you..and be honest..do you give off any signs that tell him its ok for him to approach you or do you automatically think hes gonna do it?

I'm not going to lie, I'm a puss when it comes to walk up to a guy so I can't speak on that. But I have a more old-school feel, I enjoy it when a guy come up to me. It shows he has courage and guts, BUT you should ask a girl what her name is BEFORE you ask if she has a boyfriend, that shows you're taking a genuine interest in getting to know her instead of trying to get in her pants (even if that is your original intent)

Looking at you and a little half smile are signals. If you're in a mall and you pass her up and she does that, and she looks back, wait a while and then go talk to her, because if you go up to her right after you notice her looking at you, you kinda look desperate and that you just saw her ass or something and you were like, OooO, I gotta get that.

-i heard that girls often make the guys their interested in jealous by talking to/about other guys and/or flirting with other guys..is that true? (it doesnt make much sense to me if it is!)

I hate to say it but we do. Not all of us. We actually enjoy hearing that you want to kick Joe Blows' ass because he keeps calling. Anytime guys show a little emotion because they want to "protect" us is great but nothing overboard. It's okay to say, "girl, why you keep talking to ol dude?" but NOT "I'mma kick this niggas ass if you ever talk to his ass again" the second one is just a bit controlling. Now flirting is just disrespectful, if a girl flirts with a dude in front of you and you're talking to her, walk off and don't come back. A hug to an ol friend doesn't count UNLESS she doesn't even introduce you to him as her boyfriend, not just friend and she better touch you when she does it and not just like, oh yeah, this (pointing to you) is my boyfriend. (Unless she's mad at you, then she's just being mean)

-if a girl makes eye contact with a dude when hes not too close to her...but doesnt make eye contact when their in close proximity..does that mean the girls shy?..and if so...does she still like dude?

Yes and no. If you have pink-eye, we gonna stare, if you looking fly, we gonna stare. The best way to find out if she sly a little is if when she's staring at you, you wave a little and smile (lick your lips, rub your beard, whatever you do to show YOU'RE interested) if she shy, she gonna look away and maybe smile or blush a little. If she thinks you're weird, chances are she'll look at you as if you're retarded. Confirm her interests.

-biting your lip/cheek or making different movements with your mouth means your uncomfortable (i do this when im around hot girls so i need gum to occupy my mouth while i talk to her or else i start doing weird shit with my mouth and i come off as anxious) but when a girl does this does it mean the girl is anxious cuz shes around someone shes interested in? or is she anxious because the guy is hideous and shes getting uncomfortable

This is another yes and no question. Some girls exhibit alot of confidence so they may not play with their hair or twittle their fingers, but this doesn't mean she's not interested.

-obviously eye contact is a big thing..but theres different emotions eye contact can give off...obviously you can tell the difference between someone giving u a dirty look or someone giving u a flirtatious look...but if ur looking at a dude in his eyes and ur neither giving him a dirty look nor giving him a flirtatious look..what does it mean?..

If she's looking at you blankly, she maybe trying to figure out if she likes what she sees or maybe she's thinking of something and you just got in her visual range or maybe she's blind and not meaning to look at you.

-are you aware of the signs you give off? (i.e.-they say things like,if a girl twirls her hair,or mimicks your actions,or if her feet are pointed to you,or if her palms are open and facing you,it means shes attracted to you) is that kinda shit even true?..and if so..are you concious of your actions when your doing these sort of things? or do you not even realize your doing those things

Alot of us don't. I know I didn't for a long time, but I'mma psychology student now so I'm conscious of the signs I give off.

-do you girls try to give us a sign that you want to talk to us more?, example...sometimes girls come up to me and ask me regular questions like "where is room 303?" or "do you have the time?" etc....is that their way of trying to spark a convo or do they really need to know the room number,time,etc...or is it both?

Both. I ask ugly guys what time it is on campus all the time. haha

-when you see a guy (anywhere,club,school,mall,etc) that your interested in...what do you do to let him know your interested?

