Should i have made a move or i handled the situation like a gentleman?

[flip07]

Aite so i was on the bus getting home from work and i seen this girl reading up while i boarded the bus. So i was kinda checking her out but she didnt notice that :tongue: i have a third eye, well dont we all niggas do?lol..

anyway we both got off the same spot and she asked if i knew of any payphones around and i told her there wasnt any around but there was one near the mall a few 15min walk. I offered her my cellphone initially but she said she couldnt cuz she placing the call to her dad who was gonna come pick her up. So i walked her to the mall and on our way , i was chatting with her and shit...

now this girl is a pure dime,pretty face big tits,toned body, shes just fit, id rate her a 10..so we chatting and shit, im asking her where she from and shit, asked her her name but surprisingly i didnt ask for her number :shock: cuz shes in a different area than i was and i felt as though id be coming onto too strong,naamean?...

my question is u think i acted as a gentleman would by not trying to chop her or i slacked off for not asking 4 her number?..

[chiacomshort]

I think it was very gentlemanly...cuda given her ur number but then she'd prolly think another one i ask something to just cause i need help and thinks i like him...but then again she prolly did like u...either way she wuda given u her number herself unless she was shy or her dad was strict....at the end if it was ment for u guys to hook up, she'll see u again...afterall, she knows ur bus stop ;)

[natethejewpimp]

Naw you played in straight homey. Sometimes you gotta let that shit go, cause if get rejected too much, you will either be afraid to approach the dime that really is the one to get at, or you will become some broke-down woman hater.

You did good son. Play it cool.

Believe it or not, I have only asked a girl for her number a couple of times. Before you know, you will have them bitches puttin the number in your phone and coming home with you, you wont even have to ask for numbers...

[Jowy]

you did good by doing that..she now nows your bus stop..she might come back!

[Just]

Ahhhhh... Those were the days...

Kudos kid you did very well grasshoppa...

[JoKeR777]

wow youngin u have lots to learn still lil one....u even questionin ur self should i have asked says ur a new to da game .......YES.............you should of macked at that hoe i mean u did n got conversation n all n did ask for da number i wouldnt b surprized if tha hoe was hopin you were askin..... ur so fuckin stupid it was a sign from god when she got of da same stop u dumb fuck .......................omfg .......ALWAYS GET THA NUMBER NO MATTER THE CIRCUMSTANCES .......the execptions are if they are toursists from other countries ...

[Luda167]

you handled the situation well fam.

[flip07]

lol very interesting responses...propped all yall,thanks

[InYourDreams]

borrow a tent, go back to that bus stop and wait for her to come back

[NoXiDe]

you played it stright dawg only problem is you may never see this girl again, and if you did give her your number, if she was feeling you she would of rang you, or if you got her number you could of rang her....

best thing you can do now it hope you bump into this chick again

[InYourDreams]

there is no right or wrong answer to this.

lets face it, we dont give our number to everyone we meet on the street or behind a counter .....or do you?

[Bling_gangsta076]

[QUOTE=flip07]so we chatting and shit, im asking her where she from and shit, asked her her name but surprisingly i didnt ask for her number :shock: cuz shes in a different area than i was and i felt as though id be coming onto too strong,naamean?...[QUOTE]

You suck!!!! :laugh:

[BigUp101]

if you see her again it might be too late to get the number. but dont think about that shit anymore. you missed that opportunity now hope you get another one. nothing is wrong with asking a chick for her number if you want to be her friend. you were probably worrying about how fine she was and shit and looking at the future between you two and jumping the gun way too quick. take it slow with these hoes. relax be yourself and make a friend. nothing is better that having a fine ass dime as your good friend. who knows what can happen between friendship relationships like that.

[natee]

the girl aint just gonna fall into your lap...

like fair enough u were a gentlemen but u should have grasped the opportunity while it was in front of u... didnt have to be a sleeze bout it -.- now ur just sitting around thinking what if

[bucbuc99]

you played it stright dawg only problem is you may never see this girl again, and if you did give her your number, if she was feeling you she would of rang you, or if you got her number you could of rang her....

best thing you can do now it hope you bump into this chick again



my exact thoughts

[Renaissance]

the girl aint just gonna fall into your lap...

like fair enough u were a gentlemen but u should have grasped the opportunity while it was in front of u... didnt have to be a sleeze bout it -.- now ur just sitting around thinking what if
Agree 100%. Now, move on and use it as a learning experience. If you do see her again, you know what to do. Just learn from it and if u feelin a girl next time, and the vibe feels right, don't hesitate.

[snownsurfchic]

yeah, you handled that well, now you just gotta hope you run into her again, if its meant to be, it will be, good luc :)

[bigbody_lac]

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[emceepee]

I think you handled that well. Hope you do bump into her again. And do still play the gentleman. All good things comes to those that wait...

[GaMBiT]

handled it professionally ...but in retrospect, you shoulda at least attemtped the number ...you know ....but nonetheless ..you played it smooth homie ...props ..

[Darker*]

Looks like u missed out on some 10/10 pussy

[flip07]

lol@ whoever bumped this, thought it died...

[dead presidents]

man.. hell yea u shoulda asked for her number..

[kayy0ungn]

Well IN MY OPINON kinda seems like YOU put yourself in a losing situation. i mean from your conversation yall had you pretty much played the friend card and theres ABSOLUTELY nun wrong with that. but at the same time you as a guy should know how hard it is to break out of the category. and your second mistake is you didnt just ask for the number. i mean in a respectual way not like "ay shawty lemme hol them digits". But now this chicks probably thinks highly of you because instead of doing the obivous you took the other path. but none the less good job, and keep ya head up more fish in the sea:cool: