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Eazy Da Snowman
July 29th, 2006, 11:52 PM
ight this is da situation... my boy kinda been talkin 2 my girl but not on some o.d status, just as friends cuz he was tryna get wit her friend but it aint work out, now they friends and i aint comfortable wit it cuz of da fact dat im a jealous guy and i dont trust niggas... u cant trust niggas nowadays, nah mean... but u kno, i aint feelin dat they be talkin on da phone, and da fact is dat, da nigga neva tell me, yo i was talkin 2 ya girl or somethin u kno.. at least she tell me and shit, nah mean... i trust her alot, i love her... but im not startin 2 trust dude cuz of da fact dat i just dont trust niggas, not even my own boys, when it come 2 girls.... now should i worry about this or just trust dat nothin will happen...

keep negative shit outta this thread:tongue:

viciuzurban
July 30th, 2006, 12:12 AM
YA BOI SHOULD KNOW...IF HE REALLY IS YOUR FRIEND HE WONT TRY TO FUCK UP SHIT WITH YOU N YOUR GIRL

Eazy Da Snowman
July 30th, 2006, 12:26 AM
^^^ yea dats how im feelin.. but its like when i tell her, she just think i dont trust her and shit and dat gets me tight... but i just stand back and watch and see wha da nigga gonna continue doin, nah mean... one more thing and imma wild out on duke...

mahmi
July 30th, 2006, 11:41 AM
I would keep an eye out for the simple fact he doesnt mention that he talked to her to you. Dont be jealous now, nothin worse than insecurities in a man. Observe the scene thoroughly unbias. Then make your decision.

sizzle305
July 30th, 2006, 01:08 PM
you aint gotta trust him... trust your girl and if anything happens you kill em both

badboy
July 30th, 2006, 02:34 PM
i would beat the fuck outta him

playaplaya915
July 30th, 2006, 02:54 PM
just gotta tell ya boy straight up. Tell him you aint feelin how hes talkin to ya girl and you want him to stop. If that dont work, hire a hitman.........

flip07
July 30th, 2006, 03:42 PM
got no respect for cockblockers like ur friend...warn the mothafucka to chill

REALTALK87
July 30th, 2006, 03:52 PM
security is maturity

Chuck-Taylor
July 30th, 2006, 04:56 PM
fuck im not readin wat everybody else readin cause i been in the situation my damn self. kill it ASAP. or look like a dummy later. was it styles p i believe who said "If the world spin in a circle I wanted men to move backwards/Kill niggas the first minute they jerk you." Kill is a bit drastic but like i said end it now. and it doesnt mean relationship w/ girl. set ur boy straight and make sure he kno he crossed the line.

Luda167
July 30th, 2006, 05:03 PM
you aint gotta trust him... trust your girl and if anything happens you kill em both^ same thing i say....

W1ld Bill
July 30th, 2006, 05:42 PM
seems kinda shady on ya boys part

only way i would be cool with them talkin is if he knew her before i did. But if you two are goin out and then he wanna act like he wanna be all buddy buddy with her seems kinda supsect. Especially since he don't tell you he talk to her and shit. Probably mean he might be tryin to violate behind ya back. Not to mention he might know things about her and/or the relationship that you don't even know. That aspect right there would make the situation unbearable for me more then anything else cuz i can't stand people know more about my own business then i do. Plus anytime she think you might be trippin or whatever its likely she'll run to him and confide in him which depending on how he plays the situation may not be good

i dunno. I would say tell both of them to chill but then they might get presented with that forbidden fruit complex where you trying to pull them apart only drives them closer together

I guess all i can say is keep doin what you doin and in due time the situation will reveal everyone's true colors to see if your girl is really committed to you and if your boy is really your boy and got ya back

OutKasted_One
July 30th, 2006, 05:53 PM
yeah like ol girl said the fact that he doesn't tell you that he talked to her is kinda shady... Granted if it don't come up in conversation then i can see why he maybe didn't say anything...