Biggest clue is easiest if she's in a group with her girlfriends. If she's looking at you, and then talks to her girls (while still looking at you or not) and then her girlfriend(s) looks back or at you too, and they don't laugh, she maybe interested. If they laugh, well... self-explanatory

Whew! What an essay I hope that helps

sOuThurN SoULJah
November 15th, 2006, 03:00 PM
Props for a good thread chronic, good stuff man

Nick_Fury
November 15th, 2006, 03:12 PM
props to sho-tee and chronic....

babii_gurl404
November 15th, 2006, 03:33 PM
-What are some signs you give to guys your interested in? (physical signs/body language)

idk just like that i listen alot more
and i smile alot around him
dont try to be too obvious tho

-when you see a guy in public you think you may be interested in..would you rather walk up to him or he walk up to you..and be honest..do you give off any signs that tell him its ok for him to approach you or do you automatically think hes gonna do it?

haha well i mean if i'm just playin around and i'm not really interested in you
i will walk up to you and stuff just to make your day
but if i'm really interested in a guy i prefer him to come to me

-i heard that girls often make the guys their interested in jealous by talking to/about other guys and/or flirting with other guys..is that true? (it doesnt make much sense to me if it is!)

i think thats dumb as hell..

-if a girl makes eye contact with a dude when hes not too close to her...but doesnt make eye contact when their in close proximity..does that mean the girls shy?..and if so...does she still like dude?

usually it does and usually she does still like him..
depends on the girl tho

-biting your lip/cheek or making different movements with your mouth means your uncomfortable (i do this when im around hot girls so i need gum to occupy my mouth while i talk to her or else i start doing weird shit with my mouth and i come off as anxious) but when a girl does this does it mean the girl is anxious cuz shes around someone shes interested in? or is she anxious because the guy is hideous and shes getting uncomfortable

uh idk usually if bite my lip or somethin i'm lookin for an excuse to get away from him

-obviously eye contact is a big thing..but theres different emotions eye contact can give off...obviously you can tell the difference between someone giving u a dirty look or someone giving u a flirtatious look...but if ur looking at a dude in his eyes and ur neither giving him a dirty look nor giving him a flirtatious look..what does it mean?..

uhh...i dont give "dirty" looks..
and idk about the "flirtatious" look
its just a look i dont have like "fuck me" faces..

-are you aware of the signs you give off? (i.e.-they say things like,if a girl twirls her hair,or mimicks your actions,or if her feet are pointed to you,or if her palms are open and facing you,it means shes attracted to you) is that kinda shit even true?..and if so..are you concious of your actions when your doing these sort of things? or do you not even realize your doing those things

i only twirl my hair around somebody that i've known for a while and i really like him, cuz honestly i think thats annoying..


-do you girls try to give us a sign that you want to talk to us more?, example...sometimes girls come up to me and ask me regular questions like "where is room 303?" or "do you have the time?" etc....is that their way of trying to spark a convo or do they really need to know the room number,time,etc...or is it both?

uh no lol

-when you see a guy (anywhere,club,school,mall,etc) that your interested in...what do you do to let him know your interested?

nothin really
i mean its just a you have to know thing..

PLAYBOY™
November 15th, 2006, 06:22 PM
bummmmp

RAY350
November 15th, 2006, 06:26 PM
PROPS

PLAYBOY™
November 15th, 2006, 08:22 PM
bump for real.....

hook
November 15th, 2006, 10:19 PM
well bein that you normally post 7-8 paragraphs per post in this section i'd say you and i got the same watch


Ohhh shit.

Mz_Nextel
November 15th, 2006, 10:36 PM
-What are some signs you give to guys your interested in? (physical signs/body language)

I'm a tuff chic, so it is very hard for me show interested
the only thing for me if I am interested I will callem
after the first date.

-when you see a guy in public you think you may be interested in..would you rather walk up to him or he walk up to you..and be honest..do you give off any signs that tell him its ok for him to approach you or do you automatically think hes gonna do it?

I'm not the type of person to go after someone, but if someone approach me I wouldn't turn them away...I'm a cool chick, and I think guys feel that
from me when they meet me

-i heard that girls often make the guys their interested in jealous by talking to/about other guys and/or flirting with other guys..is that true? (it doesnt make much sense to me if it is!)

I can only speak for myself, but I don't do that

-if a girl makes eye contact with a dude when hes not too close to her...but doesnt make eye contact when their in close proximity..does that mean the girls shy?..and if so...does she still like dude?

sometimes I look cus I think someone is attractive but that doesn't mean I want them or I am open for a convo

-biting your lip/cheek or making different movements with your mouth means your uncomfortable (i do this when im around hot girls so i need gum to occupy my mouth while i talk to her or else i start doing weird shit with my mouth and i come off as anxious) but when a girl does this does it mean the girl is anxious cuz shes around someone shes interested in? or is she anxious because the guy is hideous and shes getting uncomfortable

:shock: uh?

