YouR MaN aND PoRNoS

[sHo-Tee]

I'm so sick and tired of catching my boy looking at pornos, online, dvds, magazines, whatever he can get his hands on. I told him I don't like it, and he apologizes but still does it. It's to the point where I'm about to break up with him if he don't stop. It's not like I'm an ugly chick, and I can turn a flip or two in the bedroom. Besides, I've asked him many times if there's something I can do to please him more and he claims he content. I'm stuck.

[EZYMoNeY_2005]

its just what us men do. lol you think your the first girl whos caught her boyfriend jacking off. its not like hes cheating on you. if he didnt find you sexually pleasing he wouldnt fuck you at all. for guys - the same pussy gets boring all the damn time.

[InYourDreams]

its just what us men do. lol you think your the first girl whos caught her boyfriend jacking off. its not like hes cheating on you. if he didnt find you sexually pleasing he wouldnt fuck you at all. for guys - the same pussy gets boring all the damn time.

u dont get it...its disrespectful

[3913LS]

u dont get it...its disrespectful
youre right i used to get caught all the time lookin at shit on the computer and i didnt understand why my girl got mad but and i still dont really but i see how much it hurts her so i dont do it... i mean i still beat it just not to porn.... i use vids we made n shit n that makes her feel better... she said it just makes her feel like she aint enough so... fuck it

[InYourDreams]

my b/f watches it, but we are separated for long periods of time, so I dont really mind. But when we are together, i'd definately have a problem with it.

[BeUnliMit3d]

well start fuckin him everyday


that will make him less horny

[JkR28]

well theres two things that migth be going on there
1- you are not pleasin him so he fantasies when watchin these movies
2- he is a perv

[bpac]

i know a lot of guys that instead of lookin at porn the jus fuck a diff girl evera time they feel like it

[bpac]

proped ya

[sHo-Tee]

Man..I agree with InYourDreams. I mean I've been with dude for a long time, we live together, he ain't fucking hoes no more, I ain't fucking other dudes no more, we practically married. And I give it to him like this... Would you not be mad if I was looking at some half-naked nigga performing my sexual fantasies on some chick? Of course he says no but damn if I were to do it and it's wrong, why is it okay for him to? And as far as ma pussy being "sickening" I know damn sure it isn't or else I wouldn't I pulled this pimp out of the game you feel me? And I can't fuck him all the time, I got a life and so does he...haha, nice suggestion though. I just gonna keep torchin his collections. Making our own video could be nice, but I ain't trying to have that streamed in case we get on bad terms. I'mma just tell his mom

[sHo-Tee]

so bpac you saying it's better that he looks at these pornos because the other option could be him cheating on me?

[THC]

it's not like he is fucking the person he is watching

and for all you no he could be taking notes for later, so wat is the problem ?

[THC]

i know a lot of guys that instead of lookin at porn the jus fuck a diff girl evera time they feel like it

word, @ least he is being faithful :laugh:

[THC]

so bpac you saying it's better that he looks at these pornos because the other option could be him cheating on me?

its not like it is going to be one or the other:
either he fucks hoes or watches porn, he obviously has other options

ever try watching porn together ? :laugh:

[Cleofis336]

for guys - the same pussy gets boring all the damn time.

speak for yourself...

you're never gonna get married and be faithful....are ya? :smh:

[sHo-Tee]

Yeah, I've tried watching it with him before but it's disguisting to me to see women is twisted positions and getting nutted on their faces and it's just gross and to me. So guys, you telling me you wouldn't trip if your girl was watching...I don't know Ne-Yo get nake and fuck someone for our viewing pleasure? BULL. If you and your girl that cool guys would trip too, but when we do it's no big deal. I'mma crush that nigga's man-law real quick

[THC]

Man..I agree with InYourDreams. I mean I've been with dude for a long time, we live together, he ain't fucking hoes no more, I ain't fucking other dudes no more, we practically married. And I give it to him like this... Would you not be mad if I was looking at some half-naked nigga performing my sexual fantasies on some chick? Of course he says no but damn if I were to do it and it's wrong, why is it okay for him to? And as far as ma pussy being "sickening" I know damn sure it isn't or else I wouldn't I pulled this pimp out of the game you feel me? And I can't fuck him all the time, I got a life and so does he...haha, nice suggestion though. I just gonna keep torchin his collections. Making our own video could be nice, but I ain't trying to have that streamed in case we get on bad terms. I'mma just tell his mom

:zzz: ofcourse you agree with the only female comment lol im sorry but this entire post quoted above made me suddenly stop caring, goodluck :smh:

[sHo-Tee]

it is possible to be married and faithful. if you couldn't why get married?

