Ladies: Scrolling Thru YA Man's CELL? Right or Wrong?

[viciuzurban]

Spinoff thread wit that emails

Shit brings back memories....

Private Callers....etc, shorties, hoes, trikz

My logic is if u want to know, just ask. All the sneaking and random phone checks when imma not looking is stupid. U are being sneaky at what u are doing therefore giving me reason not to trust u while u don't trust me.

If he has given you no reason to think that he is cheating or doing wrong then there is NO NEED to go through the phone. Even if he was doing something to cause you to think otherwise, you don't go through the phone. I know you will say if he has nothing to hide then it should be alrgiht. That's like saying that he has money in a bank account and you think he is bringing in more than he say he is, you can't just go to the bank snooping and shit. You get to looking for something you GONNA find it. Is he not supposed to have friends or has that been established? Do you have guys numbers in your phone? Does he know....probably not because he has not been through it looking for something. Since you didn't tell him you probably didn't have a reason for doing it other than being nosey. Now if he went through yours and found something and researched and "FOUND" something would you be more upset that he found out or went through your phone? See this leads back to women saying black men are no good. You will not give him "LOVE" until you do your "research", but if you would not have been a "typical" female and went through the phone he would be on the short end of the stick. Then when it turns out to be nothing you will continue to do it because you found something the first time and it's no longer prove me wrong, but PROVE ME RIGHT you are looking for

dont do it you will just get :mad:

[InYourDreams]

listen to u..lol...U act like chicks are the only ones that do this

[viciuzurban]

^ haha

[viciuzurban]

i got an industry secret about beyonce although i dont know how much of a secret it is....but she lies about her age....shes more like in her late 20's around 28-29 maybe even 30 not 24 or 25

[rated_ex]

Guys do the same thing so I don't know why you addressed it to the ladies...Having the opposite sex's phone number in your phonebook shouldn't matter. Who cares? If you don't trust the person than you shouldn't be together in the first place. I look in my gurls phone but I know she don't do nothing so I only mess with her and ask why this fools in there, and so on..But just messing around and laughing. She does the same thing..

Oh and I didn't feel like reading the essay...So if a point I made is in your essay, then ignore it. Lol

So to the title:
Not wrong.

[ESSENCE1]

i do that shit 2 lol..
but i got a code so no 1 can really use my fone unless they ask 4 the security code..
and no 1 ever ever ever gets the security code.. so im good.. i leave my fone were ever wen im around my girls.. lol

[snownsurfchic]

this fact is that its not just females that do this, me, i dont go into my mans phone because as much as id like to be the first one to find out if hes doin somethin behind my back, im not going to go into his phone looking for it, i mean going into a phone and like looking at text messages makes no sence b/c the littlest things can seem so serious, but really they dont mean anything, u feel me. its like if my man went into my messages hed see several guys text messages from other dudes seein what im doin at like 2 in the mornin, and yeah, it might sound suspicious, but im not doin nething, no matter what it seems like, but if it were reversed and i saw females were saying the things that some guys say to me, i wouldnt know that some are inside jokes and some are just bored, u know what i mean, i dont want to go looking for trouble because thats all you are going to find, and id rather just take it from his actions and from everything that i know about him to make that decision, not look thru his phone to find out.

"the only thing you have to fear is fear itself"
-FDR

if you think somethings going to happen, ure going to make it happen and if you go into a phone looking for trouble your going to analyze til you find it.

[newembee]

listen to u..lol...U act like chicks are the only ones that do this

yup...

[beautiful_dyme]

hate that,if i was a guy n my gurl checked my phone it's over.

[Collegeparkss]

mannnn i got to admit at first i used to do dat cuz i aint trust no female. i mean if ya gurl textin, textin, textin of course u gon be like dayum who she talkin to? cuz tha thang bout text messages is there is no voice u can hear so dont kno who they are talkin to. but wit and my gurl now, shyt i leave my phone around her all tha time and visca versa. shyt when my homegurls call i put them on speakerphone or 3-way cuz i got nothin to hide and she do tha same thang. we see it as a joke to go through each others phone, not a trust issue. tha only problem i would have is if i saw a nigga number in her phone dat i neva saw b4 cuz i feel like once u start talkin to a nigga, aint no acceptin applications from otha niggas and takin a nigga number or givin your number out is a no-no if u in a relationship.

