Long Distant Relationships-Do they work?

[YoungScarz]

Give me your opinion on Long Distant Relationships. Do you think they are ever successful?

I'm kind of in this boat. My girl went off to college which is like a 10 hour drive from where I live. What do you think? Should I let her go and move on to the next chick or should I try to make it work with her?

[RadioRaheim]

Fisrt of all, where the fuck you been at???? What up homie!

I'm doing a long distance relationship right now and to tell you the truth if you really want to keep the girl than it is very possible to have a strong long distance relationship! It's hard but you just have to man up!

[YoungScarz]

Fisrt of all, where the fuck you been at???? What up homie!

I'm doing a long distance relationship right now and to tell you the truth if you really want to keep the girl than it is very possible to have a strong long distance relationship! It's hard but you just have to man up!Yeah I've been busy man just enjoying my last days of high school which was like months ago, but now I've been workin as an intern at a architectural design studio.

Anyways back on the topic: sure its hard and it may be possible but I guess you gotta have a lot of trust in your girl if you want to make it work. I mean my way of thinking is, sooner or later me or her is going to meet someone else that we like and find appealing. And it's the fact that neither of you is there for each other (physically), which makes the your partner feel lonely and want someone there for them.

[Chuck-Taylor]

hey me and HoneyDip_09 in a long distance relationship philly to (roughly) Detroit. they TRULY test a relationship tho. i mean u cant just chalk it and say well ill find some1 else who there for me. if u really have feelings for ur girl yall can work thru it. hope all works well.

[Luda167]

yo son.
i'm in a long distance.
if u really love the girl. i'd say stick with her.
alot of trust is gonna be needed.
communication as much as possible is also needed.
depending on the depth and strength of your relationship
it'll make it thru any test thrown ya way...

the physical part is the hardest part to deal with.
but as much as possible visit each other.
like holidays and so on

*drop more on this later

*heads back to work*

[mostincredible]

they work if u make em work...if u put in tha work to make it happen then itll happen

[viciuzurban]

this ish been done to death...just find a way to make it work out...:smh: 10 hours aint far you make it out like shes in another country ...its the ultimate test of any relationship if you past this stage then anythings possible for your relationship you dont need to be on her ass 24/7 remember she time to herself too...

[hellsent859]

as long u aint meet her on myspace and u neva seen her in person lol

[I NaSmatic I]

No.

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[sizzle305]

mine did and will..

[Notorious DIP]

And it's the fact that neither of you is there for each other (physically), which makes the your partner feel lonely and want someone there for them.That statement could not be anymore untrue. I've been in a long distance relationship for 9 months now, and i love her more than anything (were each others first loves actually.) I have never felt lonely just because she isnt always here physically. There's things she's given me emotionally that no girl could have ever given 2 me, and i cherish ever single moment that i spend with her when i c her. I would never cheat because it would just seem so stupid 2 me 2 betray the girl that gives me more emotionally and mentally than 1000 girls could give me physically, and i know she thinks the same way. We're always there for each other everyday, all day on the other side of the phone if one of us is upset, angry, or just needs 2 laugh because we feel that we jsut need each other.

Really, to tell u the truth, i dont even find any other girls attractive anymore. Real talk, im dead serious, im not sayin that 2 just express how i would never really look at another girl in that manner, but i really cant look at any other girl and say that they are pretty because they just dont appeal to me at all, physically and emotionally.

I dont feel that i would ever get lonely in my long distance relationship, because i feel like if i let go of my girl, it would be like letting go of an essential part of me that i need 2 survive.

[crazycool]

id say...if u young like i know u are...it aint worth the worry man...life is short and sooner or later one of yall will fuck up and u dont wanna deal with that. mature thing to do is to move on..its too much stress and i dunno bout you butid rather nor jack off for most of my days or drive 10 hrs just to get some ass.