[THC]

Yeah, I've tried watching it with him before but it's disguisting to me to see women is twisted positions and getting nutted on their faces and it's just gross and to me. So guys, you telling me you wouldn't trip if your girl was watching...I don't know Ne-Yo get nake and fuck someone for our viewing pleasure? BULL. If you and your girl that cool guys would trip too, but when we do it's no big deal. I'mma crush that nigga's man-law real quick

women watch porn just like men do, this is a common thing :wave:

[Cleofis336]

I'mma just tell his mom

SNITCH. :smh:

[sHo-Tee]

fuck you THC-CHAMP I don't remember asking for your professional advice anyways...hoe ass nigga hahaha

[THC]

it is possible to be married and faithful. if you couldn't why get married?

for the wedding presents, obviously :smh:

[Cleofis336]

it is possible to be married and faithful. if you couldn't why get married?

yea I know it is...I was referring to the other guy that was making the comments about one girl getting boring over a period of time...thus saying that he shouldnt want to get married if he gets bored with one girl easily...:smh:

[THC]

fuck you THC-CHAMP I don't remember asking for your professional advice anyways...hoe ass nigga hahaha

ok so go talk to the only other one that this concerns, your pervert of a boyfriend lol edit im sorry iduno if he is a pervert that is wrong of me to judge

[Cleofis336]

fuck you THC-CHAMP I don't remember asking for your professional advice anyways...hoe ass nigga hahaha

I wouldnt do that :shock:

Kiss your ass goodbye...:eek:

[sHo-Tee]

I must be old-school then because I was never taught that that was okay. Yes I tend to my baby's every need to the best of my ability, but I don't need a pro showing me how to get my man off. You guys still didn't answer my question

[Cleofis336]

ok so go talk to the only other one that this concerns, your pervert of a boyfriend

:laugh:

[Cleofis336]

You guys still didn't answer my question

Two choices....

Deal with it or Dont...:confused:

simple as that.

[jdoggfoelife]

my wifey watches it with me, you ladies need to get with the program or niggas gonna leave u, nuthin wrong with watchin porn try watchin it together and then try some new shit. ya'll gota open u ur minds and stop being so boring, adventure is what does it for us. i'm just glad found someone who enjoys it as much as i do

[misz_iverson]

i'll watch porn wit my nigga..lol aint nothin wrong w/ dat. yall trippin.

[xyle]

if my man was doing it i dont think id mind. its pretty healthy was hes doing. and plus id prefer for him to be watching porn or in a mag than screwing some other chica. BUT were id draw the line is if he was watching porn/mag and coming to ME. HELL NO! im not gonna turn off his switch when hes lit up by some other girls. now if we watch it or check out a mag together and get idea or w/e then hey let it be. so i guess im PRO choice on guys with porn

[flip07]

men and porn go together like bread and butter...its just how we are,its part of our nature. Just like we can never figure out what a woman really wants,its the same when porn is the topic of discussion...if ur getting too worried,go buy your nigga a chastity belt and lock him up:smh:

[reydon]

as long as your man aint more interested in porn then you....you're ok. Me and my girl have checked porn together before...she's open to it sometimes and I don't obsess about it. Just make sure he aint obsessing over it like crazy...then he might be a perv....j/k lol

[InYourDreams]

lol...i read this and I had to laugh

smh at u guys justifying..There's a time and place for everything..Guys get obsessed with watching porn.. If his watching it obsessively is causing problems in their relationship, then it IS a problem.

Just dont take it personal, cuz I'm sure his porn watching has nothing to do with the fact he doesnt get enough from you. And dont tell his mom..thats just gonna piss him off.

I really dont think you guys would like it tho if we sat in a dark room 24/7 with a bottle of baby oil either tho..

[vexvegaz]

I'mma just tell his mom


when in doubt....snitch :shock:

[vexvegaz]

my b/f watches it, but we are separated for long periods of time, so I dont really mind....


wtf??? i dont watch porn..i jus read it for the articles

[InYourDreams]

wtf??? i dont watch porn..i jus read it for the articles
ROFL!!!

I didnt kno they tattoo the news on their titties now...


i was gonna say somthing else, but I'm really trying to clean up my mouth

[Landotheman]

its jus wat guys do!

[sHo-Tee]

Yeah you guys right, I shouldn't worry aout it too much I just hate when I tell him don't do it and he's like alright I won't and he won't for a while and then he'll do it again. I want to be able to nip little white lines in the bud you know? If you doing it just don't lie to me, tell me you're not then I catch you doing it later. I trip over that more then the act itself

[soulrelic]

I tell you what... after this discussion I'm headed to the dimes section..

