~heart breakers~

[beautiful_dyme]

have u ever been heart broken in the past and it affected u so much that u continued 2 do this 2 other ppl?

Or have u ever treated someone really good and they have been treated badly in the past so they take it out on u or treat u wrongfully?

i've seen this 2 many times,especially wit dudes.if a gurl breaks up wit them,they take it out on other females who treat them rite. :smh:

but this happens wit females 2,u noe the old saying "one man can make a women hate all men".

[InYourDreams]

sure, happens all the time..people get issues

If a guy cheats on me, Im gonna be looking for the next one to do the same. its not right tho. But it still happens

Yeah, i have treated someone badly. He deserved everything he got tho



i had to edit cuz i thought about it

[streets]

I think I have shut down more than anything. Not so much treated people bad, but I didn't give them anything more than chick status. Didn't allow any in that wifey material area.

[beautiful_dyme]

as a young gurl i've seen dudes treat gurl's lyke shit bcuz i wasn't the one they always wanted.it wasn't neassaryly towards me,but i've sen how a guy could switch gears into being a nice guy in front of her,but really just trying 2 play her.i swear 2 god that i would never love a dude ever.that went well until i trusted a man,now we livehappily ever after.

[viciuzurban]

....bring on the heartbreak....

[Collegeparkss]

i tried to avoid dat by just keepin hoes on tha team and keepin them at a distance, cuz i saw every how gurls smile in her nigga face and fukin wit anotha nigga on tha side. but i let one gurl get close to me and decided to get close to her. she ended up fukin ova me and i felt like shyt for ignorin my instincts to keep all females at a distance. she told me she thought i was "doin my thang" too , which i kinda was, cuz tha niggas she used to fuk wit used to do tha same thang. i realized dat u cant do that though cuz if u do yo life is gon to be shitty. everybody need a partna in life dat they can trust and confide in. itz plenty of real females and niggas in tha world, u just have to give everybody a clean slate and dont carry grudges.

[KASPEЯ]

a course shit like this happens. peeple lose they trust wit uva peeple all the time. it happend 2 me n now i cant trust any girl no matta how bad i wanna. i dont treat em bad but i cant trust em........

[Immaqulate]

i've never been treated badly and inflicted that upon someone else, but i have been jerked and that made me apprehensive of the next. honestly, i think that why most of us grow afraid to play ourselves.

[DATBOIBOOCHIE]

yea im like dat cuz dis one gurl i really loved broke my heart so i promised myself to neva fall in luv again. and know i think all girls is juss like her. i know its not a good but i can't help it

[The Wife]

I try not to let myself go there.

[Luda167]

makes no sense to take it out on another girl(in my case) cuz its just gonna be a continuing circle of bs.. so best thing to do is try moving on the best u can .. learn from what went bad and making best of the future

[Eazy Da Snowman]

we all learn from our mistakes, ya kno... some of us should try and move on, even though its hard, nah mean.. da girl im wit now, she went out wit this dude for like 3 yrs and he got cheated on her, he slept wit some other chick and dat kinda fucked her head up 2 trust a nigga... she trust me but not fully, nah mean... and i'll stick wit shorty cuz she da wifey type and i kno she'll have full trust on a nigga sooner or later, nah mean...

[beautiful_dyme]

^that;s good.i never trusted guys,not really bcuz of experience,but what i notcied.i thought guys never cared about gurls,so i didn't ever try.

[EmperorMACC]

nope...never

Its not my problem if a gurl wants to behave like a hoe....its hers...

[4104Life]

Yea happens all the time it's part of the game, most recent for me was yesterday I found out one of my best dudes since the 4th grade (i'm 20 now) just hooked up with a girl that I have feelings for and fucked like a few weeks ago, and they tried to hide the shit from me and another nigga ended up tellin me, so it hurt that they couldn't be strait up with me and I went thru drama all this week cause people thought I was beefin with my dude. I wished him the best because me and him are cool for life and it's bros over hoes, but her on the other hand...kinda grimey she told me she would never hook up with one of my friends, life goes on...

[The Teflon Don]

yes :(

fuck it tho..just move on and play more bitches like they'd do you :smoking:

[InYourDreams]

guess i should add

I treated him badly cuz he cheated on me and i found out

[Cabres]

This is a problematic cycle that we all go thru. It's just that we all tend to bring out past experiences into our current situation.

I've been strongly crushed from past relationships. Some going way too deep to the point where I thought I couldn't ever get out of the ditch that it put me in. And, unknowingly, I took it out on other folks. So, at that point, I decided to make myself change. And, that's not something that you can just snap out of overnight. I mean, sometimes I'll catch myself doing stuff out of hurt/anger to someone that they didn't even cause me.

When you go thru it, you don't even know that you really are doing it. And, once you're conscious of it, it's up to you to decide what you're going to do. Are you going to be true to yourself, and learn from what happened and don't let it control you. Or, are you going to turn on yourself, and become the very thing that you came to hate.

It's a process that I'm still working on breaking out of. I'm not a bad guy. I'm very caring in my relationship that I'm currently in. And, I know that I may never be perfect. But, I also know that people always have room to make themselves better. Because, of course, no one is perfect. We just all have to choose which flaws we can live with, and which ones we must discard. And, hurting people for problems that others cause should not be one to live with.

[me2]

Cant blame the person who does this..they just tryin protect them selfs..

[churchntroy2]

yea that shit happened to me once but i learned a lesson from it u cant be too nice to these women they take that shit for granted they want to argue and have problems if they dont have problems they get bored so u gotta say, fuck you, No, Fuck that, Get outta Here,etc.... every now and then so they have something to complain about, as long as they have that they're good.

[Shogun0125]

I treated my ex like a queen. Tried everything to make her happy. But she did shit that would hurt me. And now we don't talk.

[§hÄdY¤FîGuRê]

well ive been heartbroken and i aint really look 2 break some1 elses heart .. i was stuck on tha fact that i just got mah heartbroken

[Neph19d]

i didnt read it lol