-obviously eye contact is a big thing..but theres different emotions eye contact can give off...obviously you can tell the difference between someone giving u a dirty look or someone giving u a flirtatious look...but if ur looking at a dude in his eyes and ur neither giving him a dirty look nor giving him a flirtatious look..what does it mean?..

he may thinks your cute or he wants to get to know you orrrrrr he wants to get to you know you to get some ass :laugh: seriously though

-are you aware of the signs you give off? (i.e.-they say things like,if a girl twirls her hair,or mimicks your actions,or if her feet are pointed to you,or if her palms are open and facing you,it means shes attracted to you) is that kinda shit even true?..and if so..are you conscious of your actions when your doing these sort of things? or do you not even realize your doing those things.

people know what they want, and they know how to get it, if mimicking someone and twirling there hairs gets it...then do what ya do


-do you girls try to give us a sign that you want to talk to us more?, example...sometimes girls come up to me and ask me regular questions like "where is room 303?" or "do you have the time?" etc....is that their way of trying to spark a convo or do they really need to know the room number,time,etc...or is it both?

sure, if I am approach in a mannerly way, and the convo is cool, if he feels the same then I don't mind giving out the digits, I have alot of room for friends:cheer:

-when you see a guy (anywhere,club,school,mall,etc) that your interested in...what do you do to let him know your interested?

I don't I just let my future walk away :smh:

HipHopHunnie
November 15th, 2006, 10:38 PM
hmm sho-tee has said it alll .. well most of the things i would do wen i like a guy :girly:

PLAYBOY™
November 15th, 2006, 10:40 PM
^^^@ Mz Nextel...i dont like some of those answers!!!

PLAYBOY™
November 15th, 2006, 10:50 PM
i still havent really learned anything from this thread yet

i need more answers/clearer answers

PUSHER B
November 15th, 2006, 11:29 PM
propz nice post

Cabres
November 16th, 2006, 12:42 AM
I know you want a female's perspective . . . but, dude, no chick is built the same. What I mean by that is, what one does to show affection, another would probably do to repel you. So, if you're trying to do this to gain advice on how to get signs for a female that isn't on here . . . you only have about a 60% chance that they act similar. Now, if this is a ploy to get a chick on here to confess that she likes you . . . you're a brilliant man.

Otherwise . . . you're wishing on a star.

PLAYBOY™
November 16th, 2006, 12:32 PM
bummmmp

sHo-Tee
November 16th, 2006, 01:14 PM
That LONG ass post I put up and you didn't learn shit? You retarded then. HAHA. Naw what didn't you understand? I was as clear as day foo

cp3boy
November 16th, 2006, 09:52 PM
Props to the females for their responses

PLAYBOY™
November 16th, 2006, 09:59 PM
That LONG ass post I put up and you didn't learn shit? You retarded then. HAHA. Naw what didn't you understand? I was as clear as day foo

lol naw i just mean...every girl is different, and you have to approach them accordingly

i was trying to get a general consensus to get a better understanding but literally every answer has been different so far

*FROSTY*
November 16th, 2006, 10:05 PM
That LONG ass post I put up and you didn't learn shit? You retarded then. HAHA. Naw what didn't you understand? I was as clear as day foo

yeah i like these:
Personally, I touch dude a little, but I don't know if this is for all girls. No grabbing, that's slutty, but if you're standing in line for a movie, a little hip bump or even an elbow to elbow rub while you're watching the movie shows she likes touching you. Chances are she's not going to touch a dude she doesn't care for. Locking arms, tickling, getting in your "personal bubble" brushing "dirt" off your shoulder, any kind of volunteer touching is a sign.

Another thing I do, but this too is not true for all girls is what I call the 'motherly flirting"...If you were eating something and you have something in the corner of your mouth and she wipes it off, if when you tell you a story about how you got trashed last night, she tells you you shouldn't drink because it hurts your body or if you're sick and she calls you up to bring you cough medicine or soup, she shows she cares.