[snownsurfchic]

i've been in one that did, and one didn't work, the main thing is tho, you gotta want it to work, cuz its a big transition, but can't nobody here tell you what to do with ure girl, you gotta know if you wanna be with her and try to make it work or do you want somebody else, good luck either way tho, but they can work

[Chuck-Taylor]

id say...if u young like i know u are...it aint worth the worry man...life is short and sooner or later one of yall will fuck up and u dont wanna deal with that. mature thing to do is to move on..its too much stress and i dunno bout you butid rather nor jack off for most of my days or drive 10 hrs just to get some ass.

damn be optomistic nigga. it could be woth the worry if he feeling her a lot. mature thing would be to not bitch up and say 'bye ur leavin me get a new man.' im 18 my girl 19 yea we young but wtf we doin stickin w/ each other.

distance doesnt measure how much u care for some1. dont listen to niggas like this. :smh: :smh: :smh:

[crazycool]

im just saying man keep it real. if you young and the shorty ur with moves really far its hard to keep it together...every situation is different and if you really feel she is the one then by all means see it through. im speakin generally when i say move on cus the reality is that many ppl in their late teens to early twenties havent been through enough in life to tell them they have found that special person. being young is about new experiences, trying new things. you don't wanna find urself in the situation where u wait for years staying faithful and find that ur shorty just ran off with some other dude. cus that shit happens..alot. be smart. this is just my opinion ..everyones circumstance is different.

[Bizi]

And I thought I was crazy tryna make things work. Im in the same boat as all of yall... I guess communication is the main thing yall should get right. Be open and honest to each other and if you're determained to make it work, it will, provided both parties involved are on the same page...

[HoneyDip_09]

hey lemme tell u something long distance relationships SUCK ASS. its alot of work prolly even more than when u guys were together so i'd say if u truly love her stick with it if u dont then move on. and 10hrs aint shit try MI to PA. u can def do the 10 hr drive. but like i said if u willin to put in the work then stay wit ya girl

[Bizi]

hey lemme tell u something long distance relationships SUCK ASS. its alot of work prolly even more than when u guys were together so i'd say if u truly love her stick with it if u dont then move on. and 10hrs aint shit try MI to PA. u can def do the 10 hr drive. but like i said if u willin to put in the work then stay wit ya girl

Mi to PA aint shit... try different continents. Im in London, Uk and she in LA... Now tell me, is it worth it????

[YoungScarz]

Thanks guys. I made my decision.

[fatalfarrow]

and whats your decision?

[stloutkast]

i was in one for over a year and some change and she came to my crib for a while and she left pregnant......lol

[JoKeR777]

"AMOR DE LEJOS ES AMOR THE PENDEJOS"<<<<<<<<<<<<<ALWAYS REMEMBER THAT

[InYourDreams]

mine works.

If we make it through this, we can make it through anything

[gilx141]

yo son.
i'm in a long distance.
if u really love the girl. i'd say stick with her.
alot of trust is gonna be needed.
communication as much as possible is also needed.
depending on the depth and strength of your relationship
it'll make it thru any test thrown ya way...

the physical part is the hardest part to deal with.
but as much as possible visit each other.
like holidays and so on

*drop more on this later

*heads back to work*

give it like three-4 months and get back too us ,1!!!

[We$ton]

really depends how bad u want it, if its not a "serious" relationship then let her go, otherwise work wit it

[SuPreme1]

you gotta follow your heart...If you think you can trust her and she's going to be fatihful then stick it out but if you think she's gonna be doing her own thing then make the right decision. I always do my own thing just to be on the safe side.....

[InYourDreams]

You really learn alot about yourself when youre in one.

[sizzle305]

You really learn alot about yourself when youre in one.
word...

[yinyang]

yea it works if both of you are strong and you can tolerate it. but theres always the chance of cheating and thinking the person wont know.

[InYourDreams]

bump..

[sizzle305]

*scratches head*

[phil_rod]

the responses in this thread is pretty interesting, most of yall are pretty optimistic and/or in a long distance relationship... my last two were long distance relationship because of college (last relationship ended up being long distance, bout the last half of it). Thru my experience, I can't do long distance. I need the person there not only mentally but also physically, but i guess that is because my flesh is weak. Big up to everyone that is doin it and keepin it strong. I think I might need some lessons from yall just in case I get involved in another long distance.

[McGavockRaider]

Mine isnt quite long distance, but its still 45 mins away

[busyb]

they only work if you two aren't sweating each other, if you search around for what the other is doing, you're in trouble.

[InYourDreams]

My long distance is working for me..ina way, I've learned alot from it. I've learned how to trust and be trustworthy.

I am anxious for the day we dont have to do this, gas is costing us a fortune

[Sikskillz84]

long distant relationships do work !!!

[bigbody_lac]

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[InYourDreams]

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dude...next time i see you freepost in this section u get negged