[summer_meadow]

wow i have only heard storys about men going through chicks phones... i go through my mans phone all the time he ain't got nothing to hide.... and it's not to see if he is hiding anything cause he and most people wouldn't be stupid enough to leave something in there if they were doing something behind someones back..... lol.... but yeah i dun think it's a big deal and neither should the person unless they do have something to hide...

[InYourDreams]

i really dont care if he goes through my phone. I leave it layin around all the time. He can listen to my voice mails too..i dont care

[ThA PriNceSS]

listen to u..lol...U act like chicks are the only ones that do this

True.....ive scrolled threw my mans phone and hes gone threw mine.
Or he'd try to answer my phone. I never tried to answer his tho....

[chelolo]

I went through my boyfriend phone before only because he had went through mine but it's not somethin I do all the time. He look through mine a lot. I could care less about his though.

[ßUGZ¥]

girls have to learn how to mind their usiness.... if u dont trust da man ure goin out with then mite aswell break up, all dat goin through da cellphone shit is either gona make u feel bad if u do see somethin u didnt want to see and if u say somethin abt it u can rest asured he aint gona trust u agen or make u feel bad for not trustin him. either way ull b better off not goin through it. i delete ma messages and evrythin suspicious by da way

[Collegeparkss]

girls have to learn how to mind their usiness.... if u dont trust da man ure goin out with then mite aswell break up, all dat goin through da cellphone shit is either gona make u feel bad if u do see somethin u didnt want to see and if u say somethin abt it u can rest asured he aint gona trust u agen or make u feel bad for not trustin him. either way ull b better off not goin through it. i delete ma messages and evrythin suspicious by da way


why would u have somethin suspicious if u wasnt fukin round?

[sweetz254]

never went threw his phone.. but if i wanted to all i had to do was ask.. he woulda gave it up.. and men do it too.. cus he would go threw my phone all the time..

[serrajkk]

i think a cell is confidential and snooping around in someone elses is just gonna make u more insecure. shldnt be done. aint saying i've never done it thoguh :smh:

[DisLilHoTtie]

ya it's right.....like if he is out and you don't know where he has been that would be the frist thing a look at

[sizzle305]

its wrong...... i hate anybody touchin my phone...ANYBODY

[whokid939]

yea id let a girl scroll through my phone. All the other girls are on code names. like if this chics name is brittney id call her brit . haha the only problem is when the chic actually calls you have to remember all those names. Ive got caught up on that shit before. and make a habit and keep ur phone on silent all the time so if another girl calls when ur with ur girl you wont look shady by not answering it and she wont be suspicious. shit works like a charm.

[biggy8481]

my ex used to go throught my phone all the time, the sad part is she had it more than me... had it while I was at work, when I went out, etc. talkin bout "I don't want you talking to no other bitches", and constantly acusing me of shit. had to get away from her. Now my WIFE don't do that, my phone is a toy to her, let her play solitaire or something, we real close and trust isn't an issue. I used to wonder what that felt like, now that I know I ain't NeVeR goin back.

[$$YUNGCANIBUS$$]

my girl does this all the time.. :smh:

[so_seductive]

well let me put it this way...if he has nothing to hide then it really should not matter...otherwise it's wrong...

[TecH.N.I.C.aL]

nothin to hide here....

[4104Life]

Shit sucks, my girl broke up with me twice...over some text messages from other girls lol. I never used to mind her doing that until she found a picture of my ex (who I was ONLY friends with at the time)...it was a revealing picture tho but still, trust is everything. It got to the point I finally broke up with her because she was goin nuts over it and what she doesn't know is the more accuse me of something the more you gonna drive me to it. But now we go back together she doesn't go thru my cell anymore she just ask who it is when somebody call...and snaps if she hears a girls voice.

[sneaksntits]

lol..i dont really care...the other day she went through it and started asking questions for girls numbers she didnt know...i find it funny..i have nothing to hide so i could care less...if i was doing anything wrong i wouldnt put it in my cell anyway

[yOuRz_TrUlY922]

well I have told my bf that I was but I didnt. He was sitting right there though. In all honesty I really dont care whats on his phone unless he gives me a reson to suspect otherwise.

[DJ_Koo$hie_86]

I don't like that my girl goes thru my phone ESPECIALLY nowadays since she's my ex. It shows no trust & it gets me angry str8 up. I never go thru hers. Not nemore. I trust her even tho we ain't even together. Plus there's no point, she deletes her recent calls. I don't...even tho I'm sure ppl kno bout juss deletin' the call that u don't want ur girl or guy to see & keep all the other recent calls so it doesn't look obvious ;) I learned that awhile ago :D