But you need to get your girl to tell you when she talks to him in a non jealous way and then bring that up in such a way with your "boy" to see if he'll man up... If not that increases doubt in his loyalty...

Bein a dude you know when you start gettin friendly with a girl you might start catchin feelings so you might need to dead that "friends" thing til your guy gets a woman...

This has the potential to be a phucked up situation... cuz if you and your friend kill that friendship what's to keep him from still bein friends with your girl, you know? AND THEN it's even harder for you to keep watch of what he's on...

Keep your friends close and your enemies closer... He's a friend who might become an enemy.... Just hope/know that your girl aint shady like that too and that she'd tell you if he tried to push up on her...

FINALLY if you step your game up in all respects like when ya'll first hung out she won't get all confused when your friend starts doin nice stuff like that. Show her how much you care and make her care about you so much that he's just some dude...

*That's my 2 cents and thensome*

Eazy Da Snowman
July 30th, 2006, 09:19 PM
ayoo good lookin... all ya gave me some responses... imma stand and keep my out in front and back of my head.. nah mean.... good lookin 4 all da advice... propped everybody i could...

XX_red_spyda_XX
July 30th, 2006, 10:13 PM
ask ya girl wat they talk about.....id say confront him about talkin on the phone at least once on some friendly shit.........an see wat he says, see how he reacts....but like they say.....for the most part stand bac an play the bench for a sec......an u might just come to find out there are two shady people in ya life....or maybe not....time will tell.....HOLLA

nyknicks84
July 30th, 2006, 10:28 PM
you aint gotta trust him... trust your girl and if anything happens you kill em both

LOL. this nigga crazy

JoKeR777
July 30th, 2006, 10:30 PM
if ur girl n you are serious than no but if ur instincts tell u that you should then fuck that niga up n smack ur hoe ........

sHo-Tee
July 31st, 2006, 08:03 AM
Being that I'm a female, I would say that insecurity in any man is a big turn off but at the same time, if you just have that gut feeling that something isn't right, go with your gut and tell 'ol boy. If he yo nigga like that, he will back off, probably not even realizing what he was doing but if he hears you and doesn't change his actions, then he trying to get over on you and you'll have to whoop his ass to show him he ain't taking nothing from you and the next time you tell him something, he better respect yo word.

glameriiz
July 31st, 2006, 08:44 AM
I w0uldnt trust his ass either
u cant trust nob0dy these days

ItsWatevaKid
July 31st, 2006, 08:47 AM
NAH MAN SHUT THAT SHIT DOWN ANY OLD PERSON WILL TELL YOU...YOU DON'T LEAVE YA FRIEND N YA GIRL OR MAN ALONE THAT'S NOT GOOD

ANd I say this cause my ex friend use to call me...and guess what...we started fucking with eachother and I told her we was now there not friends

And in 6th grade my by owen had a girl and I use to talk to her on the phone and guess what...she started likin me...

And just 2 weeks ago this girl that's feeling me me n her sister just chat on aim and ill say hib when I see her..she just admited to me just from sain hi to her and talkin n aim she has a crush on me....

So don't listen to the bullshit these ppl sayin how if he was ya friend he wouldn't do that...don't wait for a person to proove u wrong or right...shit that shit down asap

Cause as ya girl she suppose 2 know better
And as ya boy he should know better

I'm tellin u shut dat shit down...but I'm a b real with you don't stress it just speak ya mind da worst she can do is get mad n shit

Most likely shell go behind ya back n tell him

But shut dat shit down cuz they should know better...find someone else u can talk 2...shit talk 2 one of her friends n see how she feel

ItsWatevaKid
July 31st, 2006, 08:54 AM
YA BOI SHOULD KNOW...IF HE REALLY IS YOUR FRIEND HE WONT TRY TO FUCK UP SHIT WITH YOU N YOUR GIRL

smh u the type that know its gonna happen n just wait for it to be exposed

NoXiDe
July 31st, 2006, 09:00 AM
I wouldent be happy about my homie talking to my girl on the fone, for the simple fact i couldent imagine me foning one of my homies girls unless i was rining to ask for him

InspectahDeck718
July 31st, 2006, 04:35 PM
security is maturity^^ words to live by...

