Just lookin at it as "what the hell?"

[++>THAT_female]

For the fellas;been with this one youngin for about a good seven months,problem is,theres crap lying around from exs and memories,say pics that shouldnt be where they are.is it appropriate to bring it up,or just keep silent since "past is past"?And,stupid to ask,but does it mean he still holdin feelings?

[Luda167]

if he still has it around.. the past hasnt gone anywhere.

[vivali ny]

yeah he still want the other girl

[InYourDreams]

For the fellas;been with this one youngin for about a good seven months,problem is,theres crap lying around from exs and memories,say pics that shouldnt be where they are.is it appropriate to bring it up,or just keep silent since "past is past"?And,stupid to ask,but does it mean he still holdin feelings?
Nope its not stupid..tell him that shit has got to go!!

[++>THAT_female]

so,would it be straight if i confronted him about it?Put it this way:i havent said shit cz there's a reasonw hy he has them right,so it wouldnt make a difference if he took them out or not..what would yall say if you was in this situation?

[Luda167]

in somehow and someway.. speaking from a guys point of view.
holding on to things such as those.
means he still wanting something in the past to come back
and is probly living the past thru u.. maybe

[InYourDreams]

I wouldnt ask any questions...I'd just make my stand

[THC]

so,would it be straight if i confronted him about it?Put it this way:i havent said shit cz there's a reasonw hy he has them right,so it wouldnt make a difference if he took them out or not..what would yall say if you was in this situation?

only if she died does he have the right to keep stuff, but even then that is creepy :smh:

[FuCkDaPrEz305]

He probably cant let go...Do you know if it was something really serious or if he lost her in a tragic way?...

[++>THAT_female]

naw,dont knoe a damn thing about her,who she is,if they've dated in the past.What i'm comming up with is that it was a "while-ago" crush,but regardless,it's still there;i dont have any pictures of niggas on my phone,in my wallet,on my walls;they're all in this box of pictures,just sitting there,so obviously it's something big since he carries it in his wallet and that wallet's just been purchased

[Luda167]

something is messed up with that...
if he has so much of someone in the past around him
in the ways u've mentioned

dont ask any questions.. things are pretty obvious.
just make where u stand known..

[DblockKidd]

just ask him y he still got that stuff still hangin around n dependin on the answer u might feel sympathetic n just let it slide for a lil while longer till u fed up again. or angry on the spot n tell him to get rid of it or box it up. unless he tryin to use u to get over her but it aint workin. ionno

[cp3boy]

I know Id have more than a couple of questions if I seen a girl I was with having some other dudes pics and memiores lying round. Id ask her str8 up "Do you still like her"?? So "Do you still wanna be with her"?? And jus see where it goes from there ya know

[Eazy Da Snowman]

in somehow and someway.. speaking from a guys point of view.
holding on to things such as those.
means he still wanting something in the past to come back
and is probly living the past thru u.. maybe


i agree, dat girl must've been real special 2 him if he still has pics and stuff like dat of her, no guy is gonna keep pics of girlz they wasnt feelin no more, nah mean...