:cheer: im thinking about going wit an older chick...

curry_stain
November 16th, 2006, 10:27 PM
chronic your'e a shotta props shor_tee fir that little school lesson

sHo-Tee
November 17th, 2006, 02:46 PM
Yeah you right, everyone's different, I tried to be as broad as possible. It really does depend on the typa chick you trying to attract.

sHo-Tee
November 17th, 2006, 02:47 PM
Thanks Frosty and Curry

bLoOd_mOneY
November 17th, 2006, 07:44 PM
None of these bitches on here know (why asked them)

They will only give you THEIR opinions of what they THEIR signs are.

every woman is different, only shit they have in common is that they're females.

sHo-Tee
November 18th, 2006, 04:13 PM
^^^^Uh DUH dumbass, we've established that already, get on your shit.

sHo-Tee
November 18th, 2006, 04:14 PM
I don't know Frosty, sometimes older chicks are crazier though. My girl 21 and she just slit all four tires in some dudes' Impala for fucking her and not returning her phone calls.

I think most of us (older women) are more set in our ways, we've been through our goods and bads and know what we looking for, so we may not be as wishy washy (wanting you one minute, hating you the next minute) but that's not true for every girl.

sHo-Tee
November 18th, 2006, 04:15 PM
It's really hard to say Chronic, it's actually easier to critique your game and who your trying to attract than every girl, it's too broad

Good luck though. I hope I helped at least a little

Dashottcalla
November 18th, 2006, 08:53 PM
nigga u kno there only like 3 1/2 females on this site

bLoOd_mOneY
November 18th, 2006, 09:02 PM
I don't know Frosty, sometimes older chicks are crazier though. My girl 21 and she just slit all four tires in some dudes' Impala for fucking her and not returning her phone calls.

I think most of us (older women) are more set in our ways, we've been through our goods and bads and know what we looking for, so we may not be as wishy washy (wanting you one minute, hating you the next minute) but that's not true for every girl.

:zzz: yeah right.

...:::Aries...:::
November 18th, 2006, 10:06 PM
-What are some signs you give to guys your interested in? (physical signs/body language)

I smile my ass off, I give him my attention

-when you see a guy in public you think you may be interested in..would you rather walk up to him or he walk up to you..and be honest..do you give off any signs that tell him its ok for him to approach you or do you automatically think hes gonna do it?

If im not around my friends i'll walk up to him, but MOST girls wont do this

-i heard that girls often make the guys their interested in jealous by talking to/about other guys and/or flirting with other guys..is that true? (it doesnt make much sense to me if it is!)

If the girl is in middle school or middle school minded yes and u dont want to get with her anyway

-if a girl makes eye contact with a dude when hes not too close to her...but doesnt make eye contact when their in close proximity..does that mean the girls shy?..and if so...does she still like dude?

Most girls dont look a guy they like in the eyes

-biting your lip/cheek or making different movements with your mouth means your uncomfortable (i do this when im around hot girls so i need gum to occupy my mouth while i talk to her or else i start doing weird shit with my mouth and i come off as anxious) but when a girl does this does it mean the girl is anxious cuz shes around someone shes interested in? or is she anxious because the guy is hideous and shes getting uncomfortable

I usually bite my lip if im turned on by the guy and I bite my cheek if i am uncomfortable

-obviously eye contact is a big thing..but theres different emotions eye contact can give off...obviously you can tell the difference between someone giving u a dirty look or someone giving u a flirtatious look...but if ur looking at a dude in his eyes and ur neither giving him a dirty look nor giving him a flirtatious look..what does it mean?..

HUH!! do u mean like the eyes low head cocked look, she may be trying to tell u to come talk to her

-are you aware of the signs you give off? (i.e.-they say things like,if a girl twirls her hair,or mimicks your actions,or if her feet are pointed to you,or if her palms are open and facing you,it means shes attracted to you) is that kinda shit even true?..and if so..are you concious of your actions when your doing these sort of things? or do you not even realize your doing those things

mimicking actions shows a girl is into you and trying to get you to want to be more then friends, she's showing you she's interested in the same things you are and that you guys would be good together. that other shit idk about.lol

-do you girls try to give us a sign that you want to talk to us more?, example...sometimes girls come up to me and ask me regular questions like "where is room 303?" or "do you have the time?" etc....is that their way of trying to spark a convo or do they really need to know the room number,time,etc...or is it both?

If she does that stuff consistently then yes but not if its a one time thing. Or if she asks for a room number offer to show her where it is and spark up a convo if after u leave her at the classroom she never talks to you again then she just wanted to know the room #

-when you see a guy (anywhere,club,school,mall,etc) that your interested in...what do you do to let him know your interested?

