Long Distance Relationships...Do they work?

[izwizzle]

I been off the forums for a good min and i dont know if its been covered already but how do ya'll feel about long distance relationships.....I moved to GA recently and my girl was supposed to go to school down here....Some shit went down and now she goin to a school in Maryland...We talked about it and nah mean im tryin to explain to her that i feel that long distance relationships just dont work...She on some shit like...what, you dont trust me?....but it aint even like that..I kno my freshman year in college waz crazy cuz it was soooo many new females to pick from....Niggaz let me kno this was gon be the situation b4 i started school so i knew to go in single, just to avoid the drama....Im thinkin its gon be the same situation for her and its gon be some nigga that can do what i cant cuz im not there on the everyday....Outside of my situation, i feel long distance relationships dont work in general bcuz all ya'll got is phone convos with little to talk about but memories cuz its not like ya'll been chillin together....maybe im jus on some otha shit....wut ya'll think??

[ßųşŧą Ņůţ]

damn how far is dat?....i guess it depends if u actually love her or not...if not go fuk around but if u tinkin she's da one and only keep it going cuz its just a test!

unless its dirt far then i dono i coudln't do it haha

[Cro$$_Roads1999]

simple answer is NO they never work trust me..

[InYourDreams]

they can

[¤[J]@Da[M]wUaH{K}i$$¤]

naw,,,,,,,,

[streets]

they can work. but yall gotta be real strong, and if you going into it with the attitutude that it ain't gonna work, and you don't trust her, it ain't gonna work.

Long distance does not work for all people and all relationships.

[streets]

damn how far is dat?....i guess it depends if u actually love her or not...if not go fuk around but if u tinkin she's da one and only keep it going cuz its just a test!

unless its dirt far then i dono i coudln't do it haha

well, MD to North carolina is about 5 hours, and I think GA is 3 hours from NC (I think), so you talking far enough!!

[Luda167]

they can work. but yall gotta be real strong, and if you going into it with the attitutude that it ain't gonna work, and you don't trust her, it ain't gonna work.

Long distance does not work for all people and all relationships.tru word... its all about commitment, trust, determination and motivation..

[InYourDreams]

tru word... its all about commitment, trust, determination and motivation..sometimes no matter how much you want to trust, and try to trust. Something is said or implied that gives you that little tiny splinter of doubt. You can be totally commited but if the person on the other side is grimey and sneaky its just never gonna work.

[viciuzurban]

well, MD to North carolina is about 5 hours, and I think GA is 3 hours from NC (I think), so you talking far enough!!

yes and no. if the distance between you is like 5 or 8 hours you can travel to c her. i do that shit often. even surprise her. drive or get on a bus. its about sacrifice. if shes the one do that shit. if she brushes you off forget about it. but i admit that i kinda gave up on relationships in the past. like totally didnt care. but even sometimes contact between two friends can get kinda hard. people move on. thing is do they still have the time for you. people change. people get new friends. how many of you obvioulsy keep in touch wif ya friends from skool. me one or two. thats it.

[Luda167]

sometimes no matter how much you want to trust, and try to trust. Something is said or implied that gives you that little tiny splinter of doubt. You can be totally commited but if the person on the other side is grimey and sneaky its just never gonna work.also tru. mostly everything depends on the level of depth both ppl are on while in the relationship...

[kayy0ungn]

it works as long as she got webcoma and some toys and dat yahoo messeger big help
yeah and callin like she stays in the next street u keep check on each otha if a little faith is added

[vexvegaz]

sometimes no matter how much you want to trust, and try to trust. Something is said or implied that gives you that little tiny splinter of doubt. You can be totally commited but if the person on the other side is grimey and sneaky its just never gonna work.exactly!!

[sanguine_rosary]

if there is true love, no distance will matter (as long as u will get together SOME day :P)
cause theres nothing like waiting TOO long for something good, as they say.

but if u have already thought about all those girls u can pick from, then it doesnt look like ure head over heels in love with ur girl.. and then prolly not gonna work..

[harlem1]

They can work, but both people have to be committed 100% to it. Its a lot of work, I think people need to sit and think is the other person worth all the trouble.

[DATBOIBOOCHIE]

tried it. im not sayn it wont work for some ppl but it didnt work for me

[yOuRz_TrUlY922]

i tried the LDR thing and It lasted for about 6 months, it turned out i was more commited than he was. the reality was he didnt giva a shit and told me my feeling didnt matter so i ended cuz it wasnt my ideal relationship. he started to change and actlike an asshole so thats exactly how i treated him......like an asshole

[TxMothaFucka214]

no....i almost had 1 going but we was kinda far.....not worth it i think


San Antonio (her) Me (dallas) but i met her in person not no internet shit

[deepdish]

i was in a long distance relationship she lived an hour away but i mean if u guys want it u can make it work its all about dtermination and trust if u dont think its goin to work it wont u gotta be positive if u really like this chick

[InYourDreams]

I guess I must be one of the exceptions...because mine is going great!

[SNAKEEYES4]

Im in a LDR rite now and itz workin shes in NY and im in FL but it workz cuz we tawk like i live next door and we trust each other

[lilbuddha24]

they can work, but its definitely not for everybody. both people in the relationship have to be very strong and very committed. its going to take a lot of love, trust, and restraint. you have to go in with the mentality that she is "the One" and she has to think the same way about you or else it most likely isnt going to work. ive been in a long distance relationship for about a year and a half now and its going just fine. where theres a will theres a way. Good luck

[CAN'T BAN DA SNOWMAN]

nope not really they suck