[sHo-Tee]

Thanks for the advice fam!!!

[ProNouN]

well start fuckin him everyday


that will make him less horny

lol.....

[yinyang]

stop tripping u cant stop it lol.
unless you girls are willing to do what those girls do in the videos (which i doubt) then forget it.
guys have a much higher sex drive then yall. we can go anytime, thats why the porn comes in. if we just wanna bust a nut randomly for no reason will you do it for us?
lol
the only way to keep ure man out of porn is to replace it with yourself at his disposal. its not hard if you ask me but you girls with youre pride and all...so good luck:wave:

[sHo-Tee]

If girls let guys fuck everytime the guy wanted to, life on earth would be overpopulated worse then it is now.

[yinyang]

^exactly. more teen pregnancy, babies, stds and disrepectul guys. so bottom line...porn wins lol

[sHo-Tee]

nooooo lol I think pornos are bad because it gives guys the wrong idea of how women should be treated in the bedroom. We're not objects

[sHo-Tee]

stop tripping u cant stop it lol.
unless you girls are willing to do what those girls do in the videos (which i doubt) then forget it.
guys have a much higher sex drive then yall. we can go anytime, thats why the porn comes in. if we just wanna bust a nut randomly for no reason will you do it for us?
lol
the only way to keep ure man out of porn is to replace it with yourself at his disposal. its not hard if you ask me but you girls with youre pride and all...so good luck:wave:

I guess it is a girl pride thang

[InYourDreams]

Damn straight its a pride thing!!!!

If dude knows it hurts his girl, why wouldnt he slow that shit down? You guys are freeking in love with ur dicks. sit there in front of a monitor and hold on you dick is pretty pathetic..smh

[xyle]

sometimes acting up the video shit isnt that bad but you gotta know your limits and let him know what they are. stopping a guy from watching porn is like stopping guys and girls from checking out people of the opposite sex...its inevitable

[sHo-Tee]

But possible...I popped him in the head everytime he did it, so now he don't do it front of me no more hahaha

[sHo-Tee]

I wouldn't check out a dude in front of him anyways. I'm content with what I got. Why window shop when you got the biggest diamond in the jewelry store anyways?

[sHo-Tee]

xyle you check out dudes in front of yo man?

[sicc480]

every straight male with internet access looks at porn.....

[sicc480]

If dude knows it hurts his girl, why wouldnt he slow that shit down?

because females do shit that men dont like too...we just dont bitch about it and get all <3:crys::girly: sensitive

[sHo-Tee]

Yeah but watching pornos different. Guys tells us not to do stupid stuff anyways, like talking back, nigga please

[InYourDreams]

LOL... syke!!..

.like i said before, i dont care that my man watches, he keeps it low key. But when we together I'm all over him, so it dont give him much time for anything but me...lol

[sHo-Tee]

I'll never like my dude watching it, I think it's gross and it objectifies women

[sHo-Tee]

I don't care if he watches in it front of me or not.

[yinyang]

ok well your man sounds like he watches a bit too much lol

[sHo-Tee]

no, it's no daily basis thing, but regardless, it's still gross, even in moderations

[xyle]

xyle you check out dudes in front of yo man?

ooohh nooo that came out kinda wrong. i dont check out guys in front of him nor does he check out gals in front of me. but sometimes when you get with the girls you kinda do it but i always go back to what i got at home. no biggie

[sHo-Tee]

Whhhaaa cheater!!! Haha, wow, am I that sheltered? I don't even do that in front of the girls no more and I just now realized that. I'm so sprung it's ridiculous. I mean if they're like so and so is fine, I'd be like yeah he alright but nothing more then that

[InYourDreams]

If girls let guys fuck everytime the guy wanted to, life on earth would be overpopulated worse then it is now.

I have to disagree with this...

If girls took some responsibility in birth control we wouldnt have such a birthrate problem

[sHo-Tee]

Naw if niggas wore the right size condoms and stop pretending they the "gold package" instead of the right size, birthrates would be lower

[.SkEEt.]

its just what us men do. lol you think your the first girl whos caught her boyfriend jacking off. its not like hes cheating on you. if he didnt find you sexually pleasing he wouldnt fuck you at all. for guys - the same pussy gets boring all the damn time.You the kind of person that makes all of us men look bad.

[vexvegaz]

Naw if niggas wore the right size condoms and stop pretending they the "gold package" instead of the right size, birthrates would be lower

lol u speak as if u suffered from this experience first hand

[sHo-Tee]

Not my nigga now, he busting through condoms, but my ex tried that bull, thus, the reason we ain't together no more

[Jumpman 23]

my girlfriend watches porn, lol.. she don't care if i watch it..