I talk about him to my friends and they may turn to look at him and thats when he has the Q to come and talk to me.

I dont know if this helps any but good luck understanding us females

PLAYBOY™
November 18th, 2006, 10:37 PM
^^^thank you for the clearest/least confusing answer so far

Matt_N17
November 19th, 2006, 12:14 AM
sHo-Tee, babii_gurl404, Mz_Nextel, HipHopHunnie & ...:::Aries...::: all got propped.

chronic they all diff... dunno what you lookin to get from this..

..not much of a playboy though hey?

PLAYBOY™
November 19th, 2006, 01:06 AM
sHo-Tee, babii_gurl404, Mz_Nextel, HipHopHunnie & ...:::Aries...::: all got propped.

chronic they all diff... dunno what you lookin to get from this..

..not much of a playboy though hey?

no i bag women i just dont understand them and im trying to get a better understanding of them so i can bag even more, instead of just going out with the ones that come to me first

No.Substitute.
November 19th, 2006, 01:55 AM
-What are some signs you give to guys your interested in? (physical signs/body language)

i dont have any specific "signs"... if im talkative around him, its obvious that i like him cuz i wont talk if im not feelin it

-when you see a guy in public you think you may be interested in..would you rather walk up to him or he walk up to you..and be honest..do you give off any signs that tell him its ok for him to approach you or do you automatically think hes gonna do it?

it can go both ways... most of the time i like when niggas walk up to me... usually theres some kind of sign that lets him kno he can approach

-i heard that girls often make the guys their interested in jealous by talking to/about other guys and/or flirting with other guys..is that true? (it doesnt make much sense to me if it is!)

it depends on who the girl is, if u are dealing with some female with emotional problems, of course shes gonna mention other niggas only because she wants u to get mad... thats basically proving that you like her enough... if u dont get mad then obviously u dont like the girl... i dont mention other niggas around another dude, its kinda disrespectful

-if a girl makes eye contact with a dude when hes not too close to her...but doesnt make eye contact when their in close proximity..does that mean the girls shy?..and if so...does she still like dude?

i dont kno... this depends on the person's personality... some girls like to play games so some of these "signs" can look like they mean something but its really not like that

-biting your lip/cheek or making different movements with your mouth means your uncomfortable (i do this when im around hot girls so i need gum to occupy my mouth while i talk to her or else i start doing weird shit with my mouth and i come off as anxious) but when a girl does this does it mean the girl is anxious cuz shes around someone shes interested in? or is she anxious because the guy is hideous and shes getting uncomfortable

lmao this means one or the other... like i said earlier, it depends on the girl... if im biting my lip, most likely i dont like u and i want u to get out my face

-obviously eye contact is a big thing..but theres different emotions eye contact can give off...obviously you can tell the difference between someone giving u a dirty look or someone giving u a flirtatious look...but if ur looking at a dude in his eyes and ur neither giving him a dirty look nor giving him a flirtatious look..what does it mean?..

it means nothing... shes probably lookin somewhere else lol

-are you aware of the signs you give off? (i.e.-they say things like,if a girl twirls her hair,or mimicks your actions,or if her feet are pointed to you,or if her palms are open and facing you,it means shes attracted to you) is that kinda shit even true?..and if so..are you concious of your actions when your doing these sort of things? or do you not even realize your doing those things

yes, im aware of what i do, most people kno the difference when approaching me...

-do you girls try to give us a sign that you want to talk to us more?, example...sometimes girls come up to me and ask me regular questions like "where is room 303?" or "do you have the time?" etc....is that their way of trying to spark a convo or do they really need to know the room number,time,etc...or is it both?

it depends on the way she approaches u but u shouldnt really look into it at first... now if the girl smilin at u and shit then maybe... but still she could jus be real friendly

-when you see a guy (anywhere,club,school,mall,etc) that your interested in...what do you do to let him know your interested?

i stare at niggas i like and if he stare back then i usually walk up to him and start talkin...