Eazy Da Snowman
July 31st, 2006, 09:52 PM
i feel all y'all.... i spoke 2 my girl and shit and i told her, listen ma i aint feelin dat u and my boy b talkin on da phone like dat and i'll appreciate it if u dont answer his phone calls or talk 2 him online... cuz she told me dat one time he and her was talkin and he was like where is my hey baby, when he called her... so i got tight ova dat, nah mean... and i called dude as soon as my girl told me and he was like ohh i cant talk right now... so by dat i kno dat nigga guilty of somethin, cuz this nigga got no life lol... he b in his crib da whole day doin nothin, so i told my girl dat its not her i dont trust, its him... but like somethin is tellin me they still gonna talk 2 each other or somehtin, but i aint gonna let dat bother me.... next time i see dat nigga, imma show him how a nigga from da hood handle his problems... feel me??

natethejewpimp
July 31st, 2006, 10:07 PM
hes gonna try and hit it...trust me, i have been that other dude... even if he didn't want to at first, he will have a lapse in judgement...unless ur girl is busted....

24 Kalibur
July 31st, 2006, 11:02 PM
ight this is da situation... my boy kinda been talkin 2 my girl but not on some o.d status, just as friends cuz he was tryna get wit her friend but it aint work out, now they friends and i aint comfortable wit it cuz of da fact dat im a jealous guy and i dont trust niggas... u cant trust niggas nowadays, nah mean... but u kno, i aint feelin dat they be talkin on da phone, and da fact is dat, da nigga neva tell me, yo i was talkin 2 ya girl or somethin u kno.. at least she tell me and shit, nah mean... i trust her alot, i love her... but im not startin 2 trust dude cuz of da fact dat i just dont trust niggas, not even my own boys, when it come 2 girls.... now should i worry about this or just trust dat nothin will happen...

keep negative shit outta this thread:tongue:

aiit almost same shit happen to me
i was talking to this chick and we was kicks or whatever and she started talking to my best friend since like 4th grade then i think they talked on da fone all innocent and wen we chill she always use to say call ur friend i hate being wit only 2 people i love wen ders more so im like yea ok. Then she goes on vacation and the nigga tells me hes been talkin to her but like he aint gon do non so im like aii w/e i stopped talking to the dude just cuz i wanted to befo and i didnt like how he talked to her so yee i stoped talkin to him and then she came from vacation shes like lets chill wit ur friend im like i dont talk to him she like all dis and dat im like yee w.e and then she chilled wit him a few times and now im not talkin to her or him and there going out....so never trust niggas Hoes over bros and Money over Hoes. :smoking:

Big Daddy Black
August 1st, 2006, 05:05 AM
now u tell him "now boi, i don't like dat damn tone u usin round my lady bout now"

CAN'T BAN DA SNOWMAN
August 1st, 2006, 08:46 AM
Observe da shit outta da nigga as son as he steps out of body B fuck his shit up

supafli690
August 1st, 2006, 09:08 AM
Honestly, none of my boys would be calling my girl up on the phone to talk. Not cuz I don't allow it, but there is a line of respect there and they know not cross it. I don't give a shit if he failed tryin to holla at a girl that my girl knows. Now if he needs to talk to her, he would come by to kick it with me, and if my girl happens to be around he would ask her whatever he needs to and there are no awkward moments.

Besides you will automatically know if there is something funny going on between them. You can just feel these things because you know your girl and your boys. But just stay on your P's and Q's about that.

ATTENTION TO DETAIL.

jiiggah
August 1st, 2006, 01:14 PM
its whateva kid is right... shut it down! SHe should no better and He should REALLY know better!.. iTs supposed to be bros before hoes and he suppose to know that, plus dudes dont have friends, like chris rock said we just have girls we havent fucked yet! if shes any kind of attractive he would go for it if given the chance if hes talking to her on the reg. You got to let that nigga know that shit is shady. "Know matter how pretty she is, you never likin my girl" -- Jay-z "Anything"

You are an honerary Real Nigga so act like it and stand up for yours!

