lil help ere..

[qazqaz]

aite, well heres whats going on, a close freind of mine getting a bit depressed (lets name her sarah for sum reason) cuz her best mate (since like 3 years old they 17 now), called monica, spendin all her time with her man... im close with sarah n monica righttt but sarah been tellin me she feelin depressed cuz she aint spendin as much time with monica as she used to... she wont tell monica wats going on cuz sarah doesnt wanna get in the way of monicas relationship with her man, cuz monica wants to spend as much time with her man as possible.. i hate to see ne girls feelin down n try ma best to sort it, but this been goin on for a while now, wat shud i do to help



for u 1 liner sum-up type of people:
should boyfriends n girlfriends spend time with their mates and each other evenly
OR
as much time with each otha as possible??

[sizzle305]

mate mates mates mates :zzz: retype that shit... :laugh:

[PLAYBOY™]

ok hes saying two girls who have been best friends for a while, are at a conflict because one of the girls has a man, and she spends 24/7 with him like most couples who dont realize theres more to life than each other

so now the single girl feels alone cuz her friend spends all her free time with her man

he wants to know if couples should try to even out their time, and balance it so that both their significant other,and their friends are happy

or if you should ditch your friends and spend all your time with your bf or gf

i say even out the time, because you dont wanna lose your friends...

friendships last a lot longer than relationships

[sizzle305]

i wouldnt say to give em 50/50 because your bf/gf deserves more time (in my opinion) but i wouldnt ditch my friends either you know, give them there share of time to chill iguess

[PLAYBOY™]

like i had a friend who did that, my best friend

in his defense tho, we were young, like 15,16

but he was dating this girl and thats the only person he would see

it was his first serious relationship so i guess he didnt know how to handle it

he almost lost me (no homo) in that process cuz it was getting ridiculous and i thought it was fucked up what was goin on

and like 2,3 weeks later they broke up...so he almost lost a life-long friend over some chick he only saw for like a month and a half ;)

now hes in a relationship with a different girl, hes 19..and so now he knows what to do..he makes time for all his friends and time for his gf and everyone is cool

[W1ld Bill]

Moderation is the key to success in practically all aspects of life

Can't have too much of one thing and too little of another

Gotta spread things out

[InYourDreams]

I spend my time with my man. But thats just me.

All the chicks I know are married so naturally they spend time with their families too.

When i was younger, i used to hang out with friends, but still spent the majority of my time with my b/f

[JkR28]

theres an old american sayin that goes -''bros b4 hoes'' i think that u should never forget who ur friends are no matter how good that pussy is......

[InYourDreams]

theres an old american sayin that goes -''bros b4 hoes'' i think that u should never forget who ur friends are no matter how good that pussy is......

lol..sistas before assholes

[24/7_PIMP]

girlfriends come and go, friends are for life (no homo)

[lyrikalassasin]

mmmm......u gotta spend time with both....if somethin goes wrong with ur gurl//boy...then u can fall back on ur friend and talk 2 them about it

do the 50/50 so every1 will b happy