[jdoggfoelife]

lol...i read this and I had to laugh

smh at u guys justifying..There's a time and place for everything..Guys get obsessed with watching porn.. If his watching it obsessively is causing problems in their relationship, then it IS a problem.

Just dont take it personal, cuz I'm sure his porn watching has nothing to do with the fact he doesnt get enough from you. And dont tell his mom..thats just gonna piss him off.

I really dont think you guys would like it tho if we sat in a dark room 24/7 with a bottle of baby oil either tho..

I won't mind that at all, as long as I'm hittin that afterwards :cheer: I watch my girl do it and she watches me then we fuck each other til we worn :smoking: :smoking:

[sHo-Tee]

perv haha

[thickncherrys]

my opinion bout men watching porn, hell itz kool wit me, take plenty of notes!!! we'll watch together, and thats what enhances the moment...seeing others have sex

[sHo-Tee]

See and I can't see how even girls get off into that. I mean I have a sex drive I just don't think I should watch a tape to enhance it. Am I weird?

[beautiful_dyme]

no offense,but how old r you? i see it like this.if you guys have a really and when i say REALLY strong realtionship and not that fake " i luv u" shit then when he looks at these videos and magazines it wouldn't be making u mad, bucz he could be cheating and sleeping around.pluz, if he looks at other women walking down the street would u yell and complain then? it sounds like you want him to only AND only look at u,watch u,etc.i'm not saying be free with it.but realtionships r more closer to being free than being in control.enjor yourself in the boundaries of you realtionship and why don't you look at other men ( maybe women) whatever..if he gets jealous/pissed then that's when you call him out on his immauritity about things (especially since he'll do all that,and won't let u) TRIPPIN!

[sHo-Tee]

I'm 20, but it's like this, at the start of our relationship, it was kinda of rocking. I got into conflict with his ex on multiple occasions, there was alot of lying on both parts, and there were alot of double standards. But then I guess he realized I wasn't going to hurt him and I started really cutting for him and vice versa so we got real deep. But everytime we find over porno issh it's like damn, did I not fight enough in the beginning. I use to make little side comments when he looks at a female and I give a female a dirty look if he was looking out him but then I was like hold up, all he doing is just LOOKING. We spend too much time together for him to run off and cheat and for the females, I ain't one to brag but my nigga's quite a looker and they just wishing they can have what I got. But we deep, like borderline married typa relationship. He my best friend and I love everything about him...except that. I guess you right, it's a control thing for me but at the same time I guess I tie in what happened in the past to find a flaw in a basically flawless man.

Because now I'm starting to think I'm just old-school. I'mma classy female and I'm not openly sexual to the point where I'd be confortable watching a porno or having phone sex or discussing ways I could please myself with him. Am I in the wrong state of mind to think that? Because alot of other females don't have a problem watching the junk

[InspectahDeck718]

damn, its not like he fuckin da chick in da porno...he's just tryin 2 get off like any other normal dude, that's how it is & that's not gonna change...

[sneaksntits]

hes mad horny and i guess ya dont have sex enough so thats what he does i dont think u should get upset about it..unless he likes porn more than having u

[Lord_of_da_Gunz]

just relax and watch porns as well :) lol

[StonesRunIt]

on the real Sho-Tee i feel ur being unreasonable.....

1) You've said he does it in moderation

2) You've said he tries for a period of time to not do it

3) You've said he's faithful

i mean damn dudes are gonna watch porn, and it has nothing to do with disrespecting women just like every tv show that has a married couple and the woman is the smart and witty one and the husband is the loveable oaf are ment to disrespect men, ITS JUST ENTERTAINMENT(albiet, two different forms).....

if this man is as good as u say he is, i dont understand how u could allow something that is so minor that has taken place harmlessly before u were born and will continue after you die ruin your relationship.

[sHo-Tee]

...You right, I guess I just like having my way and if I were to change this in him, it's changing him...even if it would make me happier (just for the sake of winning). I'm still going to throw it away if it's just laying around, but if not, I'll let it go.

[beautiful_dyme]

the problem is,in realtionships people work on the realtionship,not themselves.if you're a conservative person i can't tell you to watch porn because this nigga wants you 2.but as you explain it has alot to do with past experiences and insercuties.i'm sure your a beautiful woman,and one thing you could do is try is think over what you could do better,because when you reach your moral "prefection" all of his flaws will show.then YOU'LL decide if those flaws are worth being patient for.