answer please!!! ;)

hope that helped

...:::Aries...:::
November 19th, 2006, 12:24 PM
I just wanted to add this. I was raised by my dad so I got to see many dumb ass broads come in and out of my household. SO im gonna tell you something my dad told me and that my husband says his dad told him...Females are stupid. i mean evryone is dumb guys are dumb in a different way then females. Females will tell you one thing and mean another but she wants you to get what she is trying to say. fuckin stupid. me being a female im glad i was raised by a guy but for some reason i sometimes let that stupid gene out. Girls I just want to tell you stop playin wit guys you aint never gonna get a man like that atleast not one that'll stay. Stop dressin like hoes if you dont want the guy to hit and run. you can wear cute clothes just dont wear it 2 sizes too small....STOP BEING STUPID ALL THE TIME

youngkt_06
November 19th, 2006, 07:03 PM
mad props on this thread

sHo-Tee
November 20th, 2006, 04:03 PM
I just wanted to add this. I was raised by my dad so I got to see many dumb ass broads come in and out of my household. SO im gonna tell you something my dad told me and that my husband says his dad told him...Females are stupid. i mean evryone is dumb guys are dumb in a different way then females. Females will tell you one thing and mean another but she wants you to get what she is trying to say. fuckin stupid. me being a female im glad i was raised by a guy but for some reason i sometimes let that stupid gene out. Girls I just want to tell you stop playin wit guys you aint never gonna get a man like that atleast not one that'll stay. Stop dressin like hoes if you dont want the guy to hit and run. you can wear cute clothes just dont wear it 2 sizes too small....STOP BEING STUPID ALL THE TIME

... how you gonna be anti-woman and be a woman? Naw I feel you on the "dressing like hoes" shit, I hate when stupid bitches cry about getting played when they got their titties all hanging out their shirt. You dress like trash, you gonna attract trash. You can't be sexy without exposing too much, leave some imagination to the mind

Luda167
November 20th, 2006, 04:30 PM
no i bag women i just dont understand them and im trying to get a better understanding of them so i can bag even more, instead of just going out with the ones that come to me first


hm so basically your just using women
in both respects of wanting to learn more about them
to bag more.

interesting yet quite selfish act.
but to each his own choice

PLAYBOY™
November 20th, 2006, 04:55 PM
hm so basically your just using women
in both respects of wanting to learn more about them
to bag more.

interesting yet quite selfish act.
but to each his own choice

naw man u got that wrong

or maybe my post was vague/unclear

look...

I never had to go out and get girls..they would always come to me

and I never had to look for signs cuz they would flat out hit on me and ask me out

but I was limiting myself to girls who approached me

I didn't chose them, they, chose ME

now I wanna reverse it so that I got what I want, not just what's made available to me

so I asked girls to provide me with signs they give to guys they're interested in

so I can get a general sense of whose into me or not..because if I read the wrong sign, or if a girl is leading me on..I would have wasted my time and I would look like a fool

so I approach women very carefully so not to fuck up and miss out on what I'm after

viciuzurban
November 20th, 2006, 04:57 PM
:zzz:

...:::Aries...:::
November 20th, 2006, 08:55 PM
... how you gonna be anti-woman and be a woman? Naw I feel you on the "dressing like hoes" shit, I hate when stupid bitches cry about getting played when they got their titties all hanging out their shirt. You dress like trash, you gonna attract trash. You can't be sexy without exposing too much, leave some imagination to the mind



I wouldnt say im Anti-woman but I've seen women do alot more stupid shit then guys do. I dont know any guys that play games like women do to try and get there way. I find shit like that stupid.Alot of women like to ruin peoples lives if there hurt. guys dont plan out manipulating shit. Some women are very smart but sometimes they let that part come out of them when it really gets down to them gettin what they want

viciuzurban
November 21st, 2006, 04:10 PM
wtf chronic *looks at cp*

PLAYBOY™
November 21st, 2006, 04:19 PM
bummmmp

Luda167
November 21st, 2006, 04:33 PM
naw man u got that wrong

or maybe my post was vague/unclear

look...

I never had to go out and get girls..they would always come to me

and I never had to look for signs cuz they would flat out hit on me and ask me out

but I was limiting myself to girls who approached me

I didn't chose them, they, chose ME

now I wanna reverse it so that I got what I want, not just what's made available to me

so I asked girls to provide me with signs they give to guys they're interested in

so I can get a general sense of whose into me or not..because if I read the wrong sign, or if a girl is leading me on..I would have wasted my time and I would look like a fool

so I approach women very carefully so not to fuck up and miss out on what I'm after

ic ic
well in that case i see where your headed.