HoneyDip_09
August 1st, 2006, 01:38 PM
yo man i have an idea of exactly wat u goin through.....you should be able to trust ya girl and kno that she wouldnt do anything to hurt you and if ya boy is a tru friend he wouldnt try to do anything either....so really its a matter of who u trust i mean is yo boy really the type to try and get wit yo girl? or is yo girl the type to get with yo boy? in this situation u gotta trust both of em if u dont then u gotta problem and might wanna end that shit now

Eazy Da Snowman
August 1st, 2006, 09:44 PM
yo man i have an idea of exactly wat u goin through.....you should be able to trust ya girl and kno that she wouldnt do anything to hurt you and if ya boy is a tru friend he wouldnt try to do anything either....so really its a matter of who u trust i mean is yo boy really the type to try and get wit yo girl? or is yo girl the type to get with yo boy? in this situation u gotta trust both of em if u dont then u gotta problem and might wanna end that shit now


i mean, i trust my girl more than dude but its like there's dat what if factor goin' on my mind, nah mean....

CALIMALE05
August 2nd, 2006, 08:00 AM
Don't trust that nigga man. i've been thru it. You need to tell him and her that you don't feel comfortable with them talkin in shit. I don't trust niggas cuz 1 of my old homeboy did some dirty azz shit 2 try and break me and my girl up because he was to get with her. Yeah man dont trust no nigga. Im pretty sure niggas dont trust you either so dont trust them.

InYourDreams
August 2nd, 2006, 08:37 AM
Hell no!!!

Ya boy is crossin a line that shouldnt be crossed.

InYourDreams
August 2nd, 2006, 08:39 AM
btw....if ur posting it here, youre already worried about it

Dub Boy
August 2nd, 2006, 09:06 AM
tell him not 2 call her again n tell her not to pick up if he calls. dats wa i did wen it happened 2 me n sure enuff it stopped(well i hope it did) at da end fo da day if u in a realationship n u aint ez wid an aspect of it make it clear

mezziebone
August 2nd, 2006, 09:43 AM
LOL. this nigga crazylmao ,

badboy
August 2nd, 2006, 03:05 PM
fuck it just have a threesome

Jowy
August 2nd, 2006, 04:03 PM
if he is really your FRIEND he wont do such a thing, but you right you never know nowadays with them snakes..and if he really was ya boy he woulda told ya like i just spoke to your girl or some..and have a convo with that nigga and show him how you feel about all this...

Collegeparkss
August 2nd, 2006, 05:13 PM
man, kill dat shyt ASAP. if u got dat feelin somethin right aint goin on , follow dat shyt. its when u go against yo gut feeling dat you get fuked ova and end up lookin like tha dumbazz in tha situation. i mean my nighas cool wit my gurl and say wassup to her when they see her but dats about as far as it go. i mean wha do they talk about on tha phone? unless he gay, i kno they aint talkin bout u tha whole time. shyt i got tha feelin ya boi is tryin layin tha foundation, dont ignore dat shyt cuz b4 u kno it this nigha done built a skyscraper on yo azz. but man, he violatin a unspoken code between niggas, "NEVER TRY TO TAKE YA HOMEBOI'S COOKIE OUT HIS MOUTH". dat shyt is foul and i done seen plenty niggas get fuked up ova dat type of shyt. i dont trust any nigga who say he just friends wit a decent lookin girl cuz 99.9% of those niggas would fuk if they had tha chance.

InYourDreams
August 2nd, 2006, 06:53 PM
fuck it just have a threesome
very interesting comment...most guys arent interested in a 3some where theres 2 males involved

Eazy Da Snowman
August 2nd, 2006, 10:50 PM
fuck it just have a threesome


WTF :puke: ... HELL NO :smh: