Ladies phone talk or no

[KingRaw]

Alright I need to know what this gul is thinking cause i just cant get in my head like what shes thinking...beginning of the story is this. This gurl she struggled to get with me and i denied her for some time sort of and now were together (girlfriend). We talk but when we talk on the phone i hold up the conversation end and note:im not a phone person period, but she does not elaborate on her day pretty much its like: "well it was alright" and she ends with that and its like yes and no conversation so its real quick lot of silence. But I guess were ok cause when were in person everything is coo we talk laugh like crazy basically good conversation.
Is there a way to get conversation poppin on the phone or wassup?
Reason why I ask cause we got some distance seperating us like a 6 hour drive.

And another question sorry to make this so long but yo ladies tell me this
how she wants to get with me so, we get together then nothing not really intimate at all maybe a kiss or something(maybe i shouldnt be expecting so much we been together for about 3 months), she keeeps telling me she loves me but i got this feeling like shes just trying to keep me ccause im a catch and tell me all this stuff to keep me from breaking up with her. Ladies tell me whats sup. I know it a conjumbled mess of info but like i just can't figure this gurl out for the first time) infact while i was writing this message she told me i luv u real quick and signed off. Does she really care for me or whats good cause i can't tell if she playin me on some future kanye type stuff or what.(no im not rich but i have some dreams that are slowly coming to fluition.)
Note if you need me to clarify something in here let me know.
Thank you for your time i will prop u for ur respones

[sHo-Tee]

Best advice I can give you on the phone thing is to ask her more about herself, for most people, girls and guys...in less they're psycho or something... like to talk about themselves, so start with that and build on it.

And when she tells you she loves you what do you say back? Because it sounds like she really likes you but she's nervous about sharing her feelings and if she's telling you she loves you and you're just like "that's cool, that's cool" she could be feeling rejected. But I don't know, that's how I'd take it just based on that info.

[RiKaNhEaT]

Best advice I can give you on the phone thing is to ask her more about herself, for most people, girls and guys...in less they're psycho or something... like to talk about themselves, so start with that and build on it.

And when she tells you she loves you what do you say back? Because it sounds like she really likes you but she's nervous about sharing her feelings and if she's telling you she loves you and you're just like "that's cool, that's cool" she could be feeling rejected. But I don't know, that's how I'd take it just based on that info.

^^^^..

[KingRaw]

well yo at first i didnt tell her i love her back now i do shes sort of the quiet type as far as shes let on tho i've heard other things..(from some jeaslous gurls so i dont think i can really count that) like i ask her and its like she doesnt want to talk to me sort of but soon as were in person its like bleeeeemmmmmm *_* flow for hours preciate the advice very much

[flip07]

An important question is how often do u meet each other during the week?depending on that answer, i can add my 2cents to this piece

[sHo-Tee]

Anytimeee...

[KingRaw]

we see each other at most like once or twice a month

[T.J.]

Yo, when you guys are on the phone ask her a question that she can't give a short answer to like a "yes" or a "no" or in your case "well it was alright" and if she does give you a short answer ask her the same question but in a different way, so she could get the hint that you wanna know more.

[silverdragon202000]

dont believe that stuff when a girl says I love you it dont mean crap

[KingRaw]

yo dragon word im so wit u on that she use the term to loosely

[flip07]

we see each other at most like once or twice a monthaite man heres my 2 cents

OK since yall meet each other just about once or twice then there must be some sorta effective communication to make up for the times yall aint hooking up...Open ended questions are a sure way of getting her to talk,instead of asking her how her day was,put a little twist on it...if that dont work either then msn is the best way to go,having an online conversation could never be boring

[KarmelFlamez]

maybe just let things play and wait for her to call you first if u callin her up like everyday?...cuz i know 98% of the day i hate talkin on the phone unless im outside or its late at night and important