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jayreason
June 15th, 2006, 08:58 AM
WHEN U WORK SO HARD AT IT N THE TRUST IS BASICALLY BACK WERE U FIRST STARTED WITH THE TRUST WITHIN YOUR RELATIONSHiP
REALTALK87
June 15th, 2006, 11:56 AM
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InYourDreams
June 15th, 2006, 02:48 PM
WHEN U WORK SO HARD AT IT N THE TRUST IS BASICALLY BACK WERE U FIRST STARTED WITH THE TRUST WITHIN YOUR RELATIONSHiP
is that a question or a statement?
TecH.N.I.C.aL
June 15th, 2006, 03:45 PM
whats the question?
vexvegaz
June 15th, 2006, 04:21 PM
in ur case, there is no really good answer to that. u have time invested in ur relationship and most importantly u have a baby together. its either try to find a way to work things out or jus be out. but no matter wut u decide always remember to do whats right for the baby, fuck wut u want and fuck ur pride, do right by ur child.
Cro$$_Roads1999
June 15th, 2006, 04:51 PM
lol is this just a statement or u tryin to get a question out?
THC
June 15th, 2006, 05:05 PM
WHEN U WORK SO HARD AT IT N THE TRUST IS BASICALLY BACK WERE U FIRST STARTED WITH THE TRUST WITHIN YOUR RELATIONSHiP

next time think before typing :idea:
InYourDreams
June 15th, 2006, 05:43 PM
who doesnt trust who? huh???

Jay!!! Getur ass back in here and explain what u talking about...its making me crazy wondering :shock:
Neph19d
June 15th, 2006, 07:35 PM
what the hell i thought i was gonna learn suttin
InYourDreams
June 15th, 2006, 08:39 PM
ok...I'm gonna guess that he's asking a question...just like the title of the thread

HOW TO FIX INSECURITY IN A RELATIONSHIP

And to that I'm gonna say, you cant "FIX" someone else. For one, we arent in relationships to "FIX" someone. When we do a relationship we try to get into them as mentally healthy people. Thats why alot of us shy away from people with major insecurities.

If one of the partners become insecure for whatever reason, the first thing i do is look at myself to see if I did something to bring it on. Maybe you did, maybe you didnt. If I did and I really really care about that person and I want to make it work, personally I'll go out of my way to make it right. If I didnt do anything, then its really not my problem , its theirs.
youngcity151
June 16th, 2006, 06:20 PM
no relationship would end if every nigga knew the answer to that one...all you can do is be trust worthty..don't do shit wrong and there shouldnt be shit to worry about
HoneyDip_09
June 17th, 2006, 02:35 AM
don't do shit wrong and there shouldnt be shit to worry about
that exactly wtf im talkin bout but no everybody's a fuck up
snownsurfchic
June 17th, 2006, 05:30 PM
what the hell i thought i was gonna learn suttin

haha, me too
Luda167
June 21st, 2006, 03:55 PM
if theres insecurity in a relationship
1st thing to do is stop and see how long its been there

and what caused it
then work it out from there
InYourDreams
June 21st, 2006, 04:13 PM
that exactly wtf im talkin bout but no everybody's a fuck up
Tru

Everyone makes mistakes.... EVERYONE fucks up once and awhile EVERYONE!! No one is a freekin saint. Either ya deal with it and move on, or end it, simple as that.
vexvegaz
June 21st, 2006, 04:42 PM
Either ya deal with it and move on, or end it, simple as that.
that might work for many if not moft people, but for me? im far too vindictive to ler her slide that easily. i will stay jus so i can shit on her @ every oppurtunity i get
InYourDreams
June 21st, 2006, 05:34 PM
that might work for many if not moft people, but for me? im far too vindictive to ler her slide that easily. i will stay jus so i can shit on her @ every oppurtunity i get

good luck with that, but thanks for the heads up
jimmy_loo_tong
June 21st, 2006, 06:25 PM
hmmmm....
sizzle305
June 22nd, 2006, 12:38 AM
wtf's goin on in here... theres arguin but it aint reason and his "hottie"
TP2000
July 6th, 2006, 12:40 AM
it ithink the security and trsut thing go hands and hand they both parties have to be willing to